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paperdoll
28-01-2005, 07:33 PM
ive just about had it with my manager and the way she treats me, which is basically like a piece of shit.

her fave phrase towards me is "im sick of you". she is always rude, and snidey towards me, which would be fine, except its only towards me. i work in a restaurant, only about 25 staff altogether, and i can guarantee im the only person on the receiving end of it, ive asked around

the final straw came last week, i was in the bar, and a check came through for 2 floater coffees (liquer coffe with cream floated on top of it). they are really hard to make! so i asked her if she could poosibly do it, cos i cant do it. she turned, sneered at me, and said

"i cannot believe that the next generation of children in this country are going to be taught by YOU - *mimics me in stupid voice* 'i cant do it' "

i am a student teacher. i just had to walk away, as i was about to burst into tears. how absolutely vile and horrible is that??? thats my future career, ffs, what i intend to do with my life.

and the next day she tried to make light of it saying id taken it too seriously. how was i supposed to take it? chortle merrily and say, right, im gunna be a shit teacher, good one, ho ho?

but then, at other times, she gives me hugley responsible jobs, like managing the tills, training up the new starts, etc. i really cant fathom her out.

its all making me really upset as a result. but i dont wanna leave, as i have so many good friends there, plus i need the money.

what should i do??

MrG
28-01-2005, 07:36 PM
get her the sack

Olive
28-01-2005, 08:15 PM
is she the top boss, or just your boss? if there's anyone more senior than her, i'd report her to them for harrassment.

if she's the most senior member of staff, i don't know what i'd do.

nicebutdim23
28-01-2005, 11:23 PM
agree with kaffrin, this woman is being incredibly unproffessional, and needs to be told by someone senior. i have found that people like this tend to jealous. you are doing something with your life you want to do - she just works in a coffee shop.and obviously isnt happy with it.

u deserve an apology, she was really rude and unproffessional

Joolyknockers
29-01-2005, 01:06 PM
She sounds like a real bully, like everyone else has said - take it to her senior, and keep a diary of her nasty comments too.