Just leave me alone

[NeoNero]

:'( Thats all i keep getting from people. My ex just text me that, all i wanted was to ask her when she would see me so i could give her an xmas present.

Ive got no friends, but people i do text just say the same thing to me.

no one cares, if i died today there would be about five people at my funeral, all family, no friends, no one.

I wish i killed myself when my ex dumped me a year ago as then i wouldnt have had to live like this for a year every day crying, be depressed having people be horrible to me, having everyone telling me to go away. :'(

I wana be dead as ive got nothing to live for and nothing to be happy about. Not one thing :( Everythings gone wrong for me since last year, nothing has gone right since last year, everything was perfect but now i have nothing. Not one thing to make me happy about.

*cries*

[Yerascrote]

i went through a stage like that once, even thought my family didn't love me, thing is, people DO love you, you're bringing this onto yourself, get out and put a smile on your face and make proper friends cos the "friends" you've mentioned here obviously arne't.

[NeoNero]

I dont have any friends. Just people telling me to leave them alone and go away.

[Pan_chan_boo]

I dont want to sound rude, or offend anyone in any way, but i used to have a male friend, who whenever i spoke to him that is basicaly what he would say to me, but he actualy brought it on himself with the way he acted and responded to people.

I dont actualy know you to be able to coment, but perhaps you should try and help yourself, if people want you to "leave them alone" surely there is a valid reason? try and discover why and do something about it rather than just sitting and sulking. You never know, that may be one reason why they dont appreciate you like they should

[spongebobsgirl]

get out and make yourself some new friends - ones that wont ignore you/tell you to go away!! Good luck
SBG

[Whowhere]

Yeah, get out there and make new friends. College, uni e.t.c.

[Makoto]

It's not that easy to just go out and make new friends when you feel depressed and lonely guy's.

What don't people like about you, and don't just say because they don't care for you because there needs to be a real reason behind it. I can bet they do care for you but being depressed makes you think like it.

I think the first thing to do if talk to a family member about how you feel because you will feel better. You could even make an appiontment to see your GP and tell him/her how you feel. Either way both your family and GP will understand.

You say that you have nothing to live for but really you have everything to live for even tho it seems like you don't. Everyone get's stuck in a rut at some point in our lives and it just takes a little effort to get out of it.

www.samaritans.org.uk - 08457 90 90 90 - if you feel like talking but not to anyone you know.

[Carolina]

Maybe your ex was starting to feel uncomfortable with the fact you obviously haven't moved on? If it finished a year ago then usually ex's wouldn't be buying xmas present a year on. Maybe they feel uncomfortable and it was easier for them to say leave them alone.

[stargalaxy]

Originally posted by Felix Da Housecat
It's not that easy to just go out and make new friends when you feel depressed and lonely. guys.Oh, at last, somebody who actually understands the feeling! I felt like that recently, and people kept telling me to go out and make friends. Not easy when the only thing on my mind was how to kill myself.

I think the first thing to do if talk to a family member about how you feel because you will feel better. You could even make an appiontment to see your GP and tell him/her how you feel. Either way both your family and GP will understand. You say that you have nothing to live for but really you have everything to live for even tho it seems like you don't. Everyone get's stuck in a rut at some point in our lives and it just takes a little effort to get out of it.I agree. Until recently, I thought just like this all the time. Now, I'm busily trying to sort things out. I'm planning to go to university next year, and I'm planning to get myself a job in the meantime. Haven't sorted out the social side of things yet, but I've decided I have other priorities for now. There is hope for anyone, and to think I nearly didn't have the chance to learn that.

[NeoNero]

I duno whats wrong with me, i never get told. I do ask and im told im really nice and cute and funny and talkative and really lovely.

Or i get told just to leave them alone again, i never get told whats wrong with me so i cant better myself. :(

[Makoto]

I duno whats wrong with me, i never get told.

Maybe you have answered your own question there. The reason nobody has ever told you there is something wrong with you is because there isn't anything wrong woth you. It's just that you may of got your self into a negative way of thinking.

Have you ever asked these people why they keep telling you to leave you them alone? Have you had an argument or something, because if you don't ask you don't know.

[**grunge gurl**]

Originally posted by NeoNero
I wish i killed myself when my ex dumped me a year ago as then i wouldnt have had to live like this for a year every day crying, be depressed having people be horrible to me, having everyone telling me to go away. :'(

That's so how I feel. I have felt like this for almost a year now, and whenever I try to move on from my ex, something pulls me back to where I was before.

I feel sorry for you, but I can't give you any advice cos I don't know what. I think one main thing is to feel happy with yourself, it is true that if you don't love yourself, then no one else will love you.

I wish you all the luck in finding happiness, and new friends and all that. xxxx

[Indrid Cold]

Um, can I ask a question? How come that everyone's ran to reply to this thread, and when I had asked roughly the same thing almost no one did?
NeoNero, I'm not being against you or anything... Actually, I sympathise. It just seems even people on here ignore me.

[Makoto]

Go see your GP and get an appointment with your councillor. It will help as well.

