My girl has been acting strange lately. A couple of weeks ago we were doing great, fantastic and all that, suddenly last week and since she has been somewhat hard to talk to and disconnected. I keep asking her what's wrong and she keeps saying nothing nothing I'm fine and all that jazz, but I'm not stupid. Something else is going on that she's not telling me about. Her texts are much shorter, she's less affectionate, less upbeat with me than she is with work colleagues or friends. All of this was fairly sudden.
What the fuck?
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02-09-2008 04:31 PM #1
Suddenly become difficult to talk to the girl...PSN tag: bunglenut
02-09-2008 04:36 PM #2
I'm not the greatest person to get advice from, one of my ex's suggested I was incapable of having a normal relationship but hey, might as well offer my suggestion.
It's the kind of thing I'd do either when I had a lot else going on that essentially was a higher priority than my relationship, or if I was getting bored or feeling over crowded.Growls
02-09-2008 07:19 PM #3
02-09-2008 07:24 PM #4...there is a crack in everything, that's how the light gets in.
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02-09-2008 07:25 PM #5Miniposter
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Sounds like she has something else holding her back, it could be stress but unless she is ready to tell you why, you will probably just have to hang in there. Everything will eventually become clear, she'll eventually feel the need to explain her actions to you. Give it time.
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03-09-2008 09:52 AM #6Incredible Poster
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03-09-2008 11:05 AM #7
Maybe I can reveal the cloak of myyyysteryyyyyy
03-09-2008 11:28 AM #8
03-09-2008 01:29 PM #9
03-09-2008 05:23 PM #10
Yup sometimes I really dont want hugs and soppiness especially if I'm stressed and even more if he pretends he understands :@
Could she be pregnant?The best kind of revenge is success
04-09-2008 09:53 AM #11PSN tag: bunglenut
04-09-2008 03:36 PM #12
Mine started doong that about six months ago. If it all turn into arguing and bickering, which I've known it to do through experience, maybe you aught to have a serious think about the relationship.