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RudeBwoy
06-11-2004, 05:20 PM
This is gonna be a little hard to explain to bear with me please.

My friend (guy 1) is best friends with another guy (guy 2). Guy 2 has a sister, she fancies guy 1.

At this moment in time my mate guy 1 is feeling a little stressed as to how he should handle the situation, he likes his best mates sister but not sure if its gonna affect the friendship.

Opinions/advice much appreciated :)

Thanks
rachie004
06-11-2004, 06:26 PM
does guy 1 fancy guy 2's sister? cos if he doesn't then there isn't a problem :p
cheesy_stick
06-11-2004, 06:30 PM
i think a relationship occurring between the two of them would affect the friendship...i know i would find it weird if one of my friends was going out with my sister, and i dont think i would feel comfortable going out with a friends sister.
swank
06-11-2004, 08:39 PM
*gone*
not_an_angel
06-11-2004, 10:14 PM
Ok, so I know a relationship almost like that... but is not a sister is a cousin... but "guy 2" and his cousin are too close... "guy 1" and "guy 2" get mad to each other, they got everyone insane :crazyeyes

anyway... there wasn't a relationship... and they stilll best friends :)
RudeBwoy
07-11-2004, 09:15 AM
Ok heres a little more background for ya:

Guy 1 and the sis get along very well as they have a lot in common and have loads of fun together. He is 18 and she is 17.

Guy 2 is 19 and is best friends with guy 1, hes having suspicions, he says its ok if anything goes on but it will definately be very weird for him.

Guy one is getting to like the sis more and more everyday and they are getting more affectionate everyday too.

Do you think this is weird?
not_an_angel
07-11-2004, 10:11 AM
I think both guys need to talk...
Kermit
07-11-2004, 12:22 PM
Originally posted by not_an_angel
I think both guys need to talk...

The only way, isn't it?

If your two friends don't aske ach otehr what they really feel then resentm,ent will build up. It's resentment that breaks friendships, not your choice of shag.
RudeBwoy
07-11-2004, 06:08 PM
Originally posted by Kermit

If your two friends don't aske ach otehr what they really feel then resentm,ent will build up. It's resentment that breaks friendships, not your choice of shag.

Hmm maybe a talk is whats needed, i will have a word with one of them and suggest talking to the other one because they are good mates and it will be a shame to see them fall out.
RudeBwoy
08-11-2004, 06:04 PM
Ok guy 1 and guy 2 have sorted their differences now. Chances are that guy 1 is gonna go out with the sis, he feels weird but wants it to go ahead.