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Old 20-01-2009, 11:20 PM
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Tightforkskin

After having sex 1 or 2 times (my first couple of times)
I think i have rather tight forsking...

When my penis is 'floppy' or idk what you call it...
I can pull the forskin right back, no problems it's fine etc.

when im half floppy it's fine too..

But when, im full on standing for attention (fully errect)

I can only pull my forsking 1/2 way maybe more over my bellend (techinicall term?)

I was wondering, what can i do to be able to pull it back fully
and enjoy sex, i would say that it was painful, just a lil bit of uncomfiness.

And it wasn't to pleasurable. (The girl seem'd to be enjoying herself )

Any help would be great, thanks
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Old 21-01-2009, 12:36 AM
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i dont have much advise but i have exactly same problem as you i was too shy to ask bout it im glad you did i slept with a girl on friday and i got a sore forskin and got a little cut it hurt and i couldnt cum cus it was unpleasureable
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Old 21-01-2009, 01:21 AM
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Go see your GP to see if it's anything that needs attention - ie, circumcision.
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Old 21-01-2009, 08:52 AM
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I think i have rather tight forsking...
In the most drastic circumstances (not yours!), a partial or full circumcision may be required BUT you can try some stretching techniques before you even contemplate going down this route. It sounds to me that this is all you need - to stretch thr skin a bit.

Use baby oil, Vaseline intensive care hand and body lotion, Nivea or any bland cream as a lubricant. Pull the foreskin forward away from the body several times then pull it back and hold it in the stretched position for several minutes twice daily. When the hole is large enough insert your thumb , or smaller finger if necessary, into the foreskin and grip the glans ( the head of the penis) between finger and thumb. Roll the foreskin over the thumb until the tight ring is white with stretching. Hold it in this position as long as you can at a time - say 5 minutes. .

Repeat as often as you have the time and enthusiasm for.

If later you find there is room for two or more fingers then use them. If time permits even better results may be possible if you soak your penis in warm water for some minutes before you start to stretch.

If you do stretching exercises every day, you will see a marked improvement within a couple of months.
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Old 21-01-2009, 09:47 AM
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In the most drastic circumstances (not yours!), a partial or full circumcision may be required BUT you can try some stretching techniques before you even contemplate going down this route. It sounds to me that this is all you need - to stretch thr skin a bit.

Use baby oil, Vaseline intensive care hand and body lotion, Nivea or any bland cream as a lubricant. Pull the foreskin forward away from the body several times then pull it back and hold it in the stretched position for several minutes twice daily. When the hole is large enough insert your thumb , or smaller finger if necessary, into the foreskin and grip the glans ( the head of the penis) between finger and thumb. Roll the foreskin over the thumb until the tight ring is white with stretching. Hold it in this position as long as you can at a time - say 5 minutes. .

Repeat as often as you have the time and enthusiasm for.

If later you find there is room for two or more fingers then use them. If time permits even better results may be possible if you soak your penis in warm water for some minutes before you start to stretch.

If you do stretching exercises every day, you will see a marked improvement within a couple of months.
On another board there was this 13 year old kid with the same prob and someone described the stretching exercise you've described and he was overcome with happiness. I really think boys issues are sometimes not ignored but difficult to talk about because we are quite shy and doctor-averse.

I think it's great to be able to support our brothers like this
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Old 21-01-2009, 11:52 AM
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On another board there was this 13 year old kid with the same prob and someone described the stretching exercise you've described and he was overcome with happiness. I really think boys issues are sometimes not ignored but difficult to talk about because we are quite shy and doctor-averse.

I think it's great to be able to support our brothers like this
Penises cause boys so much angst, don't they? And the simple exercises described do actually work!

Now if only I could find that exercise that really does make a penis bigger .... hmmmmm ...
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Old 21-01-2009, 06:07 PM
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Im pretty sure that other board was me xD
Mines still tight actually, but tegan helped a lot.
So id definatley reccomend listening to him
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im gonna give it a try
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A sensible answer
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Old 21-01-2009, 09:48 PM
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mines fairly tight.. but if you're sexing with a condom then it will numb you and you'll be a 90 minute stallion :-)
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i last ages cus i dont get pleasure chicks dig it haha
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Wow teagen, that really worked, i don't have tight forskin no more..

Quite supprised no one noticed the spelling mistake in my title, "fork skin" lol
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Old 23-01-2009, 08:37 AM
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Wow teagen, that really worked, i don't have tight forskin no more..

Quite supprised no one noticed the spelling mistake in my title, "fork skin" lol
I'm glad to have helped. Keep doing it for a while longer though to ensure that the skin does loosen up properly and doesn't retract to its previous state.

And yes, I did see that you had misspelt 'foreskin' but when someone has serious concerns like you had, pointing out your spelling mistakes seemed inappropriate.
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I used to have a similar problem. My foreskin didn't retract at all (I didn't even know it could!), but now I can pull it all the way back when flaccid and erect. I never even saw a doctor.
If, after a few months of doing this, nothing improves it could be something else, but this is highly unlikely.
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