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[zooby]

Hey! I Jus had a big argument wit my now ex! coz she cheated on me, and at a party on saturday night and she was there n she said i was flirting with her best friend (that she thinks ive fancied for 10 months) and now that i hav got to know her friend better, i do fancy her! n i dunno wot to do! coz every1 will fink im doin it for revenge!

wot should i do?

cya J:cool:

[Fiend_85]

Sorry, what?

Your ex cheated, you like somone else. Where is the problem?

[StupidGirl]

If everyone thinks you're doing it for revenge, so what? As long as your ex's friend doesn't think so, there's no problem. All the same it may not be a good idea to go jumping into a new relationship with a friend of your ex straight away as it could cause all kinds of problems for them and you're more than likely to run into her while seeing this new girl etc. I would just get to know her a bit better now you're single and see how you feel in a couple of months.

[zooby]

hey! i have alwayz been friends with her best friend, but we went out somewhere on friday night and me n her wer the only ones not wit sum1 there so we decided to go as a kinda "couple/friends" n i got to know her better thn i fot i wood get to know her. but its jus that know1 knows that i do like her sept ma bes m8 n her pal! and i know ppl will think tht im goin to go wit her m8 coz of wot happened on saturday night!

Cya J:cool:

[Fiend_85]

cn u stp using txtspk plskthnx

[zooby]

Sorry, im just used to typing like that nowadayz, because im always on msn! lol (laugh out loud) :p

cya J:cool:

[Fiend_85]

Some contractions are clearly fun, like LOL WTF STFU etc... But if you use text talk and fail to find the punctuation keys it gets a little annoying to decode.

[StupidGirl]

That's fair enough...all I'm saying is that what happened with you and your ex may be clouding your judgement a bit and even if you don't think you're doing it to get revenge, subconsciously that may be part of the reason. In that case, taking things further with this girl wouldn't be fair on you or her. My advice would definitely be to wait and see how things go, just stay mates with her for now, go out and have fun by all means but don't be in a rush to become a proper couple straight away. It might be that the best thing is for you to stay single for a while, as someone else who's not so close to the whole "you and your ex" thing might come along.