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    How to fuck a virgin?

    Im seeing this girl whos a virgin and she wants to lose it with me. Can anyone suggest the best way to go about it to minimise pain and maximise pleasure? Apart from health issues, is it better to use a condom, lubricant wise, or is it less painful, less abrassive to do without? I intend to give her a lengthy foreplay and oral to ease any anxiety. Should i make her orgasm with oral first, then go into penetration, or should i leave the orgasm with the latter? Any more tips would be helpful. Thanks.
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    Here's the best tip you will get.

    Take it slow, treat her with respect, listen to what she's saying, and let her know that if she needs to stop it's ok.
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    Make her come before penetration, most women don't come from penetration alone, and even if they do, making her come will make her even wetter.

    I'd ask her if she wants to use a condom or not, but if you've had a few sexual partners it might be an idea to get yourself tested before you have sex without one.

    It does feel nicer without a condom, and I'm glad I lost mine without a condom, but you need to play safe.

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    Her being as relaxed as possible and you taking things slowly will help. If in doubt more lube will help. Condom wise, she will probably be less worried if you wear one, even if she doesn't realise she's worrying.
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    how to FUCK a virgin?

    change ur attitude for starters

    dont FUCK her, make love/have sex with her

    and yes, there is a difference b4 u ask...
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    How about don't plan it out because that is the worst thing you can do, talk to her listen to what she has to say (communicate) go with the flow
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    thanks.
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    make her orgasm with oral first because then she'll be really relaxed and ready. go slow and edge it in a bit at a time. make sure you ask her is shes ok and if she wants you to carry on.

    as for condoms - ask her if she wants to use them. if she doesnt then i presume she is on the pill and that you have been tested.
    condoms can dry a girl out though and are just horrible in general so if you do use them make sure you have some lube ready.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Littleali
    how to FUCK a virgin?

    change ur attitude for starters

    dont FUCK her, make love/have sex with her

    and yes, there is a difference b4 u ask...
    What on earth are you on about?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Kermit
    What on earth are you on about?
    simple really

    a virgin usually doesnt wanna be FUCKED, they wanna be made love to

    i didnt think my post was that hard to understand?
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    Quote Originally Posted by Littleali
    simple really

    a virgin usually doesnt wanna be FUCKED, they wanna be made love to

    i didnt think my post was that hard to understand?

    lol i didn't want to be made love to.

    but i think saying 'fuck a virgin' is a bit crude. how to have sex with would be nicer!

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    Get your mate in for a bit of DP. That should lighten things up.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Littleali
    simple really

    a virgin usually doesnt wanna be FUCKED, they wanna be made love to

    i didnt think my post was that hard to understand?
    This dude is from phillipines, probably doesnt have the best grasp of english...
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    Quote Originally Posted by Yerascrote
    Get your mate in for a bit of DP. That should lighten things up.
    It takes a wise man to know the path,
    but it takes a brave man to walk it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Monsieur Croque
    This dude is from phillipines, probably doesnt have the best grasp of english...

    kermit is the one who said it. he's not from the phillipines.

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