Am I A Prick?

[Twizter]

Hey peeps. Plz dnt judge me based on this post. But I was really confused and well I thought I would see what you guys thought! I'll try and keep short!




To start with I recently split up with my Ex called Girl A. Afterwards I was flirting with Girl B really badly, we both told each other we liked each other but said we would wait and see what happened. Although things started getting bit steamy with us and we were constantly texting each other etc...

Well Girl A wanted to get back with me and still does. Anyway Girl B went on holiday with the school this week, it was her and 6 other boys that was it. So naturally I was getting bit paranoid seeing as though I've been cheated on. Well I was texting her for first 3 days constantly, then her texts dried out all of a sudden. Then Girl A starts working her way back in, and I get my feelings back for her.

But I know that I want Girl B more, but I'm unsure what she wants to happen. I text her on Wednesday of last week, asking what she thought would happen, she doesn't reply. On Thursday she text me once but doesn't mention the question. During school things between me and Girl A get bit more intense. Then after school I talk to these two girls best mates and she tells me that I have to choose. I choose Girl B. So I text Girl A and say its over.

Next day at school I start talking to Girl A and at lunch we are flirting madly. We seemed really close. Then after school Girl A basically tells me to choose. Now after what had happened at school I was really into Girl A. But I think and decide to text Girl B again and ask what she thought would happen. She ignores AGAIN but 10 mins later asks what I'm up to. Plus I also have Girl A telling me that Girl B doesn't like me and was told this by her mate. At the time everything makes sense, I think she is right, girl B doesn't like me. So I tell Girl A that I want to get back with her, but I say I'll ask her out tomorrow when I see her. Girl A texts her mate (Jamie - who is on trip with Girl B) and tells her what happened. Jamie tells Girl B who rings me up and is in a proper stress with me. All she seems worried bout is me getting back with Girl B, but doesn't really seem bothered that I ain't getting wit her (if you get what I mean). This sort of reaffirms my stance and press ahead.

On Saturday I text Girl B more and find out that she did want something to happen :banghead: . All I wanted really was to get with her but I didn't think that was what she wanted. I go to work and think bout it all and realise that I didn't want to get with Girl A. So I decide not to meet with her after work.

Today after thinking about it some more I decided that I definitely didn't want Girl A but wanted Girl B. Speakin on MSN to some of her mates, I find out she is really upset that I chose Girl A. Also that Girl B thinks I'm going out with Girl A, which I'm not. So one of her mates tell me to text her and tell her that I'm not going out with her and that I like her! I do so and don't get a reply. She logs on MSN and ignores me. She is still really annoyed with me!

Who thinks I'm a prick? And be honest plz! I honestly didnt want all this to happen and feel like such a prick.

Also do you think there is still a chance she would give me a go? If so how would I try and make happen?

Soz bout how long it all is.

Thanks for reading, and thanks in advance for your replies!!!

[Twizter]

Well I have told Girl A now that I definitely don't want to be with her. but I don't know how to make things right with Girl B cos she hates me lol.

[lucifer devil]

Get rid of girl A and girl B, and find a new girl. You can call her girl C or something.

You haven't been very fair to girl A, it's not fair to keep leading her on. And it's not fair to girl B if you're still considering getting back with girl A.

[Twizter]

Yeah I know. But i finally kno what I want now! i kno i aint been fair to girl a and i feel a prick. but she did cheat on me as well so sort of just rewards.

and i know i want girl b now

[mystifymysoul]

Just explain to Girl B that you didn't mean for all that to happen, and that you liked her all along, but were just mixed up emotionally. Tell her that you are now sure of what you want, and that it is her. Reassure her that you want her! Tell her that the other girl doesn't matter anymore...you see your future with girl B.

[Twizter]

Just explain to Girl B that you didn't mean for all that to happen, and that you liked her all along, but were just mixed up emotionally. Tell her that you are now sure of what you want, and that it is her. Reassure her that you want her! Tell her that the other girl doesn't matter anymore...you see your future with girl B.
yeah i think im gona try that. cos i lyk her loads. jst i think ive blown wit her now.

[The_Furher]

Try and say you like both of them, you might think girl B is the one for you but once you get to know her better you might hate her, so say you like them both,
If girl B's txt has dried up dont keep txing her, just wait and if she likes you she will txt you back,
yeah just go for both of them, marry both of them or whatever.

