i want more!!

[lexijb]

Is it wrong that i wanna have a lot of sex??
im always safe etc and very aware of that.... :angel:
Think i should have been a bloke could have got away with it more easily!! lol

I havent slept with loads of people, only 12 which isnt realy that high!

Am finding it pretty difficult to find a bloke that shares my opinion tho?
I didnt think it would be so hard to find 1 bloke who wanted sex and nothing else!! Have i got the wrong impression about men in general?
I just wanna have sum fun!

( and no that was not a hint for offers cos am sure some of you think bad of me....and dont judge me cos you dont know me lol )
:p

[Mist]

There's any number of people who are happy to have no-strings sex, though for a lot of people sex does involve a degree of emotional attachment too. You make your own choice, there's nothing inherently "wrong" with having had lots of sexual partners, though I'd say it's only a big deal if you keep mentioning it all the time.

After all, noone else has to know.

[lexijb]

reason i mentioned da number is so people didnt assume it was higher!

and i cant find any of these no strings people goddamn them lol

[Mist]

reason i mentioned da number is so people didnt assume it was higher!

and i cant find any of these no strings people goddamn them lol

They are definitely about. You can try swinging or dating websites online, though that is easier for couples.

[cornishangel24]

First off NO, it is not bad that you want lots of sex! And yes i'm sure there are lots and lots of men around that only want you for sex, however, are you sure that they are the men you want to be sleeping with? You might think you want no strings attached sex, but you might deep down (and no i'm not trying to generalise or tell you want you want) want a great man who you can have feelings for but also get to have your wicked way with whenever you want. In my experience, no strings attached sex became much much more, and i'm the better for it. :thumb:

[lexijb]

Yer i know what you mean, but until i find him..i cant not have sex!!
I always seem to find blokes like that....with their girlfriends :( obv nt too helpful!
cheers 4 ur thoughts tho :)

[Man Of Kent]

Whatever you do. Play safe.

Oh and blokes on websites, looking for "no strings", are usually married...[/cynic]

[lexijb]

websites n stuff like that i jus wanna stay away from.
Jus wanna go out in town and know exactly wat 2 say lol hmm am gonna need alot of luck for that 1 lol

[***kellie***]

well people call me a nympho. as u dont make out ur a slag

[cornishangel24]

I would think that if you tell a man exactly what you want, he will either say yes or no. In my experience there is nothing wrong with meeting a guy in a pub, chatting for a while and then telling him that 'i would like no stings attached sex and am looking for a good night out, do you want to help.' If you lay down your rules, you'll be suprised what you can acheive. Obviously with the proper precautions and it is better if the person is like a friend or a friend. so at least you know your not going off with someone who is going to tie you up.....

but then if your into that then all the better! :wave:

[k@tie]

well people call me a nympho.

Yup, Chris has decided I'm a nympho :lol:

[Garp1965]

Trouble is you're playing with emotions. Theres nothing wrong with you at all and I'm sure if you hit it off in a pub with a guy and tell him the way it is you'll get what you want, good luck girl!! Wish Essex was a bit closer!! x

[Mist]

Yer i know what you mean, but until i find him..i cant not have sex!!
I always seem to find blokes like that....with their girlfriends :( obv nt too helpful!
cheers 4 ur thoughts tho :)

Okay if you're not into looking for folk online then you'd just have to be open when you meet people in bars and stuff, once you've got to a suitable point in your conversation then I'd just say what your views are so there's no confusion.

[Fenix Blade]

Being from Essex too, I heard that if you hang around Clacton and Harwich they'll always be some lads up for it. They drive past and usually some bird asks for a lift home..which usually involves stopping off in a layby. :p

Don't you know any guy mates who fancy you? Surely they'd be more than happy to help you out? Or try and keep a lid on it and start a relationship with someone..they'll soon figure out how much you like sex.

PS: Is it that you can't find someone with as high a sex drive as yours, or you just want to sleep with loads of different people? Because they'd both have different ways to achieve what you want. For example, meeting a potential boyfriend is different to meeting the next shag ya know. Sorry that sounds crude.

[nicebutdim23]

cant imagine that many men saying no once they know what you are after tbh! saves them doing any hard work! ;)

stay safe though, and be careful of guys too- eg don't just get in cars with strangers blah blah....not everyone is genuine.

[Fenix Blade]

cant imagine that many men saying no once they know what you are after tbh! saves them doing any hard work! ;)

stay safe though, and be careful of guys too- eg don't just get in cars with strangers blah blah....not everyone is genuine.

I was kind of joking with my car comment if that was what you were referring too :blush: But still, i wouldn't advise it myself. :yes:

[nicebutdim23]

I was kind of joking with my car comment if that was what you were referring too :blush: But still, i wouldn't advise it myself. :yes:

i wasnt actually! just thinking of a mate of mine who had narrow escape! :)

[lexijb]

None of my boyfriends have ever had a high sex drive compared to me. lol

I dont know any boy mates who are really up for it, and generally all my boy mates have got girlfriends.

I've spoke to a few blokes about it, and they're flirty and then i mention maybe wanna continue somewher else.... n thats the end of that lol Maybe its how i say it i dunno v v odd maybe thats just not what they want.

If a relationship came along it wouldnt be such a big deal, id b quite happy with taking the relationship at whatever speed they wanted.

Maybe i just want what i cant seem to get lol

[Fenix Blade]

I've spoke to a few blokes about it, and they're flirty and then i mention maybe wanna continue somewher else.... n thats the end of that lol

Maybe they're embarrassed, shocked or nervous because they're not used to it. Maybe you should just masturbate more and control your hormones :crazyeyes

If you can take things slow with a boyfriend..why can't you wait for sex?

[nicebutdim23]

get a rampant rabbit- they truly are gods gift to frustrated women.