I have a younger Brother who I feel takes the piss by asking for money. I feel that he should learn to stand on his own two feet and not bother Parents. I feel that because Dad gives him money he is actually making my Brother worse because he will never respect money and will never be able to stand on his own feet.
My view is that if I cant afford something then tough shit......do without.
Obviously on certain occasions borrowing money to pay a bill is slightly different, like if your gonna get the leckie cut off or sommat.