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gemma.lock
07-02-2005, 11:26 AM
please help me, i had my baby 7 months ago and i just dont seem to have much of a sex drive anymore :banghead: whilst i was pg and before i had her we were fine, but now i am just tired constantly. The baby is no excuse coz i sleep all the time she sleeps well, and my partner has her while i sleep during the day. I dont even like my partner touching my breasts etc. this is really upsetting him now, he always reasures me but it dont seem to work, i love him so much :love: :heart: and i am so scared of loosing him.

please help me :crying:
nicebutdim23
07-02-2005, 02:21 PM
i remember from your previous posts that you've been having other problems as well, this is another symptom of those problems and those need to be dealt with before you will feel like sex again, its all linked. it is also possible there is a subconcious fear of having another baby and going through what you are going through at the moment again, therefore you reject any sexual advances.

have you managed to speak to your gp yet?
gemma.lock
07-02-2005, 02:53 PM
Hi there i am going to see him at 5.40 today it has been so bad trying to get the oppointment , do u think that could explain the tiredness then too? Thanks for your reply
nicebutdim23
07-02-2005, 11:17 PM
there are very many various symptoms for what you have ,so its possible the tiredness is linked too. feel free to pm if you want to talk any time.
spanner
08-02-2005, 10:23 AM
Hiya
Just thought I'd post a few links ot some articles on TheSite that might be useful:
Mismatched sex drives (http://www.thesite.org/sexandrelationships/couples/relationshipissues/mismatchedsexdrives)
Shake up your sex life (http://www.thesite.org/sexandrelationships/couples/lifeasacouple/shakeupyoursexlife)

And if you think the problem is more serious...
Sex therapy (http://www.thesite.org/sexandrelationships/couples/relationshipissues/sextherapy)
Relationship therapy (http://www.thesite.org/sexandrelationships/couples/relationshipissues/relationshiptherapy)

Hope some of this helps.
:)
gemma.lock
08-02-2005, 05:31 PM
hi spanner, that lovely thank you for your help i will check them out now