Missing

[~lil*butterfly~]

On Friday my boyfriend went missing. Hes had a few worries but I thought he was coping Ok, he isn't really one to talk about his feelings. On Thursday night he was with me and we had a nice night and he said to phone him the next day as I was supposed to be staying over on Friday. On Friday he was supposed to hand in a form but he didn't hand it in, which means he won't be able to go to Africa for 2 months like he'd planned. Then he just disapeared. None of his friends or family have seen him. I've phoned and text but no answer. What do I do now? Do you think this means he doesn't want me anymore?

[Capacity]

Originally posted by ~lil*butterfly~
On Friday my boyfriend went missing. Hes had a few worries but I thought he was coping Ok, he isn't really one to talk about his feelings. On Thursday night he was with me and we had a nice night and he said to phone him the next day as I was supposed to be staying over on Friday. On Friday he was supposed to hand in a form but he didn't hand it in, which means he won't be able to go to Africa for 2 months like he'd planned. Then he just disapeared. None of his friends or family have seen him. I've phoned and text but no answer. What do I do now? Do you think this means he doesn't want me anymore?

Not at all. Sometimes peoples worries just get on top of them so much that they can't think of any alternative than to just walk away from it all. How old is he? If none of his friends or family have seen him, have you called the police? Has he ever done anything like this before? I can't really offer more advice without knowing more about the situation, sorry.

[Simba T Lion]

personally i'd be more worried if hes ok since nobody has had any contact with him in 2 days than if he still wants you.

[~lil*butterfly~]

I'm not too worried because hes 20 years old, 6'3 and used to looking after himself. He was homeless as a teenager and so hes used to moving around a lot and sleeping on friends floors. I'm guessing hes staying with someone I don't know about. On Friday night I got a silent call no number which I presume was him, so I know hes alive. I've text him saying that no ones angry or dissapointed in him but no one has heard anything not even his brother who he is very close to. He hasn't done anything like this before.

[**grunge gurl**]

Wouldn't the obvious thing to do be phone the police? Surely you are more worried about weather he is still alive rather than if he stills wants you or not?

[twisted_trinity]

register him missing, alert the police, find his address book.

i have had mates go missing before now, and they have returned a few days later, but you never know.

[spongebobsgirl]

Originally posted by ~lil*butterfly~
On Friday my boyfriend went missing. Hes had a few worries but I thought he was coping Ok, he isn't really one to talk about his feelings. On Thursday night he was with me and we had a nice night and he said to phone him the next day as I was supposed to be staying over on Friday. On Friday he was supposed to hand in a form but he didn't hand it in, which means he won't be able to go to Africa for 2 months like he'd planned. Then he just disapeared. None of his friends or family have seen him. I've phoned and text but no answer. What do I do now? Do you think this means he doesn't want me anymore?

to me it doesnt sound like he doesnt want you anymore, more that everything's got on top of him+he needs his own space for abit. even so, i think you should register him as missing, possibly ring his mobile b4 and tell him you love him, but you're so worried you're going to contact the police. this might make him realise that he's missed+every1's there for him.
Pity about his africa trip tho, that sucks. could you not hand in the form on his behalf, if you can get it+explain things. Perhaps they'd accept it?? :confused:

[~lil*butterfly~]

He turned up. I was going to phone the police on Monday. I'd left a message saying that I was going to phone the police and then on Monday he text me back. He was at someones house, just lying low. He said it was because he was worried if he went away I'd forget about him. He may still be able to go. I'm just really relieved hes OK.

[*TiNK*]

Glad he turned up :)

[spongebobsgirl]

Originally posted by ~lil*butterfly~
He said it was because he was worried if he went away I'd forget about him. He may still be able to go. I'm just really relieved hes OK.

well obviously uve proved that wrong, cos u were really worried bout him. hope he realises how much u care. So glad he turned up :D