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  1. #1
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    Exclamation how long does it take to cum?

    i'm a virgin but when i wank watching a porno film, hammering away (much faster than i imagine sex would be) its a matter of seconds litteraly! its different if i just sit in the bath and slowly wank, but in sex i could just slip it in and then splurt! gone! embaressment! what do i do? <IMG SRC="eek.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">

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    I found that when i first started having full sex I was that 'frisky' i would cum in a matter of a few strokes.Then I found out that when I was about to reach my climax ,if I focus my mind on anything but sex,such as 'I wonder whats up with my cars gear box or whats for dinner tomorrow'.Then gradually after time I would cum when I was ready. It just take time and experience. Don't worry about it.
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    Don't have sex. It saves you the embarassment of premature (how apt) ejaculation, and it saves the girl the embarassment of having to admit she slept with you.
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    Originally posted by Turtle:
    <STRONG>Don't have sex. It saves you the embarassment of premature (how apt) ejaculation, and it saves the girl the embarassment of having to admit she slept with you.</STRONG>
    lol, cruel bastard.

    To answer your question, it differs. The lucky ones amongst us, like myself are nicknamed "Duracell". The others are nicknamed things like "Shite tosser" and "peewee".
    Things will improve with practice though. If you do think you'll cum too soon during sex, have a wank before you see your gf. That way you won't be as sensitive, and you won't cum so soon.
    Whowhere, neither here nor there.

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    Erm how soon are you suposed to have a wank before sex? Is it just me, or after a wank you dont think about sex what so ever? Your dead laid back and cant be arsed to do sweet FA.

    Sorry to say whowhere, your advice at the end of your post was a little shite. Dont toss off before having sex.

    Pedro is completly right, think about anything other than sex, and you should last a little longer <IMG SRC="smile.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> Or take it out for a miniute before you're about to cum, should last a little longer <IMG SRC="smile.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
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    Originally posted by Wee Man:
    <STRONG>Erm how soon are you suposed to have a wank before sex? Is it just me, or after a wank you dont think about sex what so ever? Your dead laid back and cant be arsed to do sweet FA.

    Sorry to say whowhere, your advice at the end of your post was a little shite. Dont toss off before having sex.
    boys boys boys with time and experience you can learn to control it the more you have sex the easier it becomes to control. wanking can help but if you cant get it up after for the real thing then you need to do it a few hrs before. you can also practice when wanking at controling your urge to cum. holdin te base of the penis can help!

    Pedro is completly right, think about anything other than sex, and you should last a little longer <IMG SRC="smile.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> Or take it out for a miniute before you're about to cum, should last a little longer <IMG SRC="smile.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"></STRONG>
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    Originally posted by Wee Man:
    <STRONG>Erm how soon are you suposed to have a wank before sex? Is it just me, or after a wank you dont think about sex what so ever? Your dead laid back and cant be arsed to do sweet FA.

    Sorry to say whowhere, your advice at the end of your post was a little shite. Dont toss off before having sex.

    Pedro is completly right, think about anything other than sex, and you should last a little longer <IMG SRC="smile.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> Or take it out for a miniute before you're about to cum, should last a little longer <IMG SRC="smile.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"></STRONG>
    I think Whowhere was right about wanking before sex if you think you cum to early, i Un lucky don't cum to early but i've heard and read that having a wank a few hours before sex with make you last longer

    But qwerty i'm sure if you look it up on the internet it will give you much more help and go into far more detail

    Also try not rushing your wanking, try and going slow(Its not a race) maybe with sometime you can control when you cum?

    The fact it takes you longer to cum in the bath may means you are more relaxed and are not in a hurry to get the job finished

    I know for a fact that on the internet there are site that can teach you self-control and all the rest, I've forgotten the link(Sorry)

    Hope you can sort it out, but even if you do cum to fast don't worry about it, its not the end of the world <IMG SRC="smile.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
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    ok here's the thing when i started wanking I was the same what ya wanna do is wank 2wice a day it sounds stupid but fuck me ive done it and now my arm gets knackerd before the fire mans helmet spits just trust do it more and it will be harder to cum mind you if you are circucised or not it affects how fast cum
    also have you got any tips on making wanking more fun so i can cum harder if ya have post a new topic or email me thanks and hope this advice helps <IMG SRC="smile.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
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    Lord have mercy this poor guy so terrified now he's gonna be a monk and worry only getting something to wank over till he drops dead.

    Dude, just relax and get to know your own body. Let others brag about their studly abilities (most likley their full 0f it) Worry not and enjoy. It may take time bgut hey what a better thing to practice. Good Luck.
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    The hornier you are the quicker you sperm. So if you think abbout anything other then sex like everyone is saying you wont come to quickly.

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    Hey Glacier, welcome

    This thread is from 2002, so going to close it now. Always worth checking dates on threads before posting and feel free to start some of your own.
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