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    Post My 14 year old sis having sex

    I recently walked in on my 14 year old sis naked with her b/f in my bed room. She wos sittin on my bed with her legs spread. her b/f had his face there suckin her vagina & she had his dick in her mouth
    This is the second time ive caught them doin someting. last time woz in the shower actuall doin it. should i tell mum?
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    maybe the best thing to do is try and talk to ur sis, try to get her to understand wot could happen, pregnancy etc.

    If that doesnt work, i would tell ur mum

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    Hmmmmm....speak to your sis first to see what she has to say, and make bloody sure they are using protection n being sensible. What is your sis like, mature for her age and sensible or vunerable and easy to lead astray?

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    id love to know how she maged to sit up and have him licking her pussy while she had his dick in her mouth.

    personally i think shes very stupid, shes 14 first of all, second of all shes doing it when other people are around and in the house and 3rd, SHES DOING IT IN YOUR OWN ROOM!!!!! i think its probably the boy leading her astrey, maybe u should tell your mum u think hes forcing her to do stuff or something like dont tell her u have caught them but say i think something might be happening and im just worried and want to make sure both know wot they are getting into. cos to me sounds like he is pressuring her to do stuff, cos no one my age and im 17 would ever do stuff so blatently where other people would walk in. so i think u should chat to your mum and get her to chat to your sis or something
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    i do agree with u lil but i also think that u should speak 2 ur sis forst i mean, y was she doing it in your room? and yeah y was she doing it when other people could easily walk in?

    in my other posts i have said that i was pressured into haveing sex at 14 and it was awful and i really regreted it. so i think u should speak 2 ur sis and ask her questions and explain 2 her that she is going 2 get into trouble she cant get out of (pregnancy etc)

    and if u r still worried after asking her if she was pressured into sex then u should talk 2 ur mum.

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    ditto to all the above - u have to tell her the risks etc, find out if she's bein careful, and if not then tel ur mum.

    and tell her to keep it private i.e. not where ppl r gonna c it happenin coz it cuda easily bin ur mum or dad that walked in instead of u.

    l-i-l it's a bit of an unrealistic view that 14 yr olds arent gonna have sex coz they r. u just gota try n make sure that they're as safe as possible while they're doin it.

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    i dont agree with you l-i-l, you seem to have the view that all 14 year olds having sex or oral sex or whatever must be being forced into it by an evil boyfriend or something. 14 year olds DO have sex, i know the law says 16 but its just a fact of life. i know people whove done it younger than that, its just their choice!!

    so gurl in need, i dont think you should tell your mum straight away. i think maybe you should talk to your sis, firstly ask what she was doing in your room doing that!!! <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/eek.gif"> i think you have a right to have a go at her about that, i mean, its your bed, youdont want soemoen else having sex on it!! so you coudl tell her not to do that again... maybe suggest to be more secretive about it and not do it when theyu could get caught? like drifter said, it could have been your mum or dad. but im sure she wasnt doign it where it was obvious she was gonna get caught, it does happen, people come home early sometimes!! <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/eek.gif"> <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/redface.gif">

    if youthink she's being responsible about STDs and pregnancy, i think its an invasion of her privacy to be telling your mum, unless you do have concerns her bf is pressuring her. but how would you like it if an older sibling told your mum on you in the same situation? i know id hate it (and them). so have a think before you do anything rash.

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    Originally posted by Lonely-in-life:
    id love to know how she maged to sit up and have him licking her pussy while she had his dick in her mouth.
    LOL i was gonna say exactly the same thing, a bit of a strange probably not impoosible position for 14 year olds to be doing.

    personally i think shes very stupid, shes 14 first of all, second of all shes doing it when other people are around and in the house and 3rd, SHES DOING IT IN YOUR OWN ROOM!!!!!
    Why is she stupid?

    Because shes having sex at 14 years old? Yes ok maybe the law says 16 but im sorry 14 year olds are doing it, its a fact of life and i think as long as they are educated, they know what they are doing, they take precautions, are not being forced into anything, are with some one they chose to have sex with and are emotionally ready for it then why the fuck not?

    Actually no i take the emotionally ready part back because i dont think many people are emotionally ready for it.

