Clit

[angel1886]

Hey ive heared about where it is still I explore an you know nothing there thats really that sensative. Think I should try harder being single an all nope im not getting it! Just really not sure what to do. My ex use to be able to turn me on but I just cant seem to turn myself on that well a bit but not majorly. Humph. Any ideas what to do?

[spongebobsgirl]

everyone's different, and often for people the fact that its another person touching them, is half the turn on! Some people are very sensitive to clitoral stimulation, others aren't. maybe you need to do a few different things at once. Have you tried watching/reading erotica (porn, lol :lol: ) b4??? that, for some people, can have a very arousing effect - meaning their bodies become more sensitive to touch, no matter whos doing it :naughty:

[Mist]

Originally posted by angel1886
Any ideas what to do?

Well it could be that you cannot do it yourself. You can only experiment, cos noone is going to know how you work better than yourself.

Are you exposing the clitoris from under the hood when you play with it?

[angel1886]

It has names like hood? Sorry I haven't done clit talk.:(

[spongebobsgirl]

Originally posted by angel1886
It has names like hood? Sorry I haven't done clit talk.:(

yeah its a little flap of skin that covers it (in a wierd way, sorta like a guy's foreskin). When you're turned on, you'll be able to see it peeking out more :D

[Mist]

Here are some pictures of a woman's special area

http://www.the-clitoris.com/n_html/n_anat_3.htm

http://www.the-clitoris.com/

[angel1886]

Ok now I think I am doing something wrong get the area I think just not the peaking out bit. Now I sound silly. Just never been too intrested in it!

[Zella]

Run your fingers up from your hole and when you feel a lil knobby bit where the lips join at the top that feels sensative thats your clit. Ta daaaa!

[blonde__batman]

i was just looking at those pictures on the link there and i feel so stupid now...i always thought the hymen was inside u :blush:

[Mr_Wobble]

I'm amazed you haven't discovered your clit, or the pleasure it can bring. I would've thought it'd be automatic to just play with yourself, and strok around until you found out what would please you. That's how most people start masturbation. "Oooo - I have a funny feeling there, it feels good when I rub/stroke it" And they sort of carry on from there. :)

[swank]

*gone*

[blonde__batman]

Originally posted by swank
me 2 :p

atleast im not the only one....i get confused cos u hear 'oh i was inside her, then i felt the resistance from her hymen' makes it sound like its inside!

[angel1886]

Is there like a flappy bit of skin covering it? Like not exactly massive but its there in front of the whole kina shaped up an down again. Hard to explain. I just cant find anything that sensative! I mean I wouldn't go punching myself.

[Mist]

Originally posted by angel1886
Is there like a flappy bit of skin covering it?

More than likely.

[~kaz~]

That would be the hood of your clit I think.

[angel1886]

Originally posted by spongebobsgirl
yeah its a little flap of skin that covers it (in a wierd way, sorta like a guy's foreskin). When you're turned on, you'll be able to see it peeking out more :D

It peeks out where? I didn't think the flap was that long! hehe its under there? Anyway i did some exploring I can't remember finding anything amazing. Give it another go I guess. I just stay dry an yea.

[prettynpink]

:naughty: The best way to find it is do what I did... go buy a vibrator and play w/ it left and right up and down..and beleive me you will find it ..... :hyper:

[LeeTonberry]

Originally posted by prettynpink
:naughty: The best way to find it is do what I did... go buy a vibrator and play w/ it left and right up and down..and beleive me you will find it ..... :hyper:

Oh shut up you silly moo, no one wants to read your silly little posts!

now bog off :)

[Tim Bacon]

Originally posted by LeeTonberry
Oh shut up you silly moo, no one wants to read your silly little posts!

now bog off :)
I want to read them :lol: :crazyeyes ;)

[littlemissy]

Originally posted by LeeTonberry
Oh shut up you silly moo, no one wants to read your silly little posts!

now bog off :)

harsh :rolleyes:

[Kermit]

Originally posted by LeeTonberry
Oh shut up you silly moo, no one wants to read your silly little posts!

now bog off :)

:yes:

Thank you!

[Kermit]

Remember, of course, that the biggest sexual organ is the brain. You'll only be aroused by touching yourself if you want to be, truly.

The clitoris is at the top of the vagina, where the labia meet. It is normally underneath a small bit of skin, only a few millimetres along, but when you are aroused there is more blood in the vagina, and this makes the clitoris swell slightly and come oput from under the skin.

The hymen is normally just isnide the inner labia, it isn't far inside at all. Remember that most porn stories are written by men who have never had sex, and most likely never will do.

[Kermit]

Oh, goodnes, I almost forgot the obligatory

If you can't find it I'll come and show you :naughty:

post :rolleyes:

[LeeTonberry]

Originally posted by Kermit
:yes:

Thank you!

Any time Kermit

[angel1886]

Humm im silly? Or someone else? Sorry if I am the one whos been annoying.

[Kermit]

Originally posted by angel1886
Humm im silly? Or someone else? Sorry if I am the one whos been annoying.

No, not you.

The silly moron who writes in pink the whole time:)

[angel1886]

Ah right ok. Thanks by the way Kermit yeah I just don't think im too turned on by me touching me therefore not so sensative. I mean sometimes I feel like it but yeah. Maybe its just not for me hehe. I like a bloke touching me more me thinks. Porn maybe good.

[Kermit]

And if your fret about finding your clit you won't be aroused.

Just stroke yourself, see what you like. Some girls find the clit too sensitive to touch, they prefer strokingh the labia.

Rather than porn try reading erotic stories; some on literotica are quite good, though not all.

[spanner]

This feature on clitoris confidence (http://www.thesite.org/youthnet/jsp/polopoly.jsp?d=264&a=2416) may help you out - and get some good lube if you're having problems with dryness - it will help things along no end!

Hannah Spanner

Oh yes, just to add: we have the colour options there for a reason - so people can USE them - so stop being so bloody possessive about these boards.