Fondling the Penis
Sex means more than intercourse; exploring all the different variations enhances your sex life and keeps it from getting stale. Masturbating your partner can be very exciting for both of you. So, read on and learn how to let your fingers do the walking . . . .
Mutual masturbation can be a thrilling experience, but first, we need to study the basics of manual technique. Most men feel women aren't skilled at handling penises. Their grips are too limp, lacking conviction and exuberance. They seem afraid to apply pressure, yet often pull or tug at inappropriate moments, disrupting the rhythm. They also have a tendency to scratch. Clearly, we all need to be more knowledgeable about the proper methods of mutual masturbation. Either you or your partner can perform the following exercises. But it is written with an experienced woman in mind.
The first concern is always a matter of size. Is it large or small ? Somewhere in between ? No issue has ever received greater attention than the size of a man's penis. Man's obsession with cock size is probably a mental vestige of his primitive primate past, but as far as human sexuality is concerned, it's a waste of time. A large penis doesn't have any effect on a woman's physical enjoyment unless she has a deep-seated psychological attachment to well-endowed men.
How about its shape ? Is it curved like a boomerang or is it straight like an arrow ? Does your fist fit around the spongy mass of the shaft ? Does your hand completely engulf it ? This is good because you can squeeze it all at once. But don't be an organ grinder. Be gentle, yet firm. If the penis has an unusual girth, your hand may not completely encircle it. In such cases, try both hands to insure you don't miss any of the tender areas while stroking.
Explore every square inch of his genital surface area. A man loves to have his penis worshiped, played with, tickled, fondled, massaged. Let him know that you are not afraid, ashamed or disgusted.
Don't start stroking or jerking quite yet. Just feel the fullness of it all. Let your fingers run from the balls to the top of the cock head, swirl around there, then slide back down the other half and end back down at the balls. The movements should be swift and smooth, without bumping or stalling.
Now you're ready for some stepped-up action, but you don't want to suddenly lapse into a series of beatings, whackings, jackings and jerkings. Tease the more sensitive areas of the penis. These include: the glans and corona, and the tender part of the bottom side of his penis.
Bring your palm up to the top of the glans and park it there flat out, fingers held together and stiff, thumb pointed straight out. Spin it around as if you were trying desperately to remove the tight lid of a jar. Your man will be groaning in delicious agony. The glans is super sensitive and this motion will bring him exquisite pleasure. He might grimace and cry out, and probably try to push your hand away, but he's loving every second of it. Now's your chance to be the one who plows ahead even though he's pleading with you to stop !
After you've done this for a while, slip your hand down his testicles and ever-so-gently grab them in your fingers, softly tugging them down away from his shaft. If they are big and bulky, like Grade AA eggs, bounce them up and down a couple of times in your hand. Tell him how heavy they feel, how sexy they are. Whatever you do, don't squeeze them ! This could put a real damper on your lovemaking for the rest of the day. You might notice that one of his nuts hangs lower than the other. This is perfectly normal. Once you feel comfortable with the way his balls feel in your hand, gently roll them up the underside of his shaft. Depending on their size and the amount of room in the scrotum, they will most likely reach to half way of his penis. He will like the way this feels.
Now, let go of his testicles and bring your fingers together in a makeshift goosehead formation. Very lightly, begin to stroke his erection with your fingers, running them all over his sensitive shaft and balls. You may wish to slip the pocket of your goosehead handhold over the tip of his penis, letting it rest there for a few seconds.
About this time, the penis will probably start to emit its natural lubricant. Pre-seminal fluid is nature's way of moistening the canal of the urethra so that the spermatozoa can swim more easily out of it; it also lubricates the head of the penis. An uncircumcised penis gathers up this lubricant within the foreskin and keeps the head very moist and slick. Use the juice to lubricate the shaft. Sometimes, its musky smell can be an aromatic aphrodisiac for you both. If there is little or no pre-cum, don't be concerned. It is not a requirement, and it doesn't always appear at exactly the same time. In any case a good lubricant will work just as well. Add a drop of moisturizing lotion to the shaft and gently rub it in.
If your partner doesn't seem to have a very firm erection, try using a cinnamon-based ointment which you can find at your local sex novelty store or acquire through a mail catalog. The slight burning sensation often causes the penis to become rock-hard. Adding a little dab to the testicles also helps. If you really want to do a number on him, slip a dollop of Ben-Gay on his balls and watch him go through the roof. One of the secrets of great manual sex is varying your hand motions. Here are a few indispensable techniques:
Switch Hitter :
Use both hands, alternating back and forth in a pattern you develop to offer him the most arousal. He will notice the difference. Don't get into a routine where the strokes are dull, and noncommittal. Give it to him good. Get him to the point where he's singing out, " I second that hand motion ! "
Double Whammy :
How about going double or nothing ! Bring both well-lubricated hands down on his shaft. Some cocks are so big they require both hands. If your partner's doesn't, then use the other hand to caress and lightly flutter his balls, or tighten around the base of his shaft. If both hands fit along the length of the shaft, move then together, up and down, in the typical pumping motion. Pretend you're holding a baseball bat and are about to score a grand slam. You can also vary the directions of your hands, one up, one down at the same time. There's no doubt that two hands are better than one.