    I lost my virginity at 11 years old <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/eek.gif"> yes 11 years old!! Was i stupid yes i probably was, i had no problems doing it with who i did he did not force me or push me into it it was definitely a mutual decision, i suppose i didnt know what i was doing because we didnt use protection i hadnt really had much sex education all i knew was things id picked up in the playground at school or off my friends,

    i know i was only 11 but i know how i felt at the time and i know i felt ready, probably had no idea what i was ready for but i felt ready none the less, i dont think i was emotionally ready at all in the long run because i dont think anyone is, i migth have felt ok about it at the time but i think the fact i did it so young made me a bit not so bothered about who i was doing it with (i also have other issues in that area) but i dont know if it helped me in the long run,

    but then theres the fact that i am sooo happy about who i lost my virginity with, i was comfortable i was in love, yes in love at 11, it CAN happen b4 people tell me you have no idea what love is, ok it might not be the kind of love people who are older experience but its the best one ive ever come across in the time ive been going out with lads thats for sure, it was easy simple we respected each other and it was nice and i was happy and he made me happy, i mean yeah he mighta made me happy giving me a backy to the shops or something fuck knows but he made me happy.

    Ok that was a bit long but im sort of trying to say i dont think age matters all the time, its not always a bad thing, i mean i know if i never would have slept with mark (who i just want to add was also a virgin AND the same age as me) i might not have the same attitude towards sex that i have now, or on the other hand mayb i would have because of toher things in my life, or mayb just because im me i have the attitude i have about it, but then again maybe if i wouldnt have slept with him and i slept with one of my other ex's for my first time i know it would never have been anything like with him and i would have most certainly regretted it.

    i think its probably the boy leading her astrey, maybe u should tell your mum u think hes forcing her to do stuff
    Ok maybe its her forcing him into doing things. Did u ever think about that? i mean yes lads do bug girls into doing things but we are just as bad you know,

    i mean me for one i know maybe ive pressured lads into things i dont mean made them feel like they had no option but to sleep with me or something because most have had no objections to doing so anyway but what i mean is like when theyve not felt like it ive bugged em for it.

    Telling your mum you think hes forcing her to do things when you have no idea whether this is true or not is soooo NOT the way to go, there are so many things that could happen here, i mean how old is the lad shes doing these things with? if you go and tell your mum he could get into trouble when hes not actually done anything wrong and hasnt been forcing her into anything.

    Once your mum knows they are doing things sexual together if she is anything like my adoptive mother she will go balistic and hit the roof and she will probably stop your sister from seeing her bf or try to at least.

    or something like dont tell her u have caught them but say i think something might be happening and im just worried and want to make sure both know wot they are getting into.
    If it was me i would definitely say something like that.

    cos to me sounds like he is pressuring her to do stuff, cos no one my age and im 17 would ever do stuff so blatently where other people would walk in. so i think u should chat to your mum and get her to chat to your sis or something
    I still dont understand where u get the idea from that he is pressuring her into doing anything, what is it that makes you think that, i mean is it not possible for a 14 year old girl to make a decision for herself that she wants to have sex with another human being?

    Im 17 and i so blatantly WOULD do things where i could get caught and have done ever since i started having sex, i would have my bfs at my house turn my music on and do it in my bedroom and anywhere i felt like doing it obviously not in my living room when my mum was in the kitchen i dont mean like that, i mean like when i was younger i used to get pissed up on a friday night and saturday and sunday and would b bonkin away on some park bench somewhere or on the park in the bushes or something, no not with every tom dck and harry with a bf, and i have had a lot of longish term bfs ,and so what if i got caught it was my life and if i wanted to have sex i would do.

    I feel sorry for men in the respect that if you said jack and jill had sex the other day but it was rape, youd think oh jack the bastard or if u said it was forced youd think oh jack the tight **** tryna make her do things she doesnt want to, but its not always the case girls can be just as bad too, and yes they want sex as much as men do sometimes too.

    Sorry about this really long reply gurl in need, i really dont know what you should do about your sister but i hope things are ok with her,

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    Talk to your sis, make sure she is being sensible, but don't tell your mum!! She'll despise you for it!! If she will talk about it then you know that she's reponsible enough to be doing it, and if she won't then you've got to tell her she's being stupid!!

