Annoying ex girlfriend

[RudeBwoy]

hi just a rant really, well my ex girlfriend suggested we stay good friends when she dumped me which i was cool with and have been trying to make the friendship work ever since.

BUT...

Over the last few weeks shes been really moody with me and her mates too, it seems like she dont want anything to do with anyone. Plus i think she gets jealous about me because one of her friends fancy me and told me. Im ok with that, i dont share the same feelings but im ok with it we can stay mates but my ex got very wound up by this and ended up getting extremely pissed off with me and her mate.

Also she seems very annoyed at the fact i have lots of girl mates, most of them i flirt with and they flirt back only as a joke because i guess its a natural thing to do but this really gets on my exs nerves.

Lately iv been thinking that i should just ignore her (my ex) and leave her to do her own thing but she still comes and talks to me whenever she can. Like for example she can talk to me on msn no problem but face to face shes all quiet and cant wait to get away.

I dont know what im asking, but if theres is any advice you can give me can you share it please? Thanking you :)

[Youwantromance?]

It may not seem existant to your right now but i think your ex still has a thing for you my lad. She seems like shes trying to show you that she doesnt care(ignoring you and suchlike) but the jealously and talking on msn beg to differ.

I could be wrong but my ex acted really nasty towards me for a long time but she eventually(2 weeks) asked me back out after she realised she was being silly

[RudeBwoy]

Iv been told by her best mate that she still likes me, but if thats true then what was the point in finishing with me in the first place??

Im going on a weekend away soon with about 8 mates and shes gonna be there, i dunno how shes gonna act but hopefully she will be a little nicer.

Also shes got a habit of hating my girl mates. Why cant us lads understand women ay? :rolleyes:

Thanx for the reply though mate, at least someone understands me :) Hope your all happy with her again now.

[BumbleBee]

Let me get this straight... she dumped you and is then being jealous and controlling?

She has no right. If she still likes you she should just come outright and tell you.

Try talking to her - tell her you're willing to be friends but the moody jealous shit has to stop.

[RudeBwoy]

Originally posted by BumbleBee
Let me get this straight... she dumped you and is then being jealous and controlling?


Thats exactly what shes doing.

I probably will talk to her before we go away but shes the kinda person where if you talk to her about the personal subjects she will get all pissed off, bite your head off and walk away.

I spoke to her just now on msn and she was fine, all happy and cheerful but if we was in person then she wouldnt be so happy. Its strange.

Thanks for your reply.

[natos]

appears to be a case of 'you don't know what you got till it's gone'. As BumbleBee said - she has no right. Happened to me before, and I was always weak enough to give in, just to keep him happy. Don't do it! She finished with you, show her what she's missing but don't go back!

[RudeBwoy]

As much as i would like to get back with her, i wouldnt. I cant put myself through that pain again and i dont wanna satisfy her because she dont deserve it. She seems to wanna make me stop being friends with everyone and its pissing me off.

She really needs to get over herself, im over it so why cant she do the same.

Thanks for the replys, glad you understand :)