How do I know If I am Or not?

[XxXSexychick15XxX]

I seriously think that im either bi -sexual or a lesbian but im very confused as to how i feel about guys. I know im very attracted to girls, i havent had a relationship with a girl but would love to just dont know how to go about it because no girl I know is bi or gay and its not really the thing within my mates.

Basically ... how do i work out if im bi or a lez? and where can i meet fellow bi girls?

Thanks in advance

[melanie]

when i used to go to the brook advisory center there were always posters advertising a gay lesbian and bi meetings that i think were run by brook.

maybe you could check out if there is somthing similar in your area? as a way to meet people in a similar situation

[ShyBoy]

I think the best way to go is just not worry where you fall, it's not all that important, just go with the flow, words like 'bisexual' and 'lesbian' are quite narrowbanded. What about 'lesbian but is still turned on by guys' etc? It comes down to the whole label thing - you are what you are and it doesn't matter whereabouts on the spectrum you fall, just go with the flow, if anyone asks just say something like 'somewhere in the middle'.

[otter]

how do i work out if im bi or a lez?
"bisexual" and "lesbian" are just mere labels. what matters is how you feel. if you want to label yourself as either - thats up to you. if you are attracted to girls, then you are either one or the other.

which sex would you feel more comfortable having a physical relationship with: males, females, or either?

how do you relate on an emotional level to each sex? - to men?
it's just a question as to whether you want to "cut men out of the picture or not?!"

you know, i've asked myself these same sort of questions a million times over, and it doesn't really get any easier.

if you want to meet other lesbians / bisexuals - :chin: - there are probably, at a guess, support groups for people questioning their sexuality - which you might find advertised at your gp's or FP clinic??? or alternatively, depending on your age - there are always gay and lesbian nightclubs, if thats your sort of thing?!

[mich22]

Hi there

TheSite has some info on exploring your sexuality if you'd like to take a look here (http://www.thesite.org/sexandrelationships/sexuality/exploration/exploringyoursexuality) .

Hope it helps.

Take care

M :thumb: