But when and if it comes time that I decide I want a baby there will be alot of changes I will have to make. Due to all these changes pregnancy will have to be planned 2 months in advance (two months before I try)
I think this is due to my medication although I'm not sure.
But I've been thinking about it and there is a few things that could make it hard or awkward. 1 being how would I descuss this with a partner. Obviously I would randomly say "you know if we decide we want a baby we would have to plan it two months in advance." This may make them think that im hinting that I want a baby rather than just letting them know. But also I don't want leavr it until we descuss wanting children and then be like "yeah now we have to wait two months before we try."
Also contraception. If during a relationship we decided we want to have sex. I would have to go see my doctor ad descuss contraception for reasons I'm not quite sure of.
Again this would have to be thought if peior to having a sexual relationship. So sex at the sper of the moment is out if the question.
I have read that it is recommended that you give birth in a consultant-led maternity unit in hospital. so again something I would need to concider and I haven't a clue what it is.
The last thing is breastfeeding, it does say that usually there is no reason why I can't breastfeed but this should be discussed. So that could possibly mean I wouldn't be able to (yes I am pro breastfeeding due to the advantages for the baby)
I know it may be a little early to think about all this but is it really? I'm not in a relationship but I've got to take this seriously if I do decide to have a child, for my own and baby's health.
Is it too early to discuss these with a doctor? I'm not even planning a sexual relationship or to have a child yet.
It is a lot to think about and what if my future partner thinks this is too much and can't cope with all these changes?
What is my potential partner doesn't really understand what I'm getting talking about?
What if all these proportions make me seem weird or ott?
I know these are stupid questions but it's still there. Because it's not going to be as easy as deciding to have a sexual relationship and then deciding to have children.