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JustWondering
12-12-2004, 09:11 PM
In what ways do you like to be touched in a loving rather then sexual way?

And did any partners you've do anything particularly good or bad.

And if you had a partner that only ever touched you to get themselves off rather then simply being caring what did you do about it?

clementine_the_tangerine
12-12-2004, 09:16 PM
In a loving way I liked being stroked on the forehead or kissed because it made me feel protected.

Bad thing is probably heading straight for the boobs for foreplay. Left nothing to the imagination.

Rach x

Lanni
13-12-2004, 02:06 AM
A hug from behind.

**sugar**
13-12-2004, 02:45 AM
Originally posted by Rachael
Bad thing is probably heading straight for the boobs for foreplay. Left nothing to the imagination.

This is the *worst* thing for me i reckon :eek2:

As for likes, i think its just nice when a guy cuddles me round my neck kinda thing, where i can lean my head on his shoulder, it makes me feel protected.

its just nice to hold hands sometimes too, although its not exactly really loving, but with the right person it feels good, and its the little things that count for me. :yes:

intrigue
13-12-2004, 08:42 AM
Softly stroking my back will turn me to mush and i assume its because when i was younger and upset my mum would do it. Im sure psychologists amongst you can confirm that.

I like any of the cuddling type stuff really and it does put me off when people are too guarded i have only ever been with one person who never reciprocated much.

Which was wierd as some of you say you hate it when people grab ya boobs, well i try not to do that and this chick basically forced me to (not a bad thing ud think) but at the same time i think maybe she jumped the gun some. Every person ive been with other then her it has been a progression. Maybe i just like the chase and am not in a rush.

.matt

blonde__batman
13-12-2004, 09:06 AM
Originally posted by intrigue
Softly stroking my back will turn me to mush

:yes: i love that :) soo soothing

i love when my boyfriend strokes my arms and kisses me on the forhead. :)

and cuddles from behind when u can lean on him or tilt my head back and he kisses my head :)

and bad....hmm....i hate it when the go straight down ur trousers...no kissing or anything first...its like...hello?! just cos you're up for it 24/7 doesnt mean i am!!!

intrigue
13-12-2004, 09:10 AM
Originally posted by blonde__batman
:yes: i love that :) soo soothing

i love when my boyfriend strokes my arms and kisses me on the forhead. :)

and cuddles from behind when u can lean on him or tilt my head back and he kisses my head :)

The last person i was with wouldnt let me do that because her ex did!?!?!!? Does that we cant kiss or have sex because he did :rolleyes:

I couldnt kiss her ears as well that really pissed her off. (why would you do that maybe ya wondering haha.)
.matt

ali_1989
13-12-2004, 12:05 PM
I love it when a guy hugs me from behind and i can lean on him. Also if I am upset or crying when they brush away my tears, that makes me feel a bit better.

intrigue
13-12-2004, 12:09 PM
a lot of these things are general things that peeps do anyways aint they? A question for the women would be have you meet a lot of guys who dont do this? I mean i assumed every man turned into a woman when it came to their misses (sorry to put it that way but im hoping you know what i mean)
.matt

clementine_the_tangerine
13-12-2004, 02:23 PM
Yes. I mean my ex wasn't a very huggy person. It hurt a lot. Till I realised he just wasn't very affectionate.

Rach x

intrigue
13-12-2004, 02:38 PM
Thats the thing with the last chick i was involved with i did really like her but she wasnt very affectionatge either. really annoyed me. hmmmm
chicks :rolleyes:
.matt

clementine_the_tangerine
13-12-2004, 02:41 PM
I crave affection. :(

Rach x

Ilora-Danon
13-12-2004, 03:49 PM
Cuddled from behind is always my fave :)

Ilora x

swank
13-12-2004, 04:20 PM
*gone*

luckystar69
13-12-2004, 04:35 PM
I love being cuddled up watching tv with my guy and he'll stroke and caress my hands i love that i dont know why just because sometimes he doesnt realise hes doing it and it just makes me see how lucky i am!! Also same time when ill be leaning on his chest whilst were cuddled up and he'll just kiss me on the top of my head, its so nice makes me get butterflies!! :D

guest7
13-12-2004, 05:45 PM
just being held is lovely :crying:

*Aphrodite*
13-12-2004, 06:25 PM
cuddling up close to eachother
having my neck stroked when im upset and being cuddled
cuddling from behind
snuggling up in bed together
waking up with their arm wrapped around you and holding you close
snuggling up under a duvet on the sofa when its cold
stroking my hair
kissing my forehead


i crave affection....what can i say? :/

**grunge gurl**
13-12-2004, 07:42 PM
i love it when they kiss me on my nose, or my forehead. or when they randomly cuddle me from behind, like when shopping or something. or when it's freezing and they give u their jacket and they cuddle u. cuddling is generally a big must for me. or when they randomly grab my hand whilst out somewhere. cuddling under a duvet. being able to lay on his chest and feeling protected by him.

christ, i miss being in a relationship, i am so lonely :crying: :crying: :crying:

clementine_the_tangerine
15-12-2004, 01:52 PM
Originally posted by ~*STRESSED*~
I want affection all the time lol

Awww *huggles* We should form a club...

Rach x

malteser monkay
15-12-2004, 03:37 PM
I loves :


being cuddled from behind
when he touches my nose with his thumb when he wants me attention
kissing my nose/forhead
when we're lying with my head just below his chin
when he tugs at my jeans cause he doesn't want me to walk away, then pulls me closer and wraps his arm around me
aww...i loves my bloke...


Malt Munk xx :)

aimz
15-12-2004, 03:48 PM
I want to be touched, i dont care who by as long as they are warm and clean and know how to hug a lonely woman :(
i miss being hugged from behind at night.
i loved that feeling of being held tightly so your safe from everything outside the bed :D