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VinylVicky
18-03-2005, 05:03 PM
How honest are you with your partner?
Do you tell each other every little thing? Do they with you?
There are some things I have kept to myself from my past but only because it hasn't come up and I wouldn't want to know those things about him.
Do you ever tell them if other people fancy you or you fancy others etc?
Blah
18-03-2005, 05:26 PM
honesty is really important to me

i would rather know the truth about something even if the truth would hurt.

i will be honest to boyfriends up until the point that they lie and lose my trust.

however if a boyfriend has gained my trust I will always give my honest opinion on things, and answer all questions honestly. About anything.
Kermit
18-03-2005, 05:30 PM
If I'm asked I'm honest.

But I won't ventuire information about my past unless I'm asked, though she does know the worst of what I did.
Scarlet
18-03-2005, 05:31 PM
Yeah, we're honest with each other. Which is probably why we bicker. :razz:
FireFly85
18-03-2005, 05:52 PM
Honesty is something that is really important to me, when I'm in a serious relationship I like to know *everything* about that person's past, because I believe that to really understand and connect with someone you have to know about things that have happened in the past that have influenced the person they are today. Plus I think if someone is able to be open and honest in that way it shows that they trust you more than they trust other people, if a partner was only willing to tell me things about their past that they would be willing to tell someone they had just met then I would find that a bit of an insult, but thats just me.

I think my partner and I are quite honest about everything with each other, we've been together quite a while now so there really isn't anything to hide.
ruby_soho
18-03-2005, 06:59 PM
Honest yeah definatley.
If he asked me something i wouldn't lie to him, i do't really see the point and we are pretty open with each other in general, and we have talked about eahc others past/former relationships and stuff, it doesn't bother me cause it all makes us part fo who we are today.