Dont know what to do

[PRETTYgreenEYES]

I dont know what to do i broke up with my boyfriend on halloween which i really regret i wanted a break but not to end completely and now he wont take me back im struggling a lot with school i ahve gcses soon and i cant concentrate on nmy coursework and everything. one minute i can be fine and the next il be really down and just cry not a day has gone by yet that i haven't cryed i just feel that i cant cope without him and with the stress of school i just feel so low. my friends and me are arguing a lot to because id like to try again soon with my boyfriend if he takes me back and they think he isnt good enough and id be silly to get back with me but they dont understand that i love him and all they do is slag him off. my parents are on at me to do well in school and to not let him affect my future but its just so hard and i dont know what to do sometimes i just wish i could end everything.

[Martin_Bashir]

woah...breathless there PGE, but if thats how it came out fair enough.

you've got GCSE's already?!?!?! gosh. theres not alot that can be said tbh about a situation i have no idea about.

i mean, without coming on too strong with a view to getting back together, could you ask him if you could just meet up and talk CRUCIALLY with noone else finding out about it. Just you two. other people complicate what is already a complex situation.

Failing that, while you try and work your feelings out, try and talk about him less with your mates (if you need to, do so with one freind that you feel close to and comfortable talking with), as i said loadsa different opinions clattering around your brain and leave you more confuddled than you are at the moment.


in terms of reducing your stress while you figure this out, just try and think of some things YOU would like to do that would make YOU happy, possibly with some mates and get out and enjoy yourself.

cant really say much else, but good luck
:)

[PRETTYgreenEYES]

no i dont have GCSEs yet im taking them in july i think but its all the studying and coursework that im dealing with now and im falling behind in that and stuff. the guy in question lives about an hour away from me and at the mo we are just chatting through text he seems to be dealing with it so well asnd im not we were together 15 months. nothing makes me happy anymore all i do is spend my time on the computer music blaring and eating chocolate my mates just depress me when they are all with their boyfriends and then they ahve the cheek to tell me mine wasnt good enough and how hes gonna get over me quick its there fault i dumped him in the first place. we'd had a row and i was in a state and they told me to dump him and in the heat of the moment i did and i didnt want to and all i want is him to come back to me but i dont think he will and im scared to lose him i feel i cant live without him

[*TiNK*]

Hun, how do you know he's coping well, if your just talking through text then emotions are very easy to hide. Basically you have two options, either talk to him properly, see how he feels, ask him why you split up, and tell him how you feel, and try and get him back that way. Or you can just try to forget about him and eventually you will heal. IMO your mates arent being very fair to you and need to see it from your point of view, but i can see where your parents are coming from, you do need to concentrate on your exams, i know its hard to concentrate when something horrible happens, but you need to. Can you not try and not speak to him for a week or so? and then text him and see how he feels, let him see weather he misses you or not?
Good luck with what you do. x

[not_an_angel]

haven't you tryed something to stop you stressing out?

I have 3 things that help me...

* I write in a sort of diary... anything... what i'm thinking...
* Kick-boxing
* I have a psycologist...

Try one of them... good luck :) focus on your study... realy ;)