    If my brother had told my mum about me, or vice versa, we certainly wouldn't be friends, and I was 17, you're sis is a lot younger, and she could hold a grudge for longer!!

    Try and talk her into telling yyour mum, if she won't do that, then tell her to watch where and when she's doing it. Tell her to have some respect for your house, and the other people that live there, she's being unfair putting you in this poistion!!

    Also if they're getting up to the kind of things that you describe, then it's more than likely they've been getting their funk on for quite a while, so just remember, some people do develop faster than others, and she may be young but if she's happy and being sensible, then thers nothing you really can or need to do about it!!!

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    i know 14 year olds have sex, im aware of that, its just in my view ive seen a lot of girls who are 14 or younger doing stuff they dont wana do or dont even know what they are doing. if you went to a school then ud see most 14 year olds are quiet immature, yet are having sex and stuff. i know my views get me into trouble and i aint forceing my views on anyone, but like at 14 you dont even know what sex is really do you. sure u could descirve it as pushing the pork, or u could say it is love, but i dont think most 14 year olds know what its about. also boys are rarly forced into things, most blokes think of sex 24/7, sure some are forced but theres a lot less to go wrong for blokes, thats why i think 14 or under yr olds shouldnt have sex cos they dont know about the complecations. sometimes i think girls and boys are stupid in having sex so younge, they just hear sex is brilliant, you gotta do it, so rush into it. sorry they just my views, the laws there for a reason, sure ive broken minor lies like that (not that one of course) like would u say a 12 year old knows what smoking is? like what could happen? or taking drugs? or driving a car, the laws there to protect people. sorry i gone on but it does annoy me a bit people doing reckless things. and i stand by my views GIN, so hope i help a bit if possible.
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    i understand what u r say lil + in some respects i agree with wot u r saying, but say some 1 who was 15 years and 364 days old had sex that would be breaking the law but if they waited a few more hours then it would be legal??? <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/confused.gif">

    i know u have 2 drwa the line somewhere and gurl in needs sis was not showing maturity by sucking the lad off n letting him lick her out where it was really easy 4 her 2 get caught, cos i mean it all comes dowt to morals, but i dout that ne 1 will stop her having sex so gurl in need u just gotta make sure she is having safe sex and try and get her 2 stop doing it in public (practically!!!)

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    just talk to your sis and try to make sure she doesn't have sex in public. DON'T TELL ANYONE!! especially not your mother.

    As Spirit has already said, it would be terribly wrong to assume that he is forcing her to do things, so don't. Just tell her not to do it in your bed or in public. If she's the kind of girl who can take advice, casually mention safe sex.

    That's about all you can do. If she wants to know anything else, tell her. If she doesn't want to know, don't bother. At best, she will ignore you. At worst, she will intentionally defy you and do the opposite (sounds childish, but it does happen in these situations).

    And once again, don't tell your mother!!

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    Originally posted by throbbing_python_of_love:
    GurlinNeed, may i ring your sister? <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif">
    i think that joke was in poor taste, considering its a serious problem and shes actually pretty worried about her sister.



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    hmmm, its quite a tricky prob you've got here gurlinneed, but i don't think it would be a good idea to tell your mum, not yet anyway.
    i would say it would be a good idea to sit down with your sister and have a talk to her. shes more likely to take notice of you than your mum anyway, as she'll be able to relate to you more. just explain that your worried that shes not being careful with this guy. make sure she is using some sort of contraception, and also make sure that she actually wants to be having sex (chances are she probably does - not that many girls just do it to please their guys, whatever the media would have you believe). also suggest that she finds somewhere to do it where people are not gonna walk in on her, coz i know that if my parents had walked in on me having sex at 14 they would have not been best pleased.
    i don't necessarily believe in the 16 law for sex coz obviously everyone is different, and feels ready at different ages, and i think it is a sad fact about society that we do not accept that kids are having sex. law or not, they're still gonna do it, so they deserve the same access to support as someone over the legal age. i think its still true that you can't get the pill under 16, which quite frankly is criminal. and they wonder why we have the highest teen preganancy rate in europe?
    anyway i've got off the point here. bascially i'm saying that you should just let her know that she can come to you for advice and that you want to make sure shes safe.
    hope this helps,
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