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  • Hi. I'm feeling okay about it right now but I do get times when I feel really emotional. I hope you will be okay on Saturday but always here if you need to chat. Yeah I have spoken to my sister and she has settled in well. it doesn't seem like she is missing me or the rest of the family too be honest, I certainly miss her. I been helping out at my local preschool to keep busy and I will be meeting...
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  • Laura12345
    replied to Family relationship
    Hi PostiveAura
    Thanks for the reply
    ​yeh i know i need to be comfortable and ready to have the conversation and right now i dont feel that.
    I haven't got round to speaking to my auntie yet but hopefully soon I will be able to.
    ​I will try and build the trust up with them but its not going to be easy because of what they kept from me, it made me feel I don't really...
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  • Hi Kaze

    ​Thank you for the reply

    ​Yeh I have posted about it before. I think my sister is settling in okay, I haven't been in contact with her today. She was settling in okay when we were with her yesterday and saying goodbye yesterday was hard!! I hope it does get better because right now I'm really struggling, I am trying to distract myself with things I enjoy...
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  • ​Hi Sunshine Soul.

    Thanks so much for the reply.

    Yesterday was such a hard day with the whole family and my mum did get emotional when we had finish dinner together and so did my sister. I kept my emotions in at this point. We spent the whole day with her which probably made it worse too be honest. I will try the tips to see if that helps. Yeh its difficult because...
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  • Hi Glen. thanks for tie reply. yeah she is moving out and I know the next few days are going to be hard as I get used to it. I will miss her loads even if at times I say horrible things to her. yen I'm sure ill visit her. we aren't doing anything special tonight because we are going to be spending the time with her in Cardiff and go out for a meal tomorrow night.
    ​its also going to be...
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  • Tomorrow is the day! Sister moves out to go to uni!

    So tomorrow is the day that my sister moves out as she is off to uni in Cardiff for 4years. She is 2yrs younger then me, yet she is moving out before I am! I'm feeling so emotional right now, how can this be easier?...
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  • Laura12345
    replied to abortion-underweight
    Hey LaneBoi. Yeh ill start by having small frequent meals and I am going to continue to eat in private. thanks for all the advice. yes I am scared to go to the doctors about it. thanks. still nor feeling any better too be honest....
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  • Laura12345
    replied to Family relationship
    Hi Kaze. thanks for the reply. Yeh I will talk to my auntie and I hope she can help me. I might be able to talk to my adoptive parents at some point but not right now. I will try and build the trust with them, thanks
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  • Laura12345
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    go onto my profile then private message x
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  • Laura12345
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    its ok cookieshan, okay x you can open up to me through PM if u need to x...
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  • Laura12345
    replied to Anxiety
    its okay cookieshan,, you can always PM me if you need to chat about anything I'm always here to listen and will try to help you as much as possible
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  • Laura12345
    replied to Family relationship
    yeah there are so many forums on here and thanks for saying you would take a look at some of mine. yeh that might be a better bet to know what I'm going to say as it will then make a better conversation. probably speak to my auntie about it at some point. its hard for me to know they have kept something from me even if it was for protection as it makes me think they might be keeping other things...
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  • Laura12345
    replied to Family relationship
    Hi Postive Aura. Thanks for getting back to me so quickly. Glad that there is this forum to be able to listen to, I used this a lot recently and with some things its helping a lot, if you can take a look at some of my other posts that would be good. Yeh I will be able to communicate with my auntie in different ways and I'm glad u said its okay to feel how I am, my auntie has helped me so much too...
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  • Laura12345
    replied to Family relationship
    Hi SunshineSoul. Thanks for the reply. Yeh I'm finding it difficult to open up to my adoptive parents right now. Yeh I feel I can only open up to my auntie right now and its probably cause of what I went through at the beginning of my life ( in my childhood). Yeh I know that my mental health is important right now and I do definitely have my auntie to speak to right now, I have a lot on my mind right...
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  • Laura12345
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    Hi guys x I still feel that I cant open up to my adoptive parents cause of my upbringing and also my sister who I live with.due to a situation to do with my step sister which is still on my mnd.

    ​I just feel everything for me is hard and I just have times when I breakdown in tears and all I can think about is the fact I need my auntie but its not always possible. I just feel I need...
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  • Laura12345
    replied to Just one more hug
    One in a million I want you to know I'm still here if you need to talk about anything xxx
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  • ​Hi Supergirl. Sorry taken a while to get back to you , I have sent you a PM it should come through on your messages xx take care and I'm always here x...
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  • Laura12345
    replied to Adoption seen in a bad light
    Hi Glenn. Thanks for the reply. its okay just felt that I needed to share what it was like to see what was on x factor after my experience. I'm not ashamed about being adopted and I don't like it when people use it for sympathy. It annoys me when people talk about being adopted because in every context ive heard it said so far its for sympathy. I sometimes struggle to know who I am as a person because...
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  • Laura12345
    replied to Adoption seen in a bad light
    Hi Lals x thanks for the reply x yeh I understand what you mean about the person on X Factor and yeh she could have been using it as an sympathy thing. I feel that they shouldn't bring up about adoption cause on most case they try and use it for sympathy and I don't think it should be seen like that as it is a good thing on most cases that someone has been adopted. As someone who has been adopted...
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