ive had enough

[blonde__batman]

i have had enough of stupid blokes. i really just, i wanna scream.
everytime i get into a relationship i just get mucked out etc and ive had enough now.
my most recent ex, we broke up almost a month ago now, but from last week till today i've been finding out more and more little bits about him.
he's with someone else now, who to start with i was told he'd met the weekend after him and i broke up, which was bad enough cos it meant they were together less than a week after we'd broken up.
it would have also meant that after i'd stupidly spent the night there and he'd told me how much he missed me and wanted me back etc he'd then go out that night and met her.

but no.

he actually met her before we even broken up. so when he broke up with me and told me he still felt the same about me etc it was all lies. as it seems was everything else he's ever said to me.


dont want any advice, just wanted to rant. feel free to add your stories about the opposite sex

[DG]

Chelle, they say what goes around ... comes around .. he'll get his.

:)

[Ertrael]

Originally posted by DiamondGeezer
Chelle, they say what goes around ... comes around .. he'll get his.

:)
So true, just have to learn from your mistakes as they say.

[blonde__batman]

Originally posted by Ertrael
So true, just have to learn from your mistakes as they say.

get out of my thread scott

[Capacity]

Originally posted by blonde__batman

dont want any advice, just wanted to rant. feel free to add your stories about the opposite sex

I knew a girl once. She was going with the best looking guy in town. She was messed around.

I knew another girl. She was going with the 2nd best looking guy in town. She was messed around.

Then there was another. She went out with the 3rd best looking guy in town. She was messed around.

The 1st, 2nd and 3rd best looking guys had been the best looking boys, teenagers and young men through their life. They had grown up used to pretty girls throwing themselves at them. Consequently, at a young aged they learnt that they could have whoever they want because every girl would always adore them. And should a girl fall out with them, they could say "sorry" and not mean it, and then the girl would adore them again and tell the world that he had a "sensitive" side.

When the boys got older, they realised that they didn't only have to stick to one girl because there would always be more. They also learnt that the more they treated girls like shit, the more they loved them. It seemed like a crazy world we lived in but they didn't mind. All of the girls kept throwing themselves at the guys, then they went through an "all-chaps-are-pricks" period but after they went for another guy who they knew was the same.

The story doesn't have an ending.

[blonde__batman]

Originally posted by DiamondGeezer
Chelle, they say what goes around ... comes around .. he'll get his.

:)


im sure he wont, people like him never do

[blonde__batman]

Originally posted by Capacity
I knew a girl once. She was going with the best looking guy in town. She was messed around.

I knew another girl. She was going with the 2nd best looking guy in town. She was messed around.

Then there was another. She went out with the 3rd best looking guy in town. She was messed around.

The 1st, 2nd and 3rd best looking guys had been the best looking boys, teenagers and young men through their life. They had grown up used to pretty girls throwing themselves at them. Consequently, at a young aged they learnt that they could have whoever they want because every girl would always adore them. And should a girl fall out with them, they could say "sorry" and not mean it, and then the girl would adore them again and tell the world that he had a "sensitive" side.

When the boys got older, they realised that they didn't only have to stick to one girl because there would always be more. They also learnt that the more they treated girls like shit, the more they loved them. It seemed like a crazy world we lived in but they didn't mind. All of the girls kept throwing themselves at the guys, then they went through an "all-chaps-are-pricks" period but after they went for another guy who they knew was the same.

The story doesn't have an ending.

that sounds just like me, they start off lovely, then they are twats, then they say sorry, then i forgive them thinking they wont do it again, then they are twats, then they say sorry etc etc

[DG]

Originally posted by blonde__batman
im sure he wont, people like him never do

Oh they do .. My old flatmate used to go out with like 5 girls at once...

Then one of them turned out to be phycho and stalked him for years even after they broke up.

Even when he got married she would phone his new inlaws and say she was pregnant by him even though she'd not been anywhere near him in a year.

Now he knows he should never have messed all those girls around

[blonde__batman]

Originally posted by DiamondGeezer
Oh they do .. My old flatmate used to go out with like 5 girls at once...

Then one of them turned out to be phycho and stalked him for years even after they broke up.

Even when he got married she would phone his new inlaws and say she was pregnant by him even though she'd not been anywhere near him in a year.

Now he knows he should never have messed all those girls around


he wont care, aslong as he gets his sex he'll b happy

[Capacity]

Nope. She's right. He won't, and people like him never do.

As long as there are girls to throw themselves at him, he will be doing just fine. For the next 15 - 20 years he'll be ok. "What goes around, comes around" really just goes on top of the bullshit pile along with "the bigger they are, the harder they fall" and various others.

