Grrr! I am so angry!

[**grunge gurl**]

I haven't had contact with my ex's new girlfriend for over 4 months now. Then on sunday night I got an email from her saying "Hi!! I thought you might like this picture as it has my boyfriend [name] in it. xxxxxxxxxx" and then underneath was a photo of me and my ex taken about a year ago with a beard, glasses, ginger hair etc drawn on me. At first I laughed at it, as it is very childish and just proves how old she is (14) and then I started to get very insulted and upset about it. If it was sent as a joke, I could've kept laughing at it, but as I KNOW it was done in spite and to make me look stupid (as a friend who goes to the 6th form at her school saw her showing her friends the picture :mad: ) I got very angry. My ex just says it was done as a joke, yea, a fucking funny joke! Now me and my ex have had a blazing row and we aint speaking anymore. He didn't even know how his gf got hold of the photo and didn't know she sent it to me with graffiti on me, but seems to be standing up for his gf (understandably). But still, I am so angry, and I don't want to make contact with her as I know all she wants is for me to start an arguement then she can rub in my face that she's going out with my ex now. :mad: I know I should just leave it, and I will, but I am just so angry! It was a completely pointless thing to do. My friends (who also hate her) said it is probably because my ex's new gf hates the fact that me and my ex go to the same college, let alone speak to each other (we have a lesson together) and she probably thinks I am a threat. That is a load of bollox, I am not a threat to her. He's with her now and I'm fine about it, aslong as she doesn't contact me and cause trouble. I know this wont be the last stunt she pulls, but GRRRR it's pissed me off so much!! :mad: :mad: :mad:

Sorry, I went on abit there about nothing really!

[*TiNK*]

Thats so pathetic.

[go_away]

In a world where I enjoy stooping down to their level, I'd send her a used condom saying "Hi! I thought you might like this condom as it has my ex boyfriend's [cum] in it. xxxxxxxxxx"

But tis best to rise above it all, despite the deliciously evil potential ;)

[BumbleBee]

She's 14 years old, ignore her. I've never heard of anything so pathetic. What she did was childish and immature, don't sink to her level just let it wash over you.

It speaks volumes for him too though if he wants to be with someone that sad. You're well shot in my opinion.

[**grunge gurl**]

Thanks for your replies so far.
I am just so annoyed, I don't give them any hassle. Me and my ex get on fine until she butts her big nose into it. It's not just me she gets angry about him speaking to her, she won't let him speak to any girl. It was so unnessessary, why bother wasting her time to graffiti all over a photo of me and then send it to me? If I was her, I wouldn't bother. :mad: She is so pathetic, but how much would I like to get her back for this??!! :p

[go_away]

Sounds as if she's very insecure and quickly got jealous over you and your ex getting on. I'd just feel sad for the pathetic creature, obviously nothing better to get on with (including time to have a proper relationhip with her boyfriend) just to waste time doctoring a photo.

[**grunge gurl**]

Oh I know she is jealous. She is a very jealous person, just like me. She used to be jealous of me when I was going out with my ex. About 2 months before me and my ex split, she got a photo of me and my ex (her brother is my ex's ex best mate) that her brother had taken of us when we went to a party and cut my face out! I was very shocked then but just took it in my stride. But this has gone too far now, she is making my life hell, pranking me all through the night, phoning my house etc and I don't want it anymore! I thought it was the ex girlfriends that were supposed to pester the new girlfriends, but it's the other way round! I feel quite sorry for her too, shes obviously so insecure that she thinks I'm some kind of threat.

[nmrmak]

Originally posted by go_away
In a world where I enjoy stooping down to their level, I'd send her a used condom saying "Hi! I thought you might like this condom as it has my ex boyfriend's [cum] in it. xxxxxxxxxx"

But tis best to rise above it all, despite the deliciously evil potential ;)

I actually laughed out loud at that idea. Very creative!:lol:

[**grunge gurl**]

Today I found out that not only my ex was in on sending me the picture, but his sister was, who I thought was one of my best friends. She said she didnt know anything about it to my face, and then goes and tells two of my best friends that she knew all about it and was there when it was sent :mad:.

I know it was a bad idea trying to be friends with my ex's sister, and especially as they are twins they have this whole bond thing going on. I think I'm better off without all 3 of them tbh, but it's so hard to let go of everything I had.

It would've been me and my ex's 2 year anniversary tomorrow, and I know we didn't exactly get close to it, but it's not as if I can just forget about these things.

Maybe I am just being stupid about something I can't do anything about, but I'd like to be friends with my ex and his sister, but I just can't do it. I cried at college today cos I just an't take any more of this shit :(.

[swank]

*gone*

[**grunge gurl**]

We were together a year and 4 months.

Yea, I kinda know it's just meant to make me look stupid. I guess maybe it is because she thinks I am a threat (that's what I've been told from my friends who still have contact with her) but still, this has just gone too far. She has also gone round her year at school showing everyone and laughing at it with them. Humph.