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  • Touching Good and Bad

    In what ways do you like to be touched in a loving rather then sexual way?

    And did any partners you've do anything particularly good or bad.

    And if you had a partner that only ever touched you to get themselves off rather then simply being caring what did you do about it?

  • #2
    In a loving way I liked being stroked on the forehead or kissed because it made me feel protected.

    Bad thing is probably heading straight for the boobs for foreplay. Left nothing to the imagination.

    Rach x
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    • #3
      A hug from behind.
      "It takes in reality only one to make a quarrel. It is useless for the sheep to pass resolutions in favor of vegeterianism while the wolf remains of a different opinion." -anon.

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      • #4
        Originally posted by Rachael
        Bad thing is probably heading straight for the boobs for foreplay. Left nothing to the imagination.
        This is the *worst* thing for me i reckon

        As for likes, i think its just nice when a guy cuddles me round my neck kinda thing, where i can lean my head on his shoulder, it makes me feel protected.

        its just nice to hold hands sometimes too, although its not exactly really loving, but with the right person it feels good, and its the little things that count for me.
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        Who was around...

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        • #5
          Softly stroking my back will turn me to mush and i assume its because when i was younger and upset my mum would do it. Im sure psychologists amongst you can confirm that.

          I like any of the cuddling type stuff really and it does put me off when people are too guarded i have only ever been with one person who never reciprocated much.

          Which was wierd as some of you say you hate it when people grab ya boobs, well i try not to do that and this chick basically forced me to (not a bad thing ud think) but at the same time i think maybe she jumped the gun some. Every person ive been with other then her it has been a progression. Maybe i just like the chase and am not in a rush.

          .matt

          www.bigonions.net

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          • #6
            Originally posted by intrigue
            Softly stroking my back will turn me to mush
            i love that soo soothing

            i love when my boyfriend strokes my arms and kisses me on the forhead.

            and cuddles from behind when u can lean on him or tilt my head back and he kisses my head

            and bad....hmm....i hate it when the go straight down ur trousers...no kissing or anything first...its like...hello?! just cos you're up for it 24/7 doesnt mean i am!!!


            eyes lock, big grin, heart race, breathe in,
            hands touch, arms hold, lips kiss, loves told
            laughter sings, holding tight, passion soars, first night
            anonymous calls, empty bed, emotions lost, affection dead
            jealousy rears, suspicion grows, broken trust, strain shows
            tears fall, body shakes, shoulders drop, heart breaks



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            • #7
              Originally posted by blonde__batman
              i love that soo soothing

              i love when my boyfriend strokes my arms and kisses me on the forhead.

              and cuddles from behind when u can lean on him or tilt my head back and he kisses my head
              The last person i was with wouldnt let me do that because her ex did!?!?!!? Does that we cant kiss or have sex because he did

              I couldnt kiss her ears as well that really pissed her off. (why would you do that maybe ya wondering haha.)
              .matt

              www.bigonions.net

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              • #8
                I love it when a guy hugs me from behind and i can lean on him. Also if I am upset or crying when they brush away my tears, that makes me feel a bit better.
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                • #9
                  a lot of these things are general things that peeps do anyways aint they? A question for the women would be have you meet a lot of guys who dont do this? I mean i assumed every man turned into a woman when it came to their misses (sorry to put it that way but im hoping you know what i mean)
                  .matt

                  www.bigonions.net

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                  • #10
                    Yes. I mean my ex wasn't a very huggy person. It hurt a lot. Till I realised he just wasn't very affectionate.

                    Rach x
                    You can either believe your society should strive to be better than it's problems or as bad as them. - JimV

                    It's like I'm Marvel and you're DC - Edna Krabappel

                    a new site that i am blogging on these days... http://www.acapella-bella.net/

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                    • #11
                      Thats the thing with the last chick i was involved with i did really like her but she wasnt very affectionatge either. really annoyed me. hmmmm
                      chicks
                      .matt

                      www.bigonions.net

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                      • #12
                        I crave affection.

                        Rach x
                        You can either believe your society should strive to be better than it's problems or as bad as them. - JimV

                        It's like I'm Marvel and you're DC - Edna Krabappel

                        a new site that i am blogging on these days... http://www.acapella-bella.net/

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                        • #13
                          Cuddled from behind is always my fave

                          Ilora x

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                          • #14
                            *gone*
                            Last edited by swank; 14-04-2005, 06:19 PM.

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                            • #15
                              I love being cuddled up watching tv with my guy and he'll stroke and caress my hands i love that i dont know why just because sometimes he doesnt realise hes doing it and it just makes me see how lucky i am!! Also same time when ill be leaning on his chest whilst were cuddled up and he'll just kiss me on the top of my head, its so nice makes me get butterflies!! :D

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