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Originally Posted by adogwithsunglasses
i think that cats are a proxy for other feelings about your ex and as for your brother i think it is a bit weird wanting to get naked in front of your family members. it looks there is acceptance issues all round to be honest :s
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This is something that irritates me a lot. People seem to think that i have feelings for my ex still. I split up with him two years ago, it was me that broke it off, i even tried to set him up with one of my friends last year.
I was going round to his to see my cats but i was getting extreemly bored and irritated by him, and irritated by rumours between my friends that there was still something going on, and so i wanted to bring them to my place so i can spend time with them properly without him. I have stopped going round, i have my cats one night a week, but his reaction is that i cant have them and that i have to come round to see them.
It isnt me thats done this to "get one over" on him, i was doing fine, maybe a bit upset that i cant spend more time with them. To me it seems to be him that doesnt like me doing fine on my own. I used to go and spend time with him as just friends, but now that im off doing my own thing and dont want to spend time arround him he seems to have gone for what would hurt me most.
07-11-2009, 06:35 PM
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