Is nice boring?

[Kermit]

Are nice boys just dull, at the end of the day?

By nice I mean the sort of man who will always do what his missus wants, he will always be "caring" and "sensitive", that sort.

Are "bad boys" more interesting?

[Crispy]

If the above is true then i'm buggered:(

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[*Lisa*]

Well, nice boys are good but a bit of badboy is better in a way. I'll grow out of that though. :yes:

[Bri-namite]

I'm nice, but I'm also good in bed, really funny, and I can dance really well :thumb:

I'd replace "nice", with "doormat" and then I'd agree.

But then I can be a doormat too.

Aren't I complex? :crazyeyes

[Mr_Wobble]

Originally posted by *Lisa*
Well, nice boys are good but a bit of badboy is better in a way. I'll grow out of that though. :yes: So, what is it about badboys then? Why do you find yourself going for them, when you know they'll only cause you grief?

[princessamy]

Well my boyfriend is 'nice', or more accurately he treats me like a queen & is almost overly sensitive. BUT since he was about 16 he's accumulated a history of robbing cars nightly, nicking £100's of stuff from various jobs, and screwing over anyone he doesn't truly love.
I find that 'bad boy' thing great, for many reasons.
So nice doesn't have to be boring at all, you can be nice and still be very interesting. I think for boring 'doormat' was the correct description.

[Mr_Wobble]

Originally posted by princessamy
Well my boyfriend is 'nice', or more accurately he treats me like a queen & is almost overly sensitive. BUT since he was about 16 he's accumulated a history of robbing cars nightly, nicking £100's of stuff from various jobs, and screwing over anyone he doesn't truly love.
I find that 'bad boy' thing great, for many reasons.
So nice doesn't have to be boring at all, you can be nice and still be very interesting. I think for boring 'doormat' was the correct description. But he isn't nice, and he isn't interesting. He's a piece of scummy shit that deserves to be wiped off the face of this planet. He's thieving scum, and doesn't even deserve to breathe the same air as the rest of us. :mad:
Being a thieving scumbag doesn't make him interesting. And how on earth can that meke him great? And how does that lead to "other reasons"

[RudeBwoy]

My ex dumped me because i was "nice and boring". She likes the bad boy thing too.

Heres my opinion:

If a girl likes the bad boy she is just asking for pain and trouble. Once the girl is hurt or even been abused by this bad guy, dont go to the nice guy for advice. The girl ends up hurting herself and the nice guy, so next time the girl does hurt herself with this badboy, leave the nice guy alone until you learn how to treat yourself.

Sorry i just hate bad boys, i used to be one about 2 years ago and i know how they treat girls. Im a nice guy now and i can see the dramatic change in attitudes.

[RudeBwoy]

Originally posted by Mr_Wobble
But he isn't nice, and he isn't interesting. He's a piece of scummy shit that deserves to be wiped off the face of this planet. He's thieving scum, and doesn't even deserve to breathe the same air as the rest of us. :mad:
Being a thieving scumbag doesn't make him interesting. And how on earth can that meke him great? And how does that lead to "other reasons"

Agreed Mate.

[Zella]

My guy's a nice guy:) He's caring, sweet, gentalman like (opens doors and what have you) but then is an animal in the bedroom.
Best of both worlds:D

[1983]

Hrm, mine's is a right bad boy. I like it because if it was settled and too familiar, I'd get bored. I'm still in the mood to "not know" where things go, even though I know he's mad about me to bits despite his butch exterior.

I've heard him when he's drunk. :p And we know EEEEEEEEEEEVERYONE tells the truth when they're drunk. :D

[Kermit]

Princessamy: it wouldn't be a bad thing if your boyfriend was liberally removed from his kneecaps.

I suppose by "nice" I was kinda meaning more the doormat aspect, than anything else. I wasn't meaning treating a girl with respect and love, more doing everything she says just to please her.

[groovechampion]

Originally posted by princessamy
Well my boyfriend is 'nice', or more accurately he treats me like a queen & is almost overly sensitive. BUT since he was about 16 he's accumulated a history of robbing cars nightly, nicking £100's of stuff from various jobs, and screwing over anyone he doesn't truly love.
I find that 'bad boy' thing great, for many reasons.
So nice doesn't have to be boring at all, you can be nice and still be very interesting. I think for boring 'doormat' was the correct description.

He's not nice, he's a thieving little shit.

[princessamy]

Originally posted by Mr_Wobble
But he isn't nice, and he isn't interesting. He's a piece of scummy shit that deserves to be wiped off the face of this planet. He's thieving scum, and doesn't even deserve to breathe the same air as the rest of us. :mad:
Being a thieving scumbag doesn't make him interesting. And how on earth can that meke him great? And how does that lead to "other reasons"
I completely get you saying that, but it's not like that. Most of that is his past, he doesn't steal anymore and he's had alot of comeuppance. It makes him interesting because he has alot of storys to tell and has really opened up my eyes to the shit that goes on where i live (birmingham) i never realised how sheltered I was before.
I really couldn't ask for a better boyfriend. No one has ever treated me as well as him, he looks after me completely, and I know part of this is down to him knowing how many horrible people they're really are on my doorstep.
There's lot more to him than being a scumbag (which he really isn't anymore), I know I can hardly get people on the web to see that, but I was just showing how bad guys can treat you well aswell.

[Kermit]

Originally posted by princessamy
I was just showing how bad guys can treat you well aswell.

Indeed, the Krays (*spit*) loved their mum.

:rolleyes:

Being a crim doesn't makle someone a "bad boy", not in this sense anyway. Think "treat 'em mean, keep 'em keen" and you're there.

[princessamy]

Originally posted by Kermit
Being a crim doesn't makle someone a "bad boy", not in this sense anyway. Think "treat 'em mean, keep 'em keen" and you're there.
Okay, sorry I was thinking along the wrong lines then... I'm very glad I don't have someone with the 'treat them mean...' attitude, i've been through that. And I'm happy now. Very happy.

[littlemissy]

Originally posted by Kermit
Are nice boys just dull, at the end of the day?

By nice I mean the sort of man who will always do what his missus wants, he will always be "caring" and "sensitive", that sort.

Are "bad boys" more interesting?

:no: i like my nice boy :)

[Cuddilicious]

Nice guy is sweet but not if he's a doormat where he'll do anything I say and won't put up a fight even if I'm wrong :no:

Bad Boys... usually are pricks and wouldn't really interest me as they seem to think about only number one if enjoy getting up to no good 'all the time' where it pulls me down with them.

[Tweety]

Originally posted by Kermit
Are nice boys just dull, at the end of the day?

By nice I mean the sort of man who will always do what his missus wants, he will always be "caring" and "sensitive", that sort.

Are "bad boys" more interesting?

When you are a kid, bad boys just seem to be what you want, its exciting. When you grow up most (not all) women prefer a nice man.
Chris is the first "nice" man i have been with & most of the time i couldnt be happier.

[dantheman]

Bad boys get most girls pulse racing but when they grow up
they realise whats good for them.

[David Grohl]

Originally posted by Mr_Wobble
But he isn't nice, and he isn't interesting. He's a piece of scummy shit that deserves to be wiped off the face of this planet. He's thieving scum, and doesn't even deserve to breathe the same air as the rest of us. :mad:
Being a thieving scumbag doesn't make him interesting. And how on earth can that meke him great? And how does that lead to "other reasons"

i agree wobble, my cars been broken into and my shit beens stolen. i find thieves and dicks like that the lowest scum of the earth. someday he'll rob the wrong car and will soon get sorted out by a couple of lads, then who'll be interesting whilst hes sucking coke from a straw. how on earth can any one steal anything, i work with huge sums of money and never once have i though of pocketing it. one day you'll find out that your boyfriend isnt as great as you think so until then keep your head borrowed in the sand :rolleyes:

[David Grohl]

Originally posted by Zella
My guy's a nice guy:) He's caring, sweet, gentalman like (opens doors and what have you) but then is an animal in the bedroom.
Best of both worlds:D

that describes me :p but seriously being a bad boy doesnt mean you automatically be come brilliant in bed, it just means there dicks. although its true that some girls go for the bad boy types and get fucked over even thought they knew what the fella was like, then they sterotype fellas as ****s. on the other hand theres fellas who are nice and girls who reliese this and have a brilliant relationship and have a more interseting and perverted sex life :p my gf doesnt have any sympathy to girls who get hurt by bad boys and thinks there arseholes anyway.

