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sopho
02-05-2005, 09:44 PM
ok i have a dilemma!

i have 2 weeks off work in july. my best mate wants me to go to ireland with her and some other girls. my bf wants us to go away abroad. the ireland trip will be paid for in the next few days if i decide to go... however, my bf is adamant for us to go aborad together...the problem is...he has no money and no job. we have had argument over argument and im basically stuck between my best mate and my bf. my best mate really wants me to go with her!

help!
Jim V
02-05-2005, 09:47 PM
Probably want this in relationships... here, let me move it for you.
Scarlet
02-05-2005, 09:50 PM
Get your boyfriend to come to Ireland with you? :confused:
Makoto
02-05-2005, 09:55 PM
why not arrange a week abroad late summer?
mystifymysoul
02-05-2005, 10:03 PM
Can't you go away with mates for a week? and bf the other week or something?
lucifer devil
02-05-2005, 10:06 PM
Can't you go away with mates for a week? and bf the other week or something?

just what i was going to say.

also is he expecting you to pay?
SuzyCreamcheese
02-05-2005, 10:21 PM
Hows your bf going to afford to go away abroad with no money or no job?
Methinks hes just feeling insecure about you going on holiday with the girls and is making promises he cant keep - ie youll both go abroad together if you dont book the one with your mates.
Acrobat
02-05-2005, 10:33 PM
Hows your bf going to afford to go away abroad with no money or no job?
Methinks hes just feeling insecure about you going on holiday with the girls and is making promises he cant keep - ie youll both go abroad together if you dont book the one with your mates.

:yes: What I would have said. Also, in July it is not terribly likely that you would find any really cheap deals abroad, because it is school holiday time.
kitty1102
03-05-2005, 12:16 AM
Yeah, i think you should just go with whoever u WANT to go with and wil just have to find a way of making it up to the other person. I had that problem with my bf last summer, i went to kenya with my friend for 3 weeks coz i didnt wana miss the opportunity, so to spite me he went to magaluf on a clubbin holiday for 2 weeks with 4 other guys. I tel you, i wish i hadnt done it coz not only did i not enjoy my holiday very much, I had to endure weeks of him goin on and on about his holiday and how he had a fantastic time!