feel bad.

[nicebutdim23]

found out yesterday that my boyfriends 1nite stand had her baby wednesday.

she is still refusing to answer her phone, we just know that he's a boy and his name.

how can i be helpful to my partner when im so angry? at all three of them? i realise this makes me a massive bitch.

[Olive]

i realise this makes me a massive bitch.

no, it doesn't. it makes you human.

anyone who says they wouldn't be thinking exactly the same (and worse) in your position is probably lying out of their arse. it's a horrid situation to be in.

he must understand this though. have you talked to him about it?

[supergrover]

hey there,

this must be really tough for you - your boyfriend is a lucky guy to have you stick by his side like this, not many others would do that and that says a lot of good things about you as a person. Its totally human nature that you should be feeling hatred towards the other 3 and it would be pretty strange if you didnt feel that way to be honest.....

most important thing here is talking about your feelings with your boyfriend. by letting him know how youre feeling and being honest, youll keep the communication barriers from closing down between youse coz once you start holding things back, thats when it can start to go pear shaped. ie. he dosnt know how youre feeling so he starts holding back then you dont know what hes feeling....then bam - major explosion!

hang in there & hope youre ok
;)

[satehen]

found out yesterday that my boyfriends 1nite stand had her baby wednesday.

she is still refusing to answer her phone, we just know that he's a boy and his name.

how can i be helpful to my partner when im so angry? at all three of them? i realise this makes me a massive bitch.

Your not a bitch at all, she is! And he's an ass hole for cheating. Be angry its your right!

[icequeen]

hello there you are not a bitch for feeling like this i to have been in this place and at the moment my sister as just found out that her fella as got two other girls pregnant which 1 is having twins there 12 and 5 weeks these ladys and my sister found out she cant have any kids at all so she is gutted and finshed it with him her world as fell apart and told him they need the break from him the 1 lady as told him he can go with her and all sort the other lady as shut him out he said if she want him to be apart of there babys life hes not running she can go to him if i was you tell you your other half to get legal advice and go from there :chin: and i know its hard but only you 2 can get though this talking and being honist with each other would help too

take care icequeen :yippe:

[lucifer devil]

Your not a bitch at all, she is! And he's an ass hole for cheating. Be angry its your right!

she never said he cheated on her.

but, you're not a bitch. you're doing the same as most people would.

[nicebutdim23]

nah no cheating,we had a three month break to suss things out . just a nasty suprise after crimbo,when we found out his one nite stand was pregnant.

[icequeen]

i would make sure he is the daddy first before anythink

how many more 1 night stand did she have at that time???

its hard because you was not together that time but it hurts?


find out 1st


icequeen :hyper:

[nicebutdim23]

a paternity test can't be done til the baby is 4months old - alot of stuff to miss out on...and a while to wait.

[nicebutdim23]

does anyone know how to find someones adress if they dont want to give it to you?

[otter]

does anyone know how to find someones adress if they dont want to give it to you?
ask someone who knows them may be?

[nicebutdim23]

she has just text him to give him permission to see him on monday. i guess we will go from there. does anyone know any other message boards that i can speak to people in a similar situation??