[Pink Soda]

Yeah I prefer a 'bad boy'..really hate that phrase though..by bad boy I do mean the whole 'treat 'em mean keep 'em keen' thing as well as quite a bit of arrogance and knowing what they want.

I guess it's because I'm quite overpowering myself, and it's nice to have someone who's confident and more of a man than a mouse. I can't explain..but I've been out with lovely guys who've treated me like a queen but that I just never got excited about y'know? Then I've been out with arrogant bastards who I couldn't wait to see, and who I was far more sexually attracted to, despite the heartache and upset they might have caused me.

I'm sure there's a healthy balance somewhere, but I have yet to find it :(

[wheresmyplacebo]

Originally posted by princessamy
Well my boyfriend is 'nice', or more accurately he treats me like a queen & is almost overly sensitive. BUT since he was about 16 he's accumulated a history of robbing cars nightly, nicking £100's of stuff from various jobs, and screwing over anyone he doesn't truly love.


your proud he does that :eek2:

theres a difference between getting up to mischief when younger and having sotires to tell and being a actual serial criminal


theres also a difference between 'nice' and 'skivy' ya know ladies and thats me ;) /whoring

if you want a bad boy theres always http://www.hitler.org/hitler.jpg :lol:

[wheresmyplacebo]

hoping for a good response....... :D

[*§atania*]

MY ex used to be a 'bad boy' but he wasn't to me if you know what I mean. He used to be sooo nice to me and treat me so sweetly but all the guyz at skool where scared shitless of him 'cuz they knew he could beat the shit out of them (and I spose he did live up to that rep.)

In my opinion, if a 'bad boy' if a bloke that treats his girl badly or disrespectfully then he'd have o chance with me. Players and what not, no matter how cute and 'charming' wouldn't stand a chance.

But yet there are some girls that are attracted to them...:confused:

[princessamy]

Originally posted by David Grohl
i agree wobble, my cars been broken into and my shit beens stolen. i find thieves and dicks like that the lowest scum of the earth. someday he'll rob the wrong car and will soon get sorted out by a couple of lads, then who'll be interesting whilst hes sucking coke from a straw. how on earth can any one steal anything, i work with huge sums of money and never once have i though of pocketing it. one day you'll find out that your boyfriend isnt as great as you think so until then keep your head borrowed in the sand :rolleyes:
You've completely assumed stuff there and you haven't read all my messages. My boyfriend hasn't robbed a car in years, he's been working at the same place now for about the same time, loves his job and has never once knicked from there.
About a year ago he had his car knicked himself, from someone who he used to knick cars with, he knows he completely deserved that.
He doesn't associate in ANY way with ANY of the people he used to do these things with, he hates them.
Please stop going so mad about this, it really is upsetting me. You can't know the whole story about someone when you're on the web. I couldn't ask for a better boyfriend, no ones ever made me this happy.

[princessamy]

Originally posted by *§atania*
MY ex used to be a 'bad boy' but he wasn't to me if you know what I mean. He used to be sooo nice to me and treat me so sweetly but all the guyz at skool where scared shitless of him 'cuz they knew he could beat the shit out of them (and I spose he did live up to that rep.)

Yeah, it makes you feel extra special when the blokes bad to other people. Not as if it's good that they're like that but it really does make you feel special.

[*§atania*]

Originally posted by princessamy
no ones ever made me this happy.
And that's all you need, and you're lucky to have found some one like that.:)

[Lexxie*]

play it mean, keep em keen

[*TiNK*]

Im into bad boys a lot, i wish i wasnt though :(

[BumbleBee]

I must be the only person who doesn't find 'bad boys' attractive. In bed, yes. In a relationship? Nope. I prefer someone who is neither a pushover or a bad boy... I prefer a happy medium!

[wheresmyplacebo]

I must be the only person who doesn't find 'bad boys' attractive. In bed, yes. In a relationship? Nope. I prefer someone who is neither a pushover or a bad boy... I prefer a happy medium!

ah you can be naughty in bed and a respectable person out of the bed, unless you go outside that is :p

Originally posted by princessamy
Yeah, it makes you feel extra special when the blokes bad to other people. Not as if it's good that they're like that but it really does make you feel special.

huh your twisted i think i was right on the hitler thing, not to ruin your happiness, but your seriously f**ked up to want a twat

im proud i dont treat people in general like s**t

it is possible to make a girl feel special without being a ba*tard to everyone else, and im fu*king proud of that too :D


and good night everyone and i think you will like this guy, make you feel special and kill 15 million others whilst your at it

http://www.hitler.org/hitler.jpg

[Tim Bacon]

I don't get it or do I get why girls like Cocky guys.

Chivalry is dead in this country, all girls care about are six pacs, sportscars and a big wedge of cash.

huh your twisted i think i was right on the hitler thing, not to ruin your happiness, but your seriously f**ked up to want a twat

im proud i dont treat people in general like s**t

it is possible to make a girl feel special without being a ba*tard to everyone else, and im fu*king proud of that too
Good post.

I suppose if you are happy with yourself and how you treat people then you will attract the sort of girl you want. If I want to attract skanky whores then I'll start acting like a badboy.

[Zella]

Originally posted by Tim Bacon

all girls care about are six pacs, sportscars and a big wedge of cash.


Yes, thats right tar us ALL with the same brush. We ALL are shallow little gold diggers:rolleyes:

I admit I do have a thing about six packs and toned stomachs but its not gonna make me not go out with someone if they dont have one. I like my men to be nice to me. I couldnt care less about money. I can get that on my own from working. I dont need a guy to get money. And on the car matter...A guy with no car who is willing to wait in the rain at a bus stop with me would get more brownie point from me than a guy that drives me home.

[Carolina]

I don't date doormats but then again i don't date bad boys. I don't respond well to the treat em mean keep em keen routine. I'm too straightforward to bother with mind games or bullshit. Would rather walk away than get involved with a bad boy.

There is a fine line as with everything else in life. You can be a nice person who respects others and has manners without being a doormat or boring. The key is knowing when to put your foot down and stick up for yourself without being unreasonable.

[*§atania*]

Originally posted by Tim Bacon
all girls care about are six pacs, sportscars and a big wedge of cash.

You're the shallow one if you're gonna make that generalised assumption..?!!


If I want to attract skanky whores then I'll start acting like a badboy.

Uh, you SOUND like a freakin "bad boy" by calling any 'kind' of women skanky whores..

[Sparklie]

I like bad boys as long as they treat me fine.
I'm not talking about criminals or anything like that but I don't mind a guy who's a little rough around the edges...it makes things more interesting.
Then again you usually find that even if they have the bad boy reputation if they love you they treat you perfectly

[lucifer devil]

Sometimes someone can be too nice. You'd think it was a good thing, but it's not. :no:

[David Grohl]

lucifer,i know what you mean

[Sparklie]

yep I get you too...sometimes it just tends to piss you off

[wheresmyplacebo]

we not on about guys who are walkovers, well i dont want girls who are easy either, i want someone whose themselves, like im sure most girls want to?

or as that god awful song goes if i in a mood like last night....
girls dont want boys, girls want cars and money


Originally posted by *§atania*
Uh, you SOUND like a freakin "bad boy" by calling any 'kind' of women skanky whores..



no theres skanky female whores like theres skanky male whores so what so wrong with what he said!?

[Kermit]

I'm on about pushovers, and I started the thread after all.

I know what you mean lucifer devil, there's nothing worse than somebody who will do anything for you. Takes all the fun and interest out of life.

If we didn't bicker all the time I don't know what we'd do:D