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    Suddenly become difficult to talk to the girl...

    My girl has been acting strange lately. A couple of weeks ago we were doing great, fantastic and all that, suddenly last week and since she has been somewhat hard to talk to and disconnected. I keep asking her what's wrong and she keeps saying nothing nothing I'm fine and all that jazz, but I'm not stupid. Something else is going on that she's not telling me about. Her texts are much shorter, she's less affectionate, less upbeat with me than she is with work colleagues or friends. All of this was fairly sudden.

    What the fuck?
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    I'm not the greatest person to get advice from, one of my ex's suggested I was incapable of having a normal relationship but hey, might as well offer my suggestion.

    It's the kind of thing I'd do either when I had a lot else going on that essentially was a higher priority than my relationship, or if I was getting bored or feeling over crowded.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Scary Monster View Post
    It's the kind of thing I'd do either when I had a lot else going on that essentially was a higher priority than my relationship, or if I was getting bored or feeling over crowded.
    That sounds exactly like reasons why I'd do something similar. And I actually have...

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    Quote Originally Posted by Jaloux View Post
    That sounds exactly like reasons why I'd do something similar. And I actually have...
    . I'm doing it right now .

    Although it's not so much that things are higher priority, it's more that I'm stressed and so any affection-y stuff is making me feel really claustrophobic.
    ...there is a crack in everything, that's how the light gets in.

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    Sounds like she has something else holding her back, it could be stress but unless she is ready to tell you why, you will probably just have to hang in there. Everything will eventually become clear, she'll eventually feel the need to explain her actions to you. Give it time.
    Last edited by FreeLifting; 02-09-2008 at 08:26 PM.

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    Quote Originally Posted by bunglenutter View Post
    What the fuck?
    That is the most thorough sum-up ever

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    Maybe I can reveal the cloak of myyyysteryyyyyy

    *swoooooosh*:

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    Quote Originally Posted by junker View Post
    That is the most thorough sum-up ever
    x2

    shes a woman dont waste your time trying to understand her!

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    Quote Originally Posted by z- View Post
    x2

    shes a woman dont waste your time trying to understand her!
    Could quite say the same about you men too.
    Last edited by ***kellie***; 03-09-2008 at 02:33 PM.
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    Yup sometimes I really dont want hugs and soppiness especially if I'm stressed and even more if he pretends he understands :@

    Could she be pregnant?
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    Quote Originally Posted by kate- View Post
    Could she be pregnant?
    No
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    Mine started doong that about six months ago. If it all turn into arguing and bickering, which I've known it to do through experience, maybe you aught to have a serious think about the relationship.

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