Is this normal?

[ladyfiaragc]

So... The first guy I had sex with lasted a long time and we didn't really use a condom. (we did for a little while but he couldn't keep it up so I told him he could take it off) Well... I've had sex 3 times since then, with a different guy and we're using condoms. After sex, or the morning after, I really don't feel good. Like I get a stomach ache and I just don't feel so hot. Do other girls get this? Could it be something in the condom? Could it just be in my mind?

Confused
Fia

[BORED AT WORK]

Does it hurt when you go to the toilet?

if so, you may have a bladder infection caused by having sex. you can go to the chemist to get something for that before it gets too bad.

[spanner]

It's almost impossible for anyone here to tell you what this could be. The best thing you can do is go to your doctor for professional advice. It could be completely unrelated to sex, but either way, you should get it checked out.

I'm sure you are already aware of this, but taking a condom off half way through sex means you are not protected against the risk of STIs (http://www.thesite.org/sexandrelationships/safersex/sexualhealth) - if you get into the habit of always wearing them now it will much better for your health and peace of mind in the long run.

:)

[ladyfiaragc]

:no: No, it doesn't hurt when I go to the bathroom...

[Mad Mac]

So... The first guy I had sex with lasted a long time and we didn't really use a condom. (we did for a little while but he couldn't keep it up so I told him he could take it off) Well... I've had sex 3 times since then, with a different guy and we're using condoms. After sex, or the morning after, I really don't feel good. Like I get a stomach ache and I just don't feel so hot. Do other girls get this? Could it be something in the condom? Could it just be in my mind?

Confused
Fia

what sort of stomach ache isit? is it at the bottom of your stomach?

[malteser monkay]

I used to get a sore stomach after sex with my ex. He was quite a 'long' lad which tended to hurt a bit if I wasn't 'warmed up' but even then I sometimes found in the morning I felt sore as though the muscles had been forced and stretched - just like, a dicomfort.

Anything to what you might be feeling?

Malt xx :)

[IsoberImswear]

My bf is rather umm large, and i know i almost always have cramps the morning after, i think its just because im rather sensitive, and i get cramps all the time, like especially really bad ones during my period. it may be something like that. but yeah i agree that you should go to the doctors.

[Mr_Wobble]

My guesses would be either a latex alergy (but if you've used condoms before, then this is less likely), or maybe he's just hitting your cervix quite a lot, and therefore causing some pain & discomfort afterwards. Neither may be right, but worth thinking about.

[Carriage Return]

My guesses would be either a latex alergy
mine too, although it could be lubricant.

try with a femidom to see if it is a latex thing.

Of course, you could have got pelic inflammatory disease after that unprotected time, so a trip to the GUM clinic may be in order

[***kellie***]

u could be allergic u ever thought of that like?
xx