I wanted to know if it is normal to fantisise about my wife being shagged by another bloke whilst I watch. I keep thinking about it all the time and am trying to persuade my wife to do it.
She seems very keen but doesn't want to watch me shag another woman? Any suggestions?
Its not normal, I wouldnt wanna watch my gf with another bloke, but if ur both happy to do it then thats good for you <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"> Just dont expect her to return the favour unless she wants to, and dont pressurise her into doing it or youll lose a wife.
It matters not who won or lost, but how you place the blame.
There is nothing abnormal about this at all. Thousands of couples go through this every week, there are plenty of sites where you can find like minded people, and if you don't want to involve anyone you know then there are contact sites
*eyes open as he reads some ads <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/eek.gif">*
All I can say is that you need to sure of the stability of the relationship, ensure that you are always careful and remeber that you must BOTH want to do this and if, at any time, one of you goes of the idea, then then other must repect their wishes.
Good luck <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif">
I agree with Treadhead. The only thing I am really concerned about is the risk of greener pastures. Will she find the other bloke better. I suppose I have to be sure that we are 100% up for it and that we treat it as a bit of fun.
I think if u value your wife, then you'd stop being a selfish pratt, fantasy and reality are way different, trouble with actually doing it is that real emotions are involved. Just think if it's worth even the slightest risk of ruining your relationship, fantasies are great but just keep it there.
i think it's when u get married u do stuff to spice up ur sex life a bit more
for all those wiv g/fs and b/fs its a bit different cuz they come and go. marriage is meant to be for life and secure, so hence why it *is* in fact a natural thing <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif">