How to arouse a girl
 

Ok, this question was on before a couple of days, but due to it's author's misphrasing (and newbieness), it was left unanswered.

Most of us know that a girl can give a guy a boner if they wear provocative clothes, such as thongs raised over jeans (which can look casual too), by sitting at guys' laps (and they can say it was just a friendly act) and many other. It's relatively easy to make a guy hard (well, i'm kind of speaking for myself here).

Now is there an easy way to get a girl aroused (out of bed obviously), that can be used to tease, so that you can say it was all friendly and innocent if she comments on it?

Thank you.

i think girls are a bit different to men in the arousal thing.

for example most men would be aroused by a bum or a pair of tits. But i dunno about other girls but seeing a mans chest or package outline wouldnt turn me on. I may think oh thats a nice chest or oh thats a nice package but i wouldnt be turned on by it.

What would turn you on then?

i couldnt get turned on by the look of someone or a gesture/action.

Its the way a guy looks at you clearly.
If you quite like a boy and like he takes his shirt off in a friendly enviroment, I personally don't think 'oh wow, look at his body, now i've got the horn.' Or if he's got his arm round me cos we are drunk or something I don't think 'Oh wow, physical contact, I'm so horny now!'

It's blatantly if I'm talking to a guy I like and he's really engaged in what I'm saying with eye contact and a very naughty look in his eye, oooooOOOOooooh and a dirty smile - that you think, Rar... I wanna bang you!

Men get turned on by what they see, women get turned on by what they hear.....said the fat guy from the office.

yeh, in general when it comes to things that turn them on, men are highly visually stimulated, and physically (of course ;) ) but girls tend to not be so visually stimulated, mainly physically so.

Personally, if I see a buff dude, I kinda just think 'Rwar, you're hot' and not get physically turned on at all.

But I get turned on by the slightest of touch, like breath when someones whispering in my ear, or a quick arm stroke, or tickling even. Playful stuff, but it gets me everytime. I only have to be twiddling my boyfriends hair with my fingers and go all funny.

Yep it takes alot more for women to get turned on than men.
But things that turn me on without physical contact... if my boyfriend gives me 'that' look and winks at me and then gives me this smile, but then that's just him and me, i doubt that's universal.

And it terms of looking at a bloke, i'd only get actually turned on by this when it's my boyfriend but it's still a very good thing in any bloke... when they've got no top on and showing a great physique and having low cut jeans where those muscles that come up from the groin (so hard to explain, i'm sure most the girls know what i'm talking about!) are sticking out from above the jeans, with some boxers aswell (calvins preferably for me).

Dancing close together is good too, but that's physical so can't really count.

Macho men turn me on, when they're kinda sweaty (not in a BO kinda way)... I love touch, especially tracing the outline of a man's figure with my fingertips... But I think for a woman maybe it's other sensations than voyeurism.

A good body can do it for me, but there has to be something that switched me onto the before hand for me to think about them. My bloke wears low cut sorta baggy jeans, always has white boxers poking over the top, dark beaded necklace and a nice physique, not scarily muscley...yum yum :naughty: . There's a smile, blokes can do. It's like, a flick at the corner of the mouth...absoloutly filthy...lovin it...and there's one single bloke (sadly to say not my bf though he gets me going now we're in the bf/gf context!!) and he smiles, or he looks at me and he knows I've had a thing for him, he's had a thing for me and just the whole, both have someone else..yet there's been times when he's expressed like, wanting me, and vice versa...and ah damn...it's like, the whole, I can't have him thing and vice versa, so when he looks at me intensely or he smiles at me...it feels 'dangerous' and I find that rather horny...though I really really shouldn't...!!

Malt xxx

you hit the nail bang on the head for me. specially my neck-very sensitive. but also when a guy kinda grabs you and takes control-vvveeerryyy big turn on.

this sums it up

:yes: with neck thing too...:naughty: :D

i know this is about turn-ons, but it really turns me off when guys ask if they can kiss me, or hold my hand...it feels so 8 years ago.
(sorry i just had an experience and wanted to vent)
just take control! grab me by the hips and kiss me! do not be respectful...why do u think girls fall for bad boys?