Psycho ex's

[Pan_chan_boo]

Most of us experience having them at least once in our life time, and they can be such a problem, why on earth do people become so obsesive!?

Either way, i hadnt heard from mine in ages, he's had theripy, been on medication and alsorts, then out of the blue he sends me an email....

Just to let you know I have changed my email and phone number, you can't get in touch with me ever again, never again will you hurt me, because you have done enough of that for one life time, I would say i hope you are happy, but i couldn't really care less....

well i could, and you know what..... i would really want to, but i will settle for the knowlage i ain't ever going to see or hear from you ever again

so good bye


P.S.

I am finally happy and it was helped in the thought you will soon be miserable

MY 1st reaction was : WTF?!

I understand perhaps i may have contributed to his psychological problem, but only when he wouldnt leave me alone and made my life miserable! The last thing i sent him was a "how are you? hope your doing ok, btw happy birthday" in august and this is what i get in return?!

He ruined most of my education, destroyed my social life and self esteem, and has claimed im a slut when he doesnt even know me yet he says im the one who hurt him?!

Once again, i want to go and brick his windows ¬_¬:mad:

[Pan_chan_boo]

My point is, i now feel really annoyed, and its all i can think about, im so thoughrily pissed off! I really do want to just find him and hit him!

I know i should wind down, and forget about it, but it feels pretty shit to have someone tell you that they hope your life turns out shit, and then you cant even give them a piece of your mind in return! :mad:

[melanie]

I have a big time psyco ex, well actually he was a psyco all the way through i just couldnt see it for a while. But once we finished he went even worse, tried claiming that he had cancer, told everyone that he had finished it because i tried stabbing him and i was a psyco (sadly he got things in reverse), came to my flat the day i finished him and got let in by a flat mate that didnt know we had finished, was waiting in my room when i got home and pinned me to the wall and started ripping off my clothes but my flat mates heard me screaming and helped me and then we had to call campus security to "escort him off the premises"

[Pan_chan_boo]

Ouch, sorry, but im glad mine wasnt as bad as yours!!

My ex apparently had problems all along too, i cant remember the name of the illness, but he gets scared around big groups of people. :confused:

[Maladjusted]

i know, but just think you're better off without him in your life. at least you didn't have the [problem i ahd of my ex harassing me constantly for a year afetrwards until i finally pissed her of enough to just leave me alone.

just accept the fact that he's a twat and not worth the agro over.

[Pan_chan_boo]

Why cant they just learn to let go though? I know break ups are hard, but you just gota face it.

Mine was 5 years older than me, and we 1st got together when i was 13! big mistake!!!

anyways in the end i dumped him, but he pestered me to come round still, and lie down on his bed to watch films and stuff like that. *shudder* he was a big perve!

In the end i went clubbing, and he came in just to see me, even though he hates clubs, and tricked my brother into saying he could give us a lift home. He also decided to race with his mates, took a speed bump to fast, so the girl next to me in the car passed out when she hit her head on the roof, he then had the decency to drive off on us because he was annoyed that we'd got out of the car!

Luckily it was my cue to never see him again.... bliss!

[chan-chan]

Arh, yes, the Psycho Ex.

I had one and he has fucked up my self esteem and self worth badly.

So now im in a good relationship, and I am damaged by the past.

Very difficult to move on and forget and sometimes I can't let go. Its a bit scary because I don't know if I would ever be able to let go and I'm not sure how to.

[spongebobsgirl]

to be honest it sounds from his email, and what you've said, that he's the one thats miserable and unhappy, but he's in denial about it+so focusing his anger on you!! quite sad really, he doesnt deserve your anger, only pity!!
SBG
BTW *hugs* for everyone here with physco exes, i know how u feel+mine still upsets me 2 years on :(