[TheSovereign]

Originally posted by NeoNero
I duno whats wrong with me, i never get told. I do ask and im told im really nice and cute and funny and talkative and really lovely.

Or i get told just to leave them alone again, i never get told whats wrong with me so i cant better myself. :(

come and live with me. we could get a house haha what the heck! or i could come and find you. wb or message me. or msn me if you like.

[Indrid Cold]

Ignored again, figures... I take it if I'm not depressed I'm not important enough, right?

[mich22]

Hey stop ignoring Zalbor!!

We're not ignoring you. When did you post on the same subject? I can't find it. Chin up buddy we are here for you too. And now that you've joined this thread you can talk about your experiences too.

[mich22]

N-N there is nothing wrong with you. People can just be funny like that sometimes it's really hard to understand why. If you make the effort, you expect people to do the same for you, but it's not always like that.

Just hang in there-there will always be people who will like you just for you and those are the true, genuine friends. The others obviously weren't even worth it in the first place and you rather find out sooner rather than later and not waste your time with them. Just be yourself and be confident with who you are and the right kind of people will be drawn to that.

It takes time I know but don't give up and don't bring yourself down because of other people's insensitivity.

*hugs* take care

[Indrid Cold]

Originally posted by mich22
Hey stop ignoring Zalbor!!

We're not ignoring you. When did you post on the same subject? I can't find it. Chin up buddy we are here for you too. And now that you've joined this thread you can talk about your experiences too.
Well, thanks for at least letting me know that people aren't skipping my posts. The thread I mentioned was this (http://vbulletin.thesite.org.uk/showthread.php?s=&threadid=71901) and only Kermit replied (thanks).

As for talking about my own experiences, I have in that thread. If I go into more detail I think I'll be kind of selfish and a thread hijacker (if I'm not already).

[not_an_angel]

Originally posted by NeoNero
I duno whats wrong with me, i never get told. I do ask and im told im really nice and cute and funny and talkative and really lovely.

Or i get told just to leave them alone again, i never get told whats wrong with me so i cant better myself. :(

Oh, it is the same with me... "Oh, you are so special, so different!" But when I need... lol... they treat me just like rubbish... I know it is hard... But you have to search for friends out there... you can do it on internet too... actualy, most of the people I can call friend, I only talk to them on internet, because they live far, or something... and I tell you... I feel better when I chat on internet (ok, when I'm not fine) then on "real life"... try it.. realy... and... good luck ;)

[not_an_angel]

Originally posted by mich22
N-N there is nothing wrong with you. People can just be funny like that sometimes it's really hard to understand why. If you make the effort, you expect people to do the same for you, but it's not always like that.

Just hang in there-there will always be people who will like you just for you and those are the true, genuine friends. The others obviously weren't even worth it in the first place and you rather find out sooner rather than later and not waste your time with them. Just be yourself and be confident with who you are and the right kind of people will be drawn to that.

It takes time I know but don't give up and don't bring yourself down because of other people's insensitivity.

*hugs* take care


that is soooooooooo right :) one guy I can call a friend is always saying me that... tk u tk u tk u :)

[NeoNero]

Well i went to a club friday, some girl who was a bit drunk came up to me and was jumping up and down with me but by the end of the night she looked to be in tears, i asked her if she was okay and she asked for me to buy her a drink.

I said jokingly you already got one and she said 'WELL i WANT another one.' And when i said i dont really buy girls drinks cos normally i just get used for that. Then she said 'well if i was gona use u for a drink id kiss you and fuck you and get a drink that way' she then pushed me over as i was knealing down.

I chat to a girl on msn i dont really know but i bumped into her in the club, she was with two really nice mates and i got chatting to them.

I knew there was nothing there but they were kinda nice to me if maybe a little werid cos they didnt know me.

Then just now she talks to me on msn and says

yeh well whatever you kinda creeped us oout
and i dont think we'd make mates
your a bit much

Which has made me feel terrible, any confidence i gained from that night has now gone. She said i was werid to hug her when i said hi, i was only being friendly, especially as i talk to her on msn and things.

Feel rather sad and rejected now that no one liked me :(

Maybe im just meant to live alone for my life.

[stargalaxy]

Originally posted by NeoNero: I chat to a girl on msn i dont really know but i bumped into her in the club, she was with two really nice mates and i got chatting to them. Which has made me feel terrible, any confidence i gained from that night has now gone. She said i was werid to hug her when i said hi, i was only being friendly, especially as i talk to her on msn and things. Feel rather sad and rejected now that no one liked me. Maybe im just meant to live alone for my life. I always used to make too much effort to get people to like me. I'm not suggesting that is what you have done here. I'm not used to seeing people giving hugs when they first meet up, but maybe that's just me. I doubt you're meant to be alone, NeoNero.

[TheSovereign]

dammit man i'd peck ya on each cheek if it made ya feel hapy

[bluestatesman]

Neo, just live. Do the things you want to do. Or at least, do one thing you want to do every day. As for friends who don't make you feel better....take your time and search for new friends. You know there's a lot of people out there.