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qwertyqwerty
08-02-2005, 12:34 PM
A quick few questions for the ladiesss :

Im new to this game and was hoping you could answer me a few q's, basically just want to make sure im doing everything right by my girlfriend !!

1) When im having sex with my girlfriend im usually waiting for some sign of her cumming, usually waiting for her to tighten up around my shaft as im penetrating. Im guessing this is when she's climaxing and this period this is when i pleasure myself and climax. Am i right in doing this teqnique ???

2) When i think she's climaxed, she does the usual then slows down and a bit and the breathing changes so i presume she's climaxed so i then go for it myself to climax, with men once we've climaxed we need a kind of rest few minutes or so before we can get back into it usually lose the erection etc. Do women have this urge to slow down a bit before i can gte back into it or not ???

3) Once ive climaxed and ejaculated inside her as we dont use condoms and she's on the pill, does the cum dribble out through the night or does it stay up there or .... ?? is it an uncomfortable feeling ?? I know that sounds sick or bit wierd, but im just curious

4) What her to really enjoy it and think im great in the sack as everyone does, but the question is how that is basically what this is all about ! Is it all about positions ? techniques ? foreplay ? .... ?


THANKS FOR YOUR TIME TO RESPOND !!! :)

Nichobo
08-02-2005, 01:14 PM
Hi, I am sure you will find loads of answers here, but the best person to ask is actually your girlfriend, nobody can give you a better opinion/advise!!
Different positions and techniques will always go down well :thumb: - as many as you can fit in that causes sensation, foreplay is a must!! Nice to have a quicky of course, but if you are taking her out for dinner gotta atleast offer a starter!! :yes:

You sound like you are doing pretty well though :thumb:

Luce
08-02-2005, 03:41 PM
"3) Once ive climaxed and ejaculated inside her as we dont use condoms and she's on the pill, does the cum dribble out through the night or does it stay up there or .... ?? is it an uncomfortable feeling ?? I know that sounds sick or bit wierd, but im just curious"
I go to the toilet and let it run out, and wee as well to try and reduce chances of getting cystitis, then curl up in bed with them.

spongebobsgirl
08-02-2005, 03:48 PM
nichobos right, ask your girlfriend. just judge by her reactions when you do things+you'll know if she likes it or not.
Im like luce and go to the loo straight afterwards. i am on the pill, but very very rarely let my b.f climax inside of me, but always go to the loo and get rid of as much of it as possible, yuck!
your technique sounds fine, but everyone is different. as for asking if women need to rest, sometimes yes if your abit horny. but for me, if im really really excited, i dont rest :naughty:
SBG

Luce
08-02-2005, 09:32 PM
"but very very rarely let my b.f climax inside of me," - Why, SBG? I'm just curious? Is it because you think you still might get pregnant, even on the Pill? Or you just don't like it all running out after?

Kermit
08-02-2005, 09:44 PM
1. You can tell when a woman orgasms because, apart from the vaginal contractions, her chest and neck become flushed, and she breathes more heavily. She may also scream, "oh, fuck, yes", if you're good.

2. It depends on the sex and it depends on the woman. Women can achieve multiple orgasm, and they can keep going for more and more should they wish. But not all women wish to in every case. They don't have to slow down, but some want to, and some don't. Agfter they've come, some women want you to fuck them even harder. So it goes.

3. Semen doesn't tend to stay in the vagina, as gravity has a say in this. A box of tissues or a toilet roll by the bed is the ideal thing, to wipe up any errant semen.

4. There isn't a set technique that is guaranteed to make a girl climax: the g-spot is not a fixed place, and not all women have a g-spot, for instance. Ask her what she likes, get her to show you what she likes, get her to tell you if you're doing something well. Women seem to love tutoring men in the art of sex (purely for selfish reasons, of course) and she'll be more than happy to oblige.

Plenty of kissing, especially down there and plenty of cuddles and foreplay should do the trick just nicely. Remember that penetration is not the only part of sex, so don't rush to stick it in her.

nicebutdim23
08-02-2005, 11:39 PM
alot of women dont climax during penetration anyway, so dont expect it to happen just like that -work on foreplay too. im sure i read somewhere only 9% of woman cum during penetration...and yes it does dribble out, it can be uncomfortable as u feel a bit flooded and too wet, but not uncomfortable in a painful sense. keep a box of tissues by the bed so you can both have a wipe.

***kellie***
20-02-2005, 04:05 AM
A quick few questions for the ladiesss :

Im new to this game and was hoping you could answer me a few q's, basically just want to make sure im doing everything right by my girlfriend !!

1) When im having sex with my girlfriend im usually waiting for some sign of her cumming, usually waiting for her to tighten up around my shaft as im penetrating. Im guessing this is when she's climaxing and this period this is when i pleasure myself and climax. Am i right in doing this teqnique ???

2) When i think she's climaxed, she does the usual then slows down and a bit and the breathing changes so i presume she's climaxed so i then go for it myself to climax, with men once we've climaxed we need a kind of rest few minutes or so before we can get back into it usually lose the erection etc. Do women have this urge to slow down a bit before i can gte back into it or not ???

3) Once ive climaxed and ejaculated inside her as we dont use condoms and she's on the pill, does the cum dribble out through the night or does it stay up there or .... ?? is it an uncomfortable feeling ?? I know that sounds sick or bit wierd, but im just curious

4) What her to really enjoy it and think im great in the sack as everyone does, but the question is how that is basically what this is all about ! Is it all about positions ? techniques ? foreplay ? .... ?


THANKS FOR YOUR TIME TO RESPOND !!! :)



1) yes
2) lases can climax all night there is no limit unless she is sore
3)not an unconfortable feeling but yes
4)all about connectivity with the person

happy humping

xx