Should I say yes?

[XxXSexychick15XxX]

At xmas me n my bf had sex but we agreed that cos of my problems we would wait anoth year or so b4 doing it again.

We are a long distance relationship n im seeing him again on valentines day for a few days. He wants to give me oral but im not sure, partly cos my periods due then so i am considerin sayin no to fingerin, oral everythink but he really wants to show me a gd time?! :rolleyes:

HELP!

Wat am i meant to say to him?!

All advice appreaciated!
:(

[Mist]

tell him what you've just said in this post. he should respect your wishes to be honest.

[~kaz~]

Agreed I am sure he would understand.

[stargalaxy]

This man sounds extremely insensitive. Don't let him anywhere near you until you tell him exactly what he's allowed and not allowed to do.

[Reese_86]

No!

If You're Not Fucking Sure If You Should Do Something Sexual Or Not
Then Don't Do It!

[groovechampion]

This man sounds extremely insensitive.

hehe ;) yeah, he's soooo insensitive. I'm outraged too.

[boomting]

just let him fuck u good , period or not.

[groovechampion]

just let him fuck u good , period or not.

:eek2:

[nmrmak]

just let him fuck u good , period or not.
Someone's gonna get banned, someone's gonna get banned, someone's gonna get banned!!! :yes: :D

[nmrmak]

groovechampion, nice signature:
The dumber people think you are, the more surprised they're going to be when you kill them. :thumb:

[w3lsh_princ3ss]

At xmas me n my bf had sex but we agreed that cos of my problems we would wait anoth year or so b4 doing it again.

What problems have you got? If you don't mind me asking that is.

And if you're not comfortable with doing something then don't do it!! Never let any man pressurise you into something you don't want to do because you'll regret it. If he understands then you know you've got a decent fella :thumb: but if not then maybe you need to rethink you're relationship as he's probably only interested in 1 thing.

[groovechampion]

groovechampion, nice signature:
The dumber people think you are, the more surprised they're going to be when you kill them. :thumb:

cheers! :cool:

[groovechampion]

What problems have you got? If you don't mind me asking that is.

And if you're not comfortable with doing something then don't do it!! Never let any man pressurise you into something you don't want to do because you'll regret it. If he understands then you know you've got a decent fella :thumb: but if not then maybe you need to rethink you're relationship as he's probably only interested in 1 thing.

hmm thats not necessarily true. Just because a guy wants sex badly and is perhaps somewhat insensitive about it doesn't mean he doesnt care about you.

[andy101]

just let him fuck u good , period or not.

right on! :)

[Doofay]

right on! :)

Alright. You're spending all your time signing up under different usernames to try to bug people, yet it isn't working.

Join your local stamp collecting club. Its the only way.

[w3lsh_princ3ss]

hmm thats not necessarily true. Just because a guy wants sex badly and is perhaps somewhat insensitive about it doesn't mean he doesnt care about you.

Sorry i dont think i was particularily (sp?) clear:

I didnt mean she should dump him because it automatically means he doesnt care about her, i meant she should maybe rethink the relationship because its possible that all he's after is sex...

Better? :p

[lucifer devil]

If you're not comfortable doing something then it's simple really, don't.