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Aidan is our Post of The Month winner voted by the community for the following post:

"Hey Lucie,

You say you're still on medication and have had lots of therapy? Maybe it's a matter of revisiting old coping techniques and anything else like that, that therapy taught you?

And Drea is absolutely right! Even someone with everything material that they could ever want isn't insusceptible to mental illness. Any sex, race, age, class; it doesn't discriminate...
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    I feel really silly but when it comes to one to one chat i always feel like my problem isn't huge enough?
    even when it comes to people or family i suppress my troubles because i feel like college, or any of my other problems aren't like major and people could be doing more important stuff oops
    ~To be where one wishes to be, one must first truly believe that One's self will get there~


    -L A N E

  • #2
    Hi Lane,

    I just wanted to say that it is normal to wonder if you are bothering people with your problems, a lot of people feel this way. Something I like to remember is that there is always going to be someone who is "worse off" than you but that doesn't mean that your problems are not worth talking about. You would never tell someone you don't want to hear their good news because someone else has it better, so the same should apply to problems. If it is bothering you then it is important. Your friends and family care about you and would want to be there for you, I'm sure.

    Take care

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    • #3
      Thanks Jellyelephant! This was really nice and appreciated x
      ~To be where one wishes to be, one must first truly believe that One's self will get there~


      -L A N E

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      • #4
        I feel that too, sand Jelly is right it's normal TL feel that x
        "Truely independent person who doesn't do quotes, just dates".. (29.04.17)

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        • #5
          And not sand
          "Truely independent person who doesn't do quotes, just dates".. (29.04.17)

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          • #6
            Hi Lane

            I think if it's even a problem for you that is a big issue. Looking back on things I thought were massive problems, i think aren't so big now. But was at the time and doesn't really matter how big or small it is. If it's a problem for you than it matters . So dont feel bad about it. If that makes sense
            The first step towards getting somewhere is to decide you are not going to stay where you are

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            • #7
              Thanks you guys! i didn't use the chat but i did ramble for hours to someone i knew from work over a coffee and although i didn't solve my problems i do feel a heck of a lot better x

              Lane

              (Okay it was like 2 coffees and 1 hot chocolate rather than just 1 but still )
              Last edited by LaneBoi; 12-05-2017, 12:21 PM.
              ~To be where one wishes to be, one must first truly believe that One's self will get there~


              -L A N E

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