The big 'O'

[rachkw]

This is kind of embarassing but my boyfriend (my first one) and i having been having sex for about 3 months and he still hasn't made me orgasm. I know he feels bad about it because he feels he isnt pleasuring me. We do have great sex and i love him so much, but i just can't orgasm. Any tips or any different things to try to help?

[melanie]

my advice would be learn how to do it yourself, after that its always easier for some reason and you learn what turns you on and stuff

[H-face]

Can you orgasm by yourself? Thats an important thing to learn how to do and what your body does/doesn't like, then you can show your boyfriend.

Also, not all girls come from sex, foreplay is the way forwards and lots of it :p

[GothDetectives]

I only sometimes "O" during sex, at a certain angle

[Guest]

I only sometimes "O" during sex, at a certain angle

Usually if the angle he take make a part of his body rob against the clit it does the trick...

[buttercup00]

the only time i ever have during sex was when we used a vibrator too

[MrG]

so the big O-h dear then

[otter]

get him to do more than just thrust.

[MrG]

get him to do more than just thrust.

what? like stick it in her at the same time as well?

[lethifold]

what? like stick it in her at the same time as well?

Hah!

Now I have an image of a guy thrusting away in a corner somewhere and the girlfriend shouting "I'm all the way over here"

[MrG]

Hah!

Now I have an image of a guy thrusting away in a corner somewhere and the girlfriend shouting "I'm all the way over here"

no wonder guys have such a hard time finding the g spot or the clitoris

[GothDetectives]

I dont understand how its hard to find the clitoris! Its like, "hmm so is this the head of your penis? *points* Or is this? *points to testicles* I'm confused :yeees: "

[Guest]

I dont understand how its hard to find the clitoris! Its like, "hmm so is this the head of your penis? *points* Or is this? *points to testicles* I'm confused :yeees: "

:lol:

[Little_one]

I dont understand how its hard to find the clitoris! Its like, "hmm so is this the head of your penis? *points* Or is this? *points to testicles* I'm confused :yeees: "

:lol: I don't understand it either, my boyfriend didn't have a problem finding it. Its really quite simple guys, you can look these things up on the net, or in a biology textbook.

[GothDetectives]

My boy didnt have trouble either, and we were both new to it!

I put it down to the hoards of porn he watched :yeees:

[Little_one]

Oh well boys will be boys. :rolleyes:

[Teagan]

After what you will experience in what can only be described as a mixture of a sneeze, a good shit and winning the bingo, you will irritatingly, ‘want a hug’ - are you sure that you actually want one? :p

[Bunty]

I dont understand how its hard to find the clitoris! Its like, "hmm so is this the head of your penis? *points* Or is this? *points to testicles* I'm confused :yeees: "

:p

[blaze_of_glory2001uk]

Ha I remember the first time someone found mine! didnt even no i had it ( mind u i was rather young). The shock on my face must have been classic, and erm then my legs gave way. how cool am i lol

Id say its all about the clit!!! Only other way i can do it is if a vibrator is used - CLit Kit from Ann Summers is a really good one. Had my first orgasm with that.

Also try things like vibrating cock rings, shit loads of oral ( on you not him, duh) and kinda mix and match the lot.

Have fun