Anal.

[k@tie]

Yes, I know variants of this have been done before. And I know in relation to my thread in the relationships forum this might seem a bit weird, but as much as Chris and I fight, our sex life is very healthy :D. So I need advice, which my gay best friend can't give me (despite his expertise).

How on earth do I clean 'up there' before anal? I think somone referred to it as 'doushing'? I don't want him to pull out and be all 'Eww, my dick's covered in shit!" :yuck:

Ta Mucho
xxx

[original_me]

erggh! annals not good! dont do it! evil! evil i tell u!

[k@tie]

If you have nothing helpful to say, don't say anything at all.


But at least you read the link I posted for you, well done :thumb:

[go_away]

I think enemas can be quite invasive for something like anal sex, I know porn stars use them, but if you want to feel crystal clean, then I think kits can be bought from chemists.

Poo isn't stored in the rectum, it's in the colon and only goes into the rectum when it's all ready to come out, so to coin a phrase, if you need to go, go! Actually I'd go anyway.

But I'd wait until you sort the stuff you mentioned in the other thread before you embark on something so intimate with him.

p.s. lots of time and patience + a good lube = :yes:

[Fenix Blade]

ps: I hope you meant, "eww the condom's covered in shit"

The best advise I read was just go to the loo if possible, otherwise you just have to wait and see. I doubt he'll complain considering what you two would have done.

[cornishangel24]

have never had the 'ewwwww... my dick's covered in shit' scenario, as of yet. I can imagine it might ruin the mood. :yuck: Have however seen an anal douch on sextoys.co.uk.
http://www.sextoys.co.uk/modules/view.asp?Prodcode=N1390

this site is great as people who have previously bought the product can rate it and give an opinion.

Hope this helps!

[Maladjusted]

Never had it really be a problem to be honest, as go_away said, it's stored in the rectum and not the colon, so as long as you don't need to go then you'll be fine.

[***kellie***]

well from my experience it doesnt. just so enjoy

xx

[k@tie]

ps: I hope you meant, "eww the condom's covered in shit"


I did, thank you! :)

Cheers for the replies, made me feel much better :thumb:

[Fenix Blade]

I did, thank you! :)



;)

[chan-chan]

Yes, I know variants of this have been done before. And I know in relation to my thread in the relationships forum this might seem a bit weird, but as much as Chris and I fight, our sex life is very healthy :D. So I need advice, which my gay best friend can't give me (despite his expertise).

How on earth do I clean 'up there' before anal? I think somone referred to it as 'doushing'? I don't want him to pull out and be all 'Eww, my dick's covered in shit!" :yuck:

Ta Mucho
xxx
Um, I dunno, I guess if you have taken a shit b4, then you'll need to wash it. But if you ain't...not a problem, I guess.

[k@tie]

I've never ever used a condom, do they really affect sex?

[Amira]

I've never ever used a condom, do they really affect sex?
i dont like the idea of them, but i dont like many of the concequences of not wearing one....so im yet to decide what i do :p

ETA: apparently it makes it less sensitive for the bloke

[k@tie]

I'm on the Pill and he's my first partner so I'm pretty sure I'm safe.

I know it's not 100% effective though, before I get flamed for being unsafe!

[Amira]

I'm on the Pill and he's my first partner so I'm pretty sure I'm safe.

I know it's not 100% effective though, before I get flamed for being unsafe!
are you his first partner is what matter hun ;)

[k@tie]

I am :)

[AverageJoe87]

I've never ever used a condom, do they really affect sex?Yes, yes they do. Sex with a condom is a hell of a lot safer (if you don't know your partner's sexual past), but sex without one is so intimate and close (even closer than that). Unless it's a drunken shambles on someone else's bed.

Oh.

Damn.

Edit - oh yer, if you are both your first sexual partners, and neither of you has slept with anybody else (failing this, as long as you're both clean), I wouldn't use a condom. Why protect against something you both know you haven't got?

[SuzyCreamcheese]

its not about STDs, you should use a condom for anal sex even if you dont use one normally, because chances are you might want to swap between `orifices` during sex and rather than him having to run to the loo mid-coitus for him to wash his dick or risk introducing some very unsavoury bacteria to your vagina, its much easier and healhier to use a condom for anal, and then you can take it off if you want to swap holes :)

[k@tie]

Thank you RB, but I'd make him use a condom for anal no matter what :yes:

You talk a lot of sense though. Like, consistenly. You remind me of my mummy (That's good, I promise!)

[SuzyCreamcheese]

You remind me of my mummy (That's good, I promise!)
LOL thankyou..... I think.

[kinkz]

Anal play is great i love it with my partner. Just use a little lube and away you go. Does anyone have any more tips ?

[Robi]

my girlfriend and i do it, and as we're committed to each other, we do it bareback. i.e. no condom, but she's always clean, and i wash afterwards.
it's good fun if done right, like most things. so get down and do it......and enjoy. :naughty:

[ClaireBear]

More useful info and safety tips in our article about anal play (http://www.thesite.org/sexandrelationships/havingsex/styles/analplay).

CB