The Anvil Stroke :
Bring one hand down, letting it stroke the penis from the top all the way to the bottom. When it hits the bottom, release it. Meanwhile you're bringing your corresponding hand down to the top of the shaft, creating an alternating beating motion, hence the name " Anvil stroke " Think of those blacksmith duos who keep up a double beat pounding motion as they beat that rod of iron on a piping-hot anvil.
The shuttle Cock :
Not many people have heard of the " Shuttle cock " but it's one of the best. Take the penis in both hands, fingers lightly touching the sides of the shaft. In order to visualize the position, think of yourself holding a clarinet. Now flick the penis back and forth between your two hands by holding on to the loose skin of the shaft. Shuttling it back and forth in this manner may not seem incredibly thrilling to him at first, but pretty soon, as it builds up momentum, it will drive him out of his mind. Orgasms encountered via this method are sometimes messy, but always memorable !
The Base Clutch :
Tighten your thumb and forefinger around the base of the shaft, pressing down on the balls. This will cut off the blood ( acting as an impromptu cock ring ) and help you steady the shaft in your hand. If the skin on it is slick and immutable, you can stroke the penis with more friction, thereby enhancing the excruciating experience.
As always, it is the psychological impact of what you are doing that makes the sex so satisfying. Let your mind escape into the uncharted wilderness of fantasy. As a sexual pioneer, it is your manifest destiny to explore the outer limits of your sensuality. Sex means more than intercourse; exploring all the different variations enhances your sex life and keeps it from getting stale. Masturbating your partner can be very exciting for both of you. So, let your fingers do the walking . . . . . .
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Thread: Fondling the Penis
09-11-2004 08:53 PM #1
Fondling the Penis
09-11-2004 09:30 PM #2
Errrrrrr.Another quality post brought to you by Mr Mist, god of Moo.
09-11-2004 10:34 PM #3
I think someone is extracting ze urine :/
10-11-2004 09:00 AM #4
What's a nice Muslim boy like you doing posting filth like this????(\__/)
10-11-2004 09:14 AM #5
10-11-2004 11:54 AM #6Uber Poster
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Very informative thanks I can copy and paste text from webpages too...
10-11-2004 02:39 PM #7stargalaxy Guest
What an amazing way to start on this website. Fadi posts in the Introduce Yourself section saying (and I quote) "I'm 26, male, from Pakistan. A smart and hot young guy from Pakistan, but does not have a girl". (end quote) Yet here, he posts explicit sexual advice to others. What can we conclude from this?
10-11-2004 02:44 PM #8
i read it and some of it i didnt know..... interesting.Good Times....
10-11-2004 02:47 PM #9stargalaxy Guest
Re: Fondling the PenisOriginally posted by Fadi
The first concern is always a matter of size. No issue has ever received greater attention than the size of a man's penis. Man's obsession with cock size is probably a mental vestige of his primitive primate past, but as far as human sexuality is concerned, it's a waste of time. A large penis doesn't have any effect on a woman's physical enjoyment unless she has a deep-seated psychological attachment to well-endowed men.
10-11-2004 02:54 PM #10
You had the energy to read the whole thing Aimz? I got through some of it, skipped down, thought "Ah the art of cut and paste" and gave up. Although, if bored may skip to the different styles to try with the blokey...my second thought was "Wow...this guy REALLY thinks he's the shit" is it meant to be a like, subtle rant implying that all we women are incapable of giving an adequate handjob?! I can never remember any blokes penis coming with a manual as long as Fadi's and personally have not had any complaints about my technique!!!!
Malt Munk xxKnown someone that could level you with her eyes, feeling like God put an angel on earth just for you. Who could rescue you from the depths of hell... and you wouldn't know about sleeping sitting up in the hospital room for two months, holding her hand, because the doctors could see in your eyes, that the terms "visiting hours" don't apply to you.
- Good Will Hunting
10-11-2004 04:20 PM #11
This blokes having a giggle. Bet his a reg. tbh."Don't be jealous that I've been chatting online with babes all day. Besides, we both know that I'm training to be a cage fighter."
10-11-2004 10:13 PM #12Originally posted by malteser monkay
I can never remember any blokes penis as long as Fadi's .
Malt Munk xxIncoherence is not a short cut, but rather an indication of mental deficiency.
11-11-2004 12:27 AM #13
I have a very small penis, and it pleases me to see that my size doesn't matter to the ladies.
Not that I can ever get a lady, because I am too depressed.
11-11-2004 09:01 AM #14Originally posted by StarMarsbar
I have a very small penis, and it pleases me to see that my size doesn't matter to the ladies.
Not that I can ever get a lady, because I am too depressed."We're Starfleet officers, weird is part of the job." (Capt. Janeway)
11-11-2004 09:06 AM #15Originally posted by stargalaxy
What an amazing way to start on this website. Fadi posts in the Introduce Yourself section saying (and I quote) "I'm 26, male, from Pakistan. A smart and hot young guy from Pakistan, but does not have a girl". (end quote) Yet here, he posts explicit sexual advice to others. What can we conclude from this?(\__/)