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Paula
21-01-2005, 06:44 AM
Hi, im a little concerned about a trouble im going through with my female friend, she has stopped talking to me cuz of a misunderstanding we had, she thought i liked a kid she did, but it wasn't like that at all, but she never understood that, she's also very young and immature to get that through her head, but me and her had a little thing going on,

and we never got into fights or none of that, that was the only thing that happened, we get along too well, but now she's refusing to talk to me, she's over that kid, and everybody has told her that she got everything all wrong, even her mom tells her that, i speak to her mom and she tells me everything, i mean her mom doesn't know what goes on between me and her, NO WAY! but her mom really likes me, and understands me opposed to her.


So she knows she messed up accusing me of something it wasn't like she thought, or is trying to overpass that, cuz she doesn't like to admit anything, so i've tried everything to try talking to her, but she's undenial, i know she wants to talk to me cuz we have this huge connection and it's like i can feel her calling me or sending me some type of sign telepathically or something, it's scary, im not crazy or nothing, but seriously, we're there eye to eye, so that's why i feel that,

i have written her a letter and everything, but so far she hasn't answer none of that, and i just cant understand why she keeps avoiding me, i know she doesn't hate me or nothing like that
But i just dont get her, and people just dont forget things from day til night, specially if we never argued or none of that, so im not understanding her behavior, and last time i saw her i said hi, and she didn't even make eye contact with me, why? and it's funny cuz i can tell the girl wants to talk to me but it's acting so hard or trying so hard, that she makes it seem like she doesn't even know me, but she cant lie to me, her vibe just says it all, so im wondering what can be wrong with her,

why she's so uptight like that? im telling you we didn't argue at all, we got along just fine, even with her family, that her mom once told me that no one has ever been able to get through to them like i have, so we're connected in a lot of ways, but she's refusing to come up and say something, and like i said i've written her a letter not to long ago, and now a friend of mines that knows her too, is trying to talk to her to see what's going on with her, but i still want to know, why she's pretending she forgot about everything, or she doesn't care?

but she doesn't fool me, that's why i want to hear a different opinon, to see if im crazy to think this way or feel this way. and what bothers me the most is that im too proud too, so im over here trying to make things work cuz i know it can work, and you know that when we dream our subconsciousness tells us whatever we're going through with our current life, and usualy when you have done something wrong but you're saying otherwise your conscience kills you, but ever since we had that argument i've been dreaming with her every night and not in one dream has she been mad at me,

the other way around she comes up to me and apologizes with this big smile, so those dreams dont help much, i know they mean something, all dreams do, and 90% im usually right. So i just really want to know what this whole thing may mean, hope you understood what i was trying to say.... Thanks a lot

rockerchick
21-01-2005, 07:25 AM
It sounds a little like you may be trying to convince yourself that there isnt a problem when clearly there is, maybe she needs some time to sort her own head out.If your that close to her im sure you want to give her the space she needs.

Paula
21-01-2005, 09:27 AM
Thanks for your opinion

i have giving her time, way way way lot of time, and it's been 5 months since this whole none sence occured, so i dont know what is up with her, she be contradicting herself too, i just dont know what to think or how else to feel