[Twizter]

Well I dont want to be with Girl A. Also I know Girl B, Ive known her for bout 6 months now. And liked her the whole time, already been out with her once. But didn't work out dat time.

Even thought i know this is wrong. But I still liked Girl B when I was with Girl A. I just made sure nothing came of it.

Girl B is sort of one of those long term things and i know she has what I want. just its hard to find out out what she wants. it was only after i said i was gonna get with Girl A that Girl B told me she wanted something to happen!

[nicebutdim23]

it is a bit prickish - but shit happens at school. pick ONE girl and stick to your decision - bearing in mind you will probably have to work hard at regaining her trust. make her feel special, flowers , gestures, romantic "im so sorry" notes.
stay away where possible from the other girl.
in future , remember that more than one is greedy and hurts people, no-one ever wants to be second best.
DONT do it again.

[satehen]

I got a bit confused with all the girl A and B stuff, but it seems that you split with A whose in denial and want to get with B whose a bit of a cold fish. First of all whats with all the texts? I bet you wouldnt be in this mess if you'd have called B and asked her straight out. Its easier to ignore a text than it is someone asking you directly.
Are you a prick? Maybe not. You are confused though. You should follow your heart, it shouldnt be about who wants you the most, it should be about who YOU want the most.
You are however a total nob for messing A around, telling her you'll meet her and not showing up!
Seems your in a bit of a love triangle here. My advice tell A its over for good (nice clean break), tell B you have feelings for her and want to start a relationship.

[The_Furher]

it is a bit prickish - but shit happens at school. pick ONE girl and stick to your decision - bearing in mind you will probably have to work hard at regaining her trust. make her feel special, flowers , gestures, romantic "im so sorry" notes.
stay away where possible from the other girl.
in future , remember that more than one is greedy and hurts people, no-one ever wants to be second best.
DONT do it again.


Dont listen to this crap, if you allready have to reduce your manhood to writing "im so sorry notes" then its not worth it, dont buy flowers, just stop giving her so much attention she will soon be more interested in you, DO NOT write im so sorry notes, dont crawl over the earth for this girl man.

[nicebutdim23]

Dont listen to this crap, if you allready have to reduce your manhood to writing "im so sorry notes" then its not worth it, dont buy flowers, just stop giving her so much attention she will soon be more interested in you, DO NOT write im so sorry notes, dont crawl over the earth for this girl man.

yup...coz my post was all about reducing his manhood - if he thinks shes special then he needs to show it after treating her like shit.

[fairy drumstick]

Send her a single text.... I Like You, You Decide.... Than leave it. You not texting any more than that will drive her crazy. The least this guy seemed to want me the more I wanted him, so leave it simple and only at ONE text and it should be all good...... If thats what she even wants anymore....
Goodluck :)

[Twizter]

Hey guys thanks for your replies.

Just to rectify. She was going out with mates and asked me to come along. She wasn't too annoyed that I weren't coming out because we had just been arguing again and she realised that if I were to come out would probably cause more arguments.

Today at school was really awkward. In my geography class, I was getting cained about all the text messages I had sent her because apparently they nicked her phone and read the messages. And at break and lunch we just ignored each other lol.

[swank]

*gone*

[ginner]

Psycho! Psycho! Psycho killer!

[stargalaxy]

I don't think you're a prick, I just think you've behaved appallingly. Best way to get out of this rucus would be to have no more to do with girls A or B. Find some new blood.

[Twizter]

I didn't text her recently. This was whilst she was in Wales. This was there first day back at school. So I'm getting the stick now lol.

[AverageJoe87]

Dont listen to this crap, if you allready have to reduce your manhood to writing "im so sorry notes" then its not worth it, dont buy flowers, just stop giving her so much attention she will soon be more interested in you, DO NOT write im so sorry notes, dont crawl over the earth for this girl man.You sir, are a jerk. It's because of people like you that others get treated like shit and end up being scared to commit because of bad past experiences. This lad has been a moron, and he needs to make it up if he wants to start seeing 'Girl B' (call me shallow, but I wouldn't go out with somebody called that, any - WHAT her parents were thinking, I'll never know..).