becky4131
15-03-2005, 10:18 PM
Hey, right this is a long story and has been going on since september now, anyway here goes:
Like this guy who i work with and in september he was really flirty at a works party and hinted loads about likeing me, so basically we got really close and i went back to his house and we talked for hours. He genarally seemed interested and was talking bout us being together as a couple. Anyway i went home and rang him at work the next night to giv him my mobile number(i forgot the nightb4) but he didnt get in contact 4 over a week, eventually when he did he said he was sorry cause he does really like me but hes had things on his mind. We went out with a group of people 1 night and he got me on my own and explaned tht he had been told tht if he went out with me then he wud hav to transfer stores becauseits company policy tht lovers cant work together. I was gutted but understood and after alot of consideration we decided tht it was best not to risk his job and 2 just be friends. Since then policy has changed and he has been told tht we can go out together but he says tht it wouldnt work cause if we fell out it would effect our work, so while working together we will have to be mates. I dnt know whether this is an excuse but its been a few months now and im still crazy about him. I want to ask him if we cud maybe go out 4 a drink or something but im scared tht i will get rejected and it will be embarrassing and awkward at work. I cant tell if he still likes me or not, i think he does but not 100%
Anyadvice?? :heart:
Like this guy who i work with and in september he was really flirty at a works party and hinted loads about likeing me, so basically we got really close and i went back to his house and we talked for hours. He genarally seemed interested and was talking bout us being together as a couple. Anyway i went home and rang him at work the next night to giv him my mobile number(i forgot the nightb4) but he didnt get in contact 4 over a week, eventually when he did he said he was sorry cause he does really like me but hes had things on his mind. We went out with a group of people 1 night and he got me on my own and explaned tht he had been told tht if he went out with me then he wud hav to transfer stores becauseits company policy tht lovers cant work together. I was gutted but understood and after alot of consideration we decided tht it was best not to risk his job and 2 just be friends. Since then policy has changed and he has been told tht we can go out together but he says tht it wouldnt work cause if we fell out it would effect our work, so while working together we will have to be mates. I dnt know whether this is an excuse but its been a few months now and im still crazy about him. I want to ask him if we cud maybe go out 4 a drink or something but im scared tht i will get rejected and it will be embarrassing and awkward at work. I cant tell if he still likes me or not, i think he does but not 100%
Anyadvice?? :heart: