a crazy dude and his problems

[Simba T Lion]

ok, so theres this dude and we were having fun and thats all i wanted. i told him that, i still tell him that all the time. all i want is a bit of fun every now and again. but hes like crazy. he always wants me over, he buys me absoutly everything. like i go over there couple nights ago and he bought me a fucking purse. hello? thats not cool. i'm not complaining, but i'd rather it not happen. then he always gets all gay on me, calling me baby and last night he dared say, oh is my baby falling for me. god i wanted to punch him in the face for being so fucking retarded. and even there, like every other time, i say, no dude i'm not. he knows i have no feelings for him but he like does not give it a rest no matter what i say or do. i guess i could just stay away but how do you do that nicely. he doesn't leave me alone.

[SuzyCreamcheese]

id stop seeing him tbh. It sounds like hes not quite getting the idea of no-strings-attached.
To be fair, a lot of people DONT really get it and even if they do, the reality of it makes them uncomfortable. He obviously likes you a lot and is probably agreeing with your suggestion of no strings fun, as a second best alternative to a relationship (ie as near as hes going to get, so he may as well)
I think to avoid hurting him, you should stop seeing him and find someone whos on the same wavelength.

[otter]

He obviously likes you a lot and is probably agreeing with your suggestion of no strings fun, as a second best alternative to a relationship (ie as near as hes going to get, so he may as well)

i agree with rainbow bight, that that is probably what is happening here.
you both want different things... so there is no room for the relationship to work. may be think about ending it?

[Simba T Lion]

how would you suggest to go about doing it. like hes creepy, but nice and i dont like to hurt peoples feelings.

[otter]

his feelings are going to get hurt - there is no way around that one.
you can do it subtly or make it an "in-your-face-knock-out".
tell him how you feel, then say you no longer want to see him.
the only problem is, he sounds like the sort of guy who is so desperate to have a relationship with you. but he needs more than you can give him. so, it could be, that if you end it too subtly: he might not realize that you are ending it.
so you need to be firm but kind.

[Mist]

I agree with and endorse the above suggestions.

[Silverberg]

Yeah, he's getting too attached, you need to tell him something like "All I want is a bit of fun, you know that, i've told you from the beginning, but you obviously want more than that. So, to stop you getting hurt, I've decided we should stop the whole no-strings sex thing"
Something like that, but with more tact...