[Ertrael]

Originally posted by blonde__batman
he wont care, aslong as he gets his sex he'll b happy
seriously though, thats not always the case.
Sometimes the bloke is looking for more than just sex but things dont seem to go any further than that cause he just done feel the same way. So he keeps you on till the time is right for him to move on to someone else... it falls down to a fear of being single.

[BumbleBee]

Originally posted by Capacity
Nope. She's right. He won't, and people like him never do.

As long as there are girls to throw themselves at him, he will be doing just fine. For the next 15 - 20 years he'll be ok. "What goes around, comes around" really just goes on top of the bullshit pile along with "the bigger they are, the harder they fall" and various others.

I disagree, I honestly think that in the end everyone gets there just desserts, it might take years and years and years, but eventually it'll happen. It might not even be obvious to the outside world that it has, but they'll know and it'll hit them hard.

[blonde__batman]

Originally posted by BumbleBee
I disagree, I honestly think that in the end everyone gets there just desserts, it might take years and years and years, but eventually it'll happen. It might not even be obvious to the outside world that it has, but they'll know and it'll hit them hard.

well i hope it does, and i hope everyone who's ever fucked me over gets wat they deserve

[Ertrael]

Originally posted by BumbleBee
I disagree, I honestly think that in the end everyone gets there just desserts, it might take years and years and years, but eventually it'll happen. It might not even be obvious to the outside world that it has, but they'll know and it'll hit them hard.
well put, but sometimes it happens with out hitting to hard but still enough to make em stop and think.

[Capacity]

Originally posted by BumbleBee
I disagree, I honestly think that in the end everyone gets there just desserts, it might take years and years and years, but eventually it'll happen. It might not even be obvious to the outside world that it has, but they'll know and it'll hit them hard.

I think what you've just described is known as 'wishful thinking'.

What really happens: bad things happen to everyone in their life. There is no possible way that nothing bad can happen in a lifetime. This is not them getting their just desserts, this is them living their lives which will have been slightly inconvenienced at some point.

All it means, is that because of their way of life and because of the way that all members of the opposite sex worship them, they will recover from any bad experiences much quicker and happier than the 'victims'.

Some karma.

[BumbleBee]

Originally posted by Capacity

All it means, is that because of their way of life and because of the way that all members of the opposite sex worship them, they will recover from any bad experiences much quicker and happier than the 'victims'.

But people like that are never really happy, I don't reckon.

[blonde__batman]

Originally posted by BumbleBee
But people like that are never really happy, I don't reckon.

hes happy i promise u, his big group of friends, his great job, everyone loves him, and he's got any girl he wants

[paperdoll]

just take a break from guys just now, for a while and focus on yourself, and getting over the most recent twat.

if you go from relationship to relationship to relationship as you tend to do (sorry, not being harsh), youre not giving yourself time to really look, and find a nice, good decent guy.

[blonde__batman]

Originally posted by paperdoll
just take a break from guys just now, for a while and focus on yourself, and getting over the most recent twat.

if you go from relationship to relationship to relationship as you tend to do (sorry, not being harsh), youre not giving yourself time to really look, and find a nice, good decent guy.

i know your right, but before this one i'd been single since feb and i was over him, i wasnt even looking for anyone.
but yeah im off men now, for i dont know how long

[*TiNK*]

Hun, dont worry. Somewhere along the line, something bad will happen to him. People like him always get their commupence (i cant spell it but i know wot i mean), trust me. :)

[Carolina]

In my humble opinion those type of blokes round here tend to end up as sad fuc* lonely 50 year olds still trawling the clubs thinking they're 30 or married to some dolly bird and playing the field still. There are however exceptions. Like those that meet their match and actually manage to fall for someone.

I tend to have no problems from players as they avoid me like the plague. Too much like hardwork according to a couple of my male friends.

[lucifer devil]

I'm gonna join your rant. :(

I can't be arsed to explain it, but it's a rant anyhow.

[Carolina]

Originally posted by lucifer devil
I'm gonna join your rant. :(

I can't be arsed to explain it, but it's a rant anyhow.

I resisted the rant, it would have started me off for the rest of the day ;)

[ryoko_rock]

Originally posted by blonde__batman
i have had enough of stupid blokes. i really just, i wanna scream.
everytime i get into a relationship i just get mucked out etc and ive had enough now.
my most recent ex, we broke up almost a month ago now, but from last week till today i've been finding out more and more little bits about him.
he's with someone else now, who to start with i was told he'd met the weekend after him and i broke up, which was bad enough cos it meant they were together less than a week after we'd broken up.
it would have also meant that after i'd stupidly spent the night there and he'd told me how much he missed me and wanted me back etc he'd then go out that night and met her.

but no.

he actually met her before we even broken up. so when he broke up with me and told me he still felt the same about me etc it was all lies. as it seems was everything else he's ever said to me.


dont want any advice, just wanted to rant. feel free to add your stories about the opposite sex


hmm well ive just found out that my ex, who absolutely broke my heart in january by dumping me, was last month apparantly going to ask me out again cos he realised he wasn't over me. but then he found out that i'd met this other guy, who i am now very happy with.

i kno it shouldn't affct me, but it does. firstly, why the hell is my ex such an indecisive prick??!! oh yeah, and he now has a girlfriend, it's like he has to be even with me. grrrrrrrrrr.

