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LittleMissColey
16-03-2005, 10:51 PM
Right well I know I don't normally post a lot on the site, but I thought it's about time I started, and well yeah I need some help...

About two months ago I met a girl (We're both bisexual) and gradually we became closer as friends, mainly just seeing eachother cos of other friends. But now we've been seeing eachother almost every day, and stuff has been happening.

I really like her, and I'd wanna see her as more as than a friend, but she's already said that she's not comfortable 'going out' with another girl, and is just up for a bit of 'fun', which at the time I agreed with, so I didn't scare her off.

Lately though I've found it really hard to ignore how I feel about her, and so I've kinda spoke to her about it... however I'm useless with words, so it came out as, I think I like you more than I should do.

Her reply was 'I feel the same, but it can't be a bad thing can it?' I'm just wondering now what I should do, or even if I should do anything about it at all!

I'm quite a shy person generally, and normally wait for someone else to make a move.

So I guess I'm just asking for people's advice.
Sorry about the mini essay!

Wyetry
17-03-2005, 12:23 PM
Umm so let me get this straight - she said at first that she didn't want to go out with a girl - but you want to go out with her. When you broached the subject with her she said she felt the same way - but your not sure if she got the whole I want to go out with you thing...

I'd ask her out somewhere on a date but obv don't call it a date - just say come shopping/to the museum/ cinema etc and see what she says - and if at the end of it you can arrange another