Your type of bloke?

[My Sacrifice]

Ladies - this is just a rough and general guide but what tends to be the type of bloke you are attracted to?

I know there are more that just 6, this is why I included the 7th option ;)

[leese]

I like nice sensitive guys, but those that aren't walkovers - compromise on both sides is vitally important

[Halloween]

I :heart: smart guys.. yum!
The only other criteria, (so to speak) are that they should be brunette, and sporty as well. Never been attracted to a blonde...

[_guest]

Haha @ "Utter Bastard", I'm sure we've all known a few of them in my time.

I voted for Intellectual, as I'd love to have deep and meaningful conversations about Literature, Classical Music and Current Affairs over breakfast. I really like the idea of the winsome, arty, idealist fellow.

Unfortunately I've never met any such bloke, and my fella is as dumb as a box of rocks, and built like a brick shithouse. Ah, so it goes... ;)

[leese]

my fella is as dumb as a box of rocks

does he know you think this? :eek: and more importantly, does he mind?

[SuzyCreamcheese]

rough yet sensitive, also very clever and strikingly handsome.

[leese]

I also like them to be a bit innocent, like they dont know it all

[My Sacrifice]

rough yet sensitive, also very clever and strikingly handsome.

I've got no chance with the last two but how are we supposed to manage rough AND sensitve?

(also, for the benefit of rainbow brite, I apologise for not including an option for "will take you up the shit shoot" :D )

[Teh_Gerbil]

Only a topic for ladies? Sexist. ;(

[leese]

Only a topic for ladies? Sexist. ;(

not necessarily, what type of men do you prefer?

[My Sacrifice]

Only a topic for ladies? Sexist. ;(

I wasn't intentionally being offensive :D

It's for my own interest because I've having crap luck with women so I'm trying to find out what they go for.

The day I decide to swap teams, I promise I'll be back here to find out what types of fellas are popular with the men who love them :D

[SuzyCreamcheese]

Haha, I put down 'Other'. I like the pierced, tattooed, tatty looking guys that no-one likes. Hah. Ones with a fabulous sense of humour also get me. Killer for gorgeous eyes too. Damn.
Actually this is probably more my type too.

[SuzyCreamcheese]

I've got no chance with the last two but how are we supposed to manage rough AND sensitve?

(also, for the benefit of rainbow brite, I apologise for not including an option for "will take you up the shit shoot" :D )

haha youre so funny :rolleyes:

someone can be a bit rough round the edges, yet still have a sensitive side. It depends what you mean by rough I guess.

[Teh_Gerbil]

It's for my own interest because I've having crap luck with women so I'm trying to find out what they go for.

Depends on the laydee herself.

[go_away]

I don't have a type.

[my name]

I like that this topic has been done more times than an anal sex topic.

I like men who are both physically and verbally abusive. I like the ones that shoot holes in my self esteem bucket. I like men with a sense of humor that resembels a rock and a personality to match. I like men that are less interesting than a brick wall and talk all and only about themselves.

[leese]

I like that this topic has been done more times than an anal sex topic.
fromthis we can take that discussions of this type of more significant to modern society than those of poo snooker, which I think is an important observation :thumb: to make

[_guest]

does he know you think this? :eek: and more importantly, does he mind?

He's aware of his own unintelligence, yes ;)

Oh, I was exagerrating....a bit.

[Walkindude]

lol

so you want the exact opposite of the bloke your with.

so pray tell, why are you with him?

unless you were joking of course lol.

[My Sacrifice]

I like that this topic has been done more times than an anal sex topic.


Note sure we've had a poll though.....

It depends what you mean by rough I guess.

Sawyer from Lost, perhaps?

[leese]

Note sure we've had a poll though.....



Sawyer from Lost, perhaps?

rugged more than rough maybe?

[Walkindude]

[
Sawyer from Lost, perhaps?[/QUOTE]


you mean a guy that has sex with you to steal your money and then runs off??? ;)

[My Sacrifice]

rugged more than rough maybe?

They can often be closely linked, that's why I included them as one.

[leese]

They can often be closely linked, that's why I included them as one.

yeah, sorry :lol:

[_guest]

lol

so you want the exact opposite of the bloke your with.

so pray tell, why are you with him?

unless you were joking of course lol.

If I were to design my ideal man, he probably would have a lot of the qualities that my boyfriend does. That's not to say I don't love him...just a little "if" scenario.

I'm sure he wouldn't be half as upset about my saying that as you seem to be :p

[leese]

I'm sure he wouldn't be half as upset about my saying that as you seem to be :p

we're just empathatic types

[Walkindude]

I wasn't upset, I was curious. Its just that you put all these things you said you wanted but you went for the opposite but I couldn't tell if you were joking lol.


Do you think any girls like tall, slim guys with brown hair, are smart and sensitive, not sporty jock type but likes fun and going out, likes to talk and listen, is a decnet honest guy that wants a deent girl and isn't looking to lay as many women as he can but is no prude either and is a laugh when you get to know him?

[_guest]

Do you think any girls like tall, slim guys with brown hair, are smart and sensitive, not sporty jock type but likes fun and going out, likes to talk and listen, is a decnet honest guy that wants a deent girl and isn't looking to lay as many women as he can but is no prude either and is a laugh when you get to know him?

Yes.

[Walkindude]

woohooo!!!!

I'm waiting for someone to see that post and say "no" lol

[my name]

woohooo!!!!

I'm waiting for someone to see that post and say "no" lol


I was going to, but I knew it would be too unoriginal and expected.

[Walkindude]

indeed. Still grateful though.

[lea_uk]

I like nice sensitive guys, but those that aren't walkovers - compromise on both sides is vitally important
Ditto.

[Kermit]

Ugly and cruel.

[leese]

Ugly and cruel.

....and smelly with hairy toes i'd also imagine

[donut]

well, i used to like rough men, and thought i still did, but recently ive found myself liking sensitive ones, i really wanted to marry jimmy osmond on im a celebrity, cos he was just so sweet!

[1983]

Haha, I thought "sporty" said "spotty".

[my name]

I prefer my block to have both a penis and a vagina, that way I can be pleased no matter what mood I'm in.

[1983]

I prefer my block to have both a penis and a vagina, that way I can be pleased no matter what mood I'm in.

A block? Is that a new name for a dildo? :blush:

[my name]

A block? Is that a new name for a dildo? :blush:

Oops. I saw "bloke" and typed it "block" as thats just how I assume its pronounced and I'm not very smart :no:

[1983]

Ahhhh, s'alright then.

:razz:

[kathryn]

Haha, I put down 'Other'. I like the pierced, tattooed, tatty looking guys that no-one likes. Hah. Ones with a fabulous sense of humour also get me. Killer for gorgeous eyes too. Damn.

You just described my bf! A scruff but damn fit! :D (and i guess if you call aking teh piss out of your gf and best mate funny then hes got the humour thing too :D)

[lizzie_amy]

i tend to go for guys a little rough around the edges in an indie/grungy kind of way i guess. i put 'other' cos not too rugged. and also cos i have an appauling knack of falling for the wrong guys!

oh and eyes and smile are a major swoon factor in my book.

also helps if i get on with them too! sense of humour and all that

[pinsher6]

rough bloke full of ferity...

[I'm With Stupid]

I wasn't intentionally being offensive :D

It's for my own interest because I've having crap luck with women so I'm trying to find out what they go for.

The day I decide to swap teams, I promise I'll be back here to find out what types of fellas are popular with the men who love them :D

I learnt a while ago to never ask girls what type of guy they like. Because the type of guy they say they like, and the type of guy they actually go out with tend to be two completely different things, eh ladies? ;)

Ask the alternative question, what type of guys are all your ex's with the same options, and I think it'll prove my point. :thumb:

[Miffy]

The rugby type. :D

[Walkindude]

so they all seem to be big, muscly, sterotypically "manly" types. Hmmm! And the alternative guys are popular.

Any one for slim guys that don't have the alternative look?

[Suga80]

My boyfriend has a lovely toned body n sexy muscles with some tattoos which i love! He's also really really good lookin too and treats me like im a princess....im just so lucky i cant believe it sometimes!

[Carriage Return]

Ladies - this is just a rough and general guide but what tends to be the type of bloke you are attracted to?

I know there are more that just 6, this is why I included the 7th option ;)
Despite being excluded by the question I answered anway :p

"well rounded" - I might fuck with a sporty guy, or be friends with a twiggy book worm, I'd go out with a "rough" guy for a fun time, or spill my heart to a sensitive guy (actually I usually do that to my girl friends.).

Bastards and the slick don't interest me.

Most important to me is how they smell (and taste...) - if it's artificial I'm off.