[1983]

Originally posted by blonde__batman
dont want any advice, just wanted to rant.

LMAO! I misread that as "just wanted to fart". Har.

[blonde__batman]

Originally posted by 1983
LMAO! I misread that as "just wanted to fart". Har.

:p

[lucifer devil]

Originally posted by Carolina
I resisted the rant, it would have started me off for the rest of the day ;)

Rest of the year more like. :(

[Cute_Baby_Bear]

Some men can be complete and utter mind fucks, only caring about what they want and not caring about who they hurt in the process.

And no, Scott, im not referring to you in this post. Have just had a mate on the phone in tears cos her boyfriend has been playing her for the last 3 months with 4 other girls...

[blonde__batman]

its the third time its happened to me....you'd think i'd learn!

[junker]

Again, nice guys finish last.



I do agree though. Men for the most part are ignorant, selfish, assholes. That's true. We're controlling, unattentive, blatant, deciteful, careless, lazy, rash, testosterone filled pigs.

[Capacity]

Originally posted by junker
Again, nice guys finish last.



I do agree though. Men for the most part are ignorant, selfish, assholes. That's true. We're controlling, unattentive, blatant, deciteful, careless, lazy, rash, testosterone filled pigs.

And I believe that if you are like that, then have a happy life. Just refrain from labeling me the same.

[Carolina]

Originally posted by Cute_Baby_Bear

Have just had a mate on the phone in tears cos her boyfriend has been playing her for the last 3 months with 4 other girls...

In all those 3 months did she not get even slightly suspicious though?

[lucifer devil]

Originally posted by blonde__batman
its the third time its happened to me....you'd think i'd learn!


don't feel like that, it's not your fault. you can't help it if you like someone and they're all nice to you and then....:(

just keep your chin up. :)

[Cute_Baby_Bear]

Originally posted by Carolina
In all those 3 months did she not get even slightly suspicious though?

She was suspicious of him getting close to one other girl, but when asked about it he totally denied it, and she trusted him. She definitely wasn't expecting him to be with 4 other girls... poor thing.

[blonde__batman]

Originally posted by lucifer devil


just keep your chin up. :)


*holds up chin*

[lucifer devil]

i think you should have some you time, go out and have some fun. it'll do you the world of good.

[junker]

Originally posted by Capacity
And I believe that if you are like that, then have a happy life. Just refrain from labeling me the same.

I'm generalizing quite a bit, excuse me.

Yes there are a few of us out there that know we wouldn't defile a hair on our lover's body.

But some men are just trash, obvious or not. Some can hide it very well, other's are blatantly egotistical, sex driven fanatics. It's just the plain and simple truth.

[blonde__batman]

Originally posted by junker
Some can hide it very well, other's are blatantly egotistical, sex driven fanatics.

i seem to atract the ones who hide it well but once its over its obvious they were blatenty egotistical, sex driven wankers!

[junker]

Yes...

damn them :(

[Eeyun]

Yes it's always the damn men who are like this. No women ever do that do they? Men & Women headfucks together!

[Capacity]

Originally posted by Eeyun
Yes it's always the damn men who are like this. No women ever do that do they? Men & Women headfucks together!

Nobody forces you to get these "damn men". It seems from all of these posts that women can spot them from a mile off, but still they go for them knowing exactly what will happen. As soon as it does, men get the rant and the blame all over again. One day someones going to say something like; women deserve all the emotional trauma they get when they know what men are like and still go for them anyway. And as soon as someone says it, I imagine that people (not women of course) will start agreeing.

If a guy goes out with the #1 whore of the city, he accepts that there is a chance that she's going to cheat on him with another man. On top of this, all the other girls will group round him in a big circle while pointing and laughing "I told you so", figuratively speaking. Why is the scenario so different for women?

[Ertrael]

typical case of double standards...
same as blokes who sleep around aint frowned upon as much as women doing it..

