Why do i give up in the middle?

[ahs1586]

When my boyfriend and I are having fun and he starts to finger me and turn me on, he does a great job and then i feel like im on my way to a climax and i just give up and totally relax and let it go.... what is going on with me? Help me please! :heart:

[IsoberImswear]

actually yeah, if anyone knows the answer to this one let me know- i have the same problem.

[BORED AT WORK]

I think it is because you know you want to orgasm and you can feel it coming but then you try to hard to cum - once you try to hard, you loose it!!

[m24]

Maybe u need the sex....

[Nichobo]

Have you ever tried remaining tense until it hits you? Clench every muscle you have there and hold on. Relaxing doesn't help you to climax. Let me know if it works...

[Mr_Wobble]

Some say relaxing helps, others don't. It's hard to say.

[spanner]

The female orgasm (http://www.thesite.org/sexandrelationships/havingsex/styles/thefemaleorgasm)
;)

[***kellie***]

dont give up just relax n it'll come.literally

xx