Petty Arguing.

[z0ma]

Is petty arguing the beginning of the end, or is it healthy for a relationship?

Just want opinions really.

[ShyBoy]

better to get stress out than keeping it in, but if you're rubbing each other the wrong way constantly then perhaps you need a break (not break up, or anything like that) from each other once in a while. So, rather than spending 24/7 together maybe see each other for a small period of time each day or week or whatever...

[onenatcan]

All people have disagreements. NO two people see eye to eye on everything.

Arguments are just healthy aspects of relationships.

[swank]

*gone*

[Kermit]

Depends how much and how vociferously.

Any couple argues, and it's nearly always about petty things. But if you're arguing every day or two, you could do with working out what's wrong.

[Fiend_85]

If you never argue then you don't ever discuss things that upset either of you, and that's not healthy.

[Olive]

if you've been together so long, and the only thing you can find to argue about is who lost the remote, or how she once said you were balding slightly, you're doing rather well, don't you think?

sometimes the petty arguing stage is a bad thing, but usually it's just you getting comfy with each other.

[__debris]

Completely a downfall in my opinion.

I used to block out how shit it was that we argued all the time by saying "Oooh, if we didn't argue, it'd be boring being loved up all the time."

Aye, my Aunt Fanny! Anyways, I dunno..honesty's needed and if you can get that out constructively, then cool. If it's heated and insulting, then get out of the relationship ASAP!

[Kermit]

Originally posted by __debris
Completely a downfall in my opinion.

I think it does depend on how much.

We argue about some stupid things sometimes, but it's not very often, and it's normally when one of us is miserable and tired.

If you're doing it every week you've got trouble.

[__debris]

Originally posted by Kermit
If you're doing it every week you've got trouble.

Yaaa, that's why it's a downfall.

For me anyways, but I'm sooo getting out of it tonight. :D

[AlmightyBob]

Me and my gf went through a patch of arguing...and it started out petty...and it got to the point where screaming, flying furniture and bodily harm became an issue.....but we are the best we've ever been now.

SO..arguing aint always the begining of the end at all un less you want it to be.

Peace