[blonde__batman]

Originally posted by Capacity

If a guy goes out with the #1 whore of the city, he accepts that there is a chance that she's going to cheat on him with another man.

yeah if he knows shes the number one whore then he knows wat he'd letting himself in for. but most of the time u just dont know, people seem so nice and its only wen u've fallen for them that they turn out to be tossers

[Capacity]

Originally posted by blonde__batman
yeah if he knows shes the number one whore then he knows wat he'd letting himself in for. but most of the time u just dont know, people seem so nice and its only wen u've fallen for them that they turn out to be tossers

...Assuming that you've met them for the first time and you know nothing about them, then I'd slightly agree with you. If you know the bloke in the slightest you'll know if he has a reputation for doing what he does, for example; if you go to college with him you'll know what he's been like with other women. Even if you don't, you'll still be able to tell.

Women don't care dick at the time. They only care after when they're suffering from their apparent "huge" loss.

[blonde__batman]

Originally posted by Capacity
...Assuming that you've met them for the first time and you know nothing about them, then I'd slightly agree with you. If you know the bloke in the slightest you'll know if he has a reputation for doing what he does, for example; if you go to college with him you'll know what he's been like with other women. Even if you don't, you'll still be able to tell.

Women don't care dick at the time. They only care after when they're suffering from their apparent "huge" loss.


thats not true. my ex who this is all orginally about, my mate knew him for a while before i met him and knew nothing of what he was like, and it took me until after we broke up to find out what he was really like.
so what u said doesnt fit

[Ertrael]

Originally posted by Capacity
...Assuming that you've met them for the first time and you know nothing about them, then I'd slightly agree with you. If you know the bloke in the slightest you'll know if he has a reputation for doing what he does, for example; if you go to college with him you'll know what he's been like with other women. Even if you don't, you'll still be able to tell.

Women don't care dick at the time. They only care after when they're suffering from their apparent "huge" loss.
thats a very interesting point....

[blonde__batman]

Originally posted by Capacity
Women don't care dick at the time. They only care after when they're suffering from their apparent "huge" loss.

and i do 'care dick' at the time, i wouldnt ever get with someone if i knew at the time that in a few weeks time he'd turn round and hurt me.

you've made good points so far but please dont make generalisations

[lucifer devil]

I agree with BB, why should you assume that they're going to treat you badly? Or even if you knew they had a bad reputation (which I've never known about any of the lads that have hurt me), you might be inclined to think they'd changed. Naive, yes. But I've never done it.

[blonde__batman]

Originally posted by lucifer devil
I agree with BB, why should you assume that they're going to treat you badly? Or even if you knew they had a bad reputation (which I've never known about any of the lads that have hurt me), you might be inclined to think they'd changed. Naive, yes. But I've never done it.

yeah, i've known people to think that can change the 'bad boys' and that it'll b differnt with them. but they still know deep down what they are really like.

but yeah as lucifer said, why should you assume they would treat you badly?

[Ertrael]

Originally posted by blonde__batman
yeah, i've known people to think that can change the 'bad boys' and that it'll b differnt with them. but they still know deep down what they are really like.

but yeah as lucifer said, why should you assume they would treat you badly?
cause of the reputation they have... but tbh, having treat women like that in the past i know how easy it is to get a little carried away and lost in the heat of the moment sometimes.

[blonde__batman]

we were talkin about people who have no reputation. people who u have no reason to suspect. read it right before u impose your 'true life' stories on us

[Ertrael]

Originally posted by blonde__batman
we were talkin about people who have no reputation. people who u have no reason to suspect. read it right before u impose your 'true life' stories on us
no need to snap :(

[lucifer devil]

i've never known what someone's reputation was before i've liked them or whatever. and besides, it's not fair to judge someone on how they've been in the past. okay, if they've cheated on ex number of girlfriends and slept with ex number of people then i'd most likely be put off/wary. i'm not saying us girls don't give men any shit, but what i'm not stupid enough to like a person who i think is gonna end up treating me like shit.

[blonde__batman]

yeah i know girls give blokes shit too but i personally never have and never would as i know what it feels like.

everything that has been said can be applied to either sex, this thread isnt just for man bashing

[lucifer devil]

Originally posted by blonde__batman
this thread isnt just for man bashing

Should be. :p ;)

[blonde__batman]

Originally posted by lucifer devil
Should be. :p ;)

lol we can make it a dean bashing thread if u want :p (my ex lol)

[lucifer devil]

Originally posted by blonde__batman
lol we can make it a dean bashing thread if u want :p (my ex lol)

go for it. :D

i won't name names. :(

[blonde__batman]

Originally posted by lucifer devil
go for it. :D

i won't name names. :(

they can just be numbers hehe!

well dean....he's a tosser basically! not much else to say! lol

[lucifer devil]

there's someone out there for you, they'll come along when you're least expecting it. :)

[Carolina]

Unfortunately when they do they'll probably end up being married/seperated with two children and you fall for them big time, vice versa but then everyone realizes that the situation can't go anywhere and you end up finishing it :banghead:

Ooops sorry that'll be me, everyone else seems to have better luck :D :rolleyes: