Ehhh come here girlys

[clare4n]

Um ok. Me and the bf have been going out for a year now, 2 weeks ago we decided to go on a break. He claimed he didn't want to meet anyone else and he just wanted to get himself sorted and thats fair enough because I wanted to do the same.

So now we are back together and I found out he asked a girl he works with out for a drink. He admit that it was to go on a date but the only reason he didn't go was because SHE said no. But he said he has no feelings for her he just gets on with her. IIIII dunno what to think :shocking: What (if anything) would you think, or do, or say??!!!

He said he wasn't interested in seeing anyone else but he obviously was. He still works with this girl and I think i'm a bit uneasy about it all!!!

Any advise would be appreciated :blush:

[Kentish]

It seems quite obvious that he fancied this girl, broke up with you to ask her out, she said no and now he wants you back.

Is that fair?

[clare4n]

Er ... I broke up with him AND asked him back out.

[lucifer devil]

well you can't blame him then! :shocking:

[clare4n]

Alright. That has come out wrong. I did break up with him, but we both decided it was for the best. I asked if he wanted to give it another go and he said yes.

[lucifer devil]

so where's the problem?

[clare4n]

Well I just don't know what to think about him askin someone else out. I mean he must fancy her and like her etc if he is asking her out. He can't just stop 'liking' for her because he has started going out with me again. I'm trying to ask what anyone else would do if they were in this situation?

[lucifer devil]

but you ended it, he had every right to! try forget about her, she said no so obviously doesn't like him and plus, he's back with you now isn't he. even if it is only 'cause she said no.

[clare4n]

Thanks mattliverpool :)

[Kentish]

You've got what you wanted to hear.

Good luck.

[clare4n]

I got a kind opinion. Even if you didn't have something nice to say you could have TRIED to be a bit more sympathetic.

[lucifer devil]

you asked what i thought so i told you!

[malteser monkay]

I got a kind opinion. Even if you didn't have something nice to say you could have TRIED to be a bit more sympathetic.

The other comments weren't harsh honey. You can either can read into till it worries you or you can lay it out as the basic facts as lucifer did - he's back with you now. Yeah he asked someone else for a drink but he's back with you. You should focus on the issues that made you want to split, other than looking at ones that happened whilst you were apart :)

[clare4n]

Thanks :)

[Cristal]

he was vulnerable and on the rebound. No one likes to be alone. How did he know you'd end up back together? give him a break