[Carriage Return]

Oops. I saw "bloke" and typed it "block" as thats just how I assume its pronounced and I'm not very smart :no:
rhymes with coke

[Walkindude]

Despite being excluded by the question I answered anway :p

"well rounded" - I might fuck with a sporty guy, or be friends with a twiggy book worm, I'd go out with a "rough" guy for a fun time, or spill my heart to a sensitive guy (actually I usually do that to my girl friends.).

Bastards and the slick don't interest me.

Most important to me is how they smell (and taste...) - if it's artificial I'm off.

artifical smell and taste?? could you elaborate? :)

so your saying, you'd fuck all the guys except the sensitive one?

[kathryn]

artifical smell and taste?? could you elaborate? :)

so your saying, you'd fuck all the guys except the sensitive one?

Can sensitive guys *fuck*?

[clementine_the_tangerine]

Too generic :p

[Carriage Return]

so your saying, you'd fuck all the guys except the sensitive one?No, that's neither what I said nor what I meant.

I was trying to express how if the candidates were as one dimensional as they were presented I would not build a relationship with any of them, how a pure sporty type is good for nothing but a one-off shag, a pure intellectual is good for converstaion, etcetera. To be worth the investment a relationship involves you mustn't be too unbalanced. To me the "uni rugby player" type is 4 parts sporty, 3 parts rough, 1 or 2 parts intellectual and 1 part sensitive. I'd go for that.

artifical smell and taste?? could you elaborate?
I'm not against a little cologne, provided it doesn't swamp the natural scent - but if you smell like the bottle youre hiding yourself, and that's as bad as lying to me.

[Carriage Return]

Can sensitive guys *fuck*?
Yes. And then some.

You have to manage to convince them they don't want to have a "Relationship" with you, and that sex outside of "THE Relationship" is natural and good. Catching them in the pub after the pint they're having to erase another rejection is a good time to get talking.

[Nikki*]

Fun and caring. S'all I care about.

Brown hair and eyes help too.... the blonde boyfriends I had wre complete bastards... and I like really dark brown eyes

[Walkindude]

Of course sensitve guys can fuck. If you want forplay and your guy to go down on you, then I'd say the sensitive guy would do that more then the other types. When I sensitive though I don't eamn cries at anything, I just mean a decent sensitive guy thats not a an oaf when it comes to something deeper then sport and booze.

[Cherrypie2882]

I love guys who just make me laugh (like belly aching laugh) someone who can jump on anyones level, witty, intelligent, sticks up for himself and me! Someone who is romatic and a true gentleman - a little old fashioned. A guy that can handle his drink! totlly gorgeous to me and just fun loving and genuine! A guy that is a unpredictable and adventurous! surely thats not too much too ask......... lol :flirt:

Thankfully i have found my guy as my boyfriend is everything in my list and more! :D :yippe:

[Walkindude]

where do you find these perfect partners?

[Cherrypie2882]

where do you find these perfect partners?

Oh god my boyfriend isnt perfect (who is) and we have had some bad times (more good) but still..... and we have had to work at it big time......... i find it really does happen when you least expect!!

[_guest]

Any one for slim guys that don't have the alternative look?

*puts hand up*

The single most important thing to me is intelligence. I like to be mentally stimulated in a relationship, otherwise I get bored. I don't have a type for looks, if I had to categorise I would say tall (well, taller than my 5'5"), dark hair, possibly glasses, relatively slim. But then again, only one person in my past has been like that, so its just an ideal.

[Walkindude]

Well I'm 6'2", slim, dark brown hair and eyes, went to uni, intelligent, likes to talk and listen. I don't where glasses though ;)

[Walkindude]

Oh god my boyfriend isnt perfect (who is) and we have had some bad times (more good) but still..... and we have had to work at it big time......... i find it really does happen when you least expect!!


I hope so. Just every girl on here seems to have a perfect bloke that they are in love with. I just want to be a bloke like that.

[_guest]

Well I'm 6'2", slim, dark brown hair and eyes, went to uni, intelligent, likes to talk and listen. I don't where glasses though ;)

Perfect! Shame I'm engaged :p

You'll get the chance to be someone's perfect bloke eventually. You just need to wait for the right girl to come along :)

[Cherrypie2882]

Well thats because the thread is about our type of bloke and is positive and basically all the good things! hey why dont you start a thread about 'what really bugs you about your partner' he he

Besides i am sure you will be perfect to someone one day, you just havent met that person yet.......... :)

[Walkindude]

aww thanks. Your both sweet. I hope so. Congrats on your engagement to, he is a lucky guy.