another girl

[dizzzy]

my bf has been texting a girl recently and he is going shopping with her on his day off this week, iv got an exam. couple of weeks ago she asked him 2 cinema but he didnt go

am i bein a jealous gf nw???

[DG]

Originally posted by dizzzy
my bf has been texting a girl recently and he is going shopping with her on his day off this week, iv got an exam. couple of weeks ago she asked him 2 cinema but he didnt go

am i bein a jealous gf nw???

why is he taking another girl to the shops? Unless he's buying you a pressie and needs a woman's opinion

[briggi]

I think you're just being a little bit paranoid...understandably though, because he's your fella and he's going somewhere alone with another girl. But it's shopping, you're otherwise engaged, and he's told you about it. When he starts going shopping with other girls and texting them on the sly, that necessitates a bit of suspicion. If it does bother you a lot, then tell him so and if he's worth his salt he'll reassure you and you'll feel a lot better about it.

Just out of curiosity, did he tell you about the texts or did you see them?

[dizzzy]

just to look round apparently.

did try to talkin to him but was more of argument, said they'v been friends for ages, shes had problems and he cares bout her

[Mr_Wobble]

I can't believe he's doing that! Is he some sort of fool? I don't blame you for being jelous and suspicious. Has he any explanation for why they text, or go shopping together. I mean, who is she? An old friend? An ex? A genuine good friend?

[Mr_Wobble]

Originally posted by dizzzy
just to look round apparently.

did try to talkin to him but was more of argument, said they'v been friends for ages, shes had problems and he cares bout her Ah, I see now. Hmmm, still sounds a bit suspicious, but try to contain your jelousy.

[lucifer devil]

I'd be jealous if you found out afterwards and he'd not told you - well, not jealous, more paranoid. Be thankful that he's told you. (:

[Carolina]

How long have you been with him? The reason i ask is because you said he's only just started texting her but surely if they've been friends for ages then you would have known about her from the start?

Sounds like he's just being ignorant really and not thinking of your feelings.

[dizzzy]

9 months,they used to txt lots when i first started seeing him and have started textin more again recently

[dizzzy]

they went 2 cinema 2

:mad:

[Simba T Lion]

if he says its just a friend than maybe it is just a friend. i dont understand it often. people have no problem with their boyfriend goes out with his guys or a girlfriend goes out with her girl friends, but when that person goes out with someone of the opposite sex then its a problem. like he can be friends and go to the theater with men and he can be friends with women but he can't take them to the movies or something? sometimes a friend is just a friend.

[*§atania*]

Omg, I'd be soo pissed off it was with me!.... But then again I'm bery bery jealous lol.

Bollox it'd be good if you could follow them and spy on them, if you didn't have an exam. Though, that would completely undermine the trust in your relationship and ruin it the whole thing basically!...Argh! I'd be so curious though!.....Maybe a friend could go for you..!

Nah alright, seriously now, the fact that he told you makes it less worrying..maybe you should be more worried bout that girl's intentions rather than your bf. If he likes you the way he says then maybe you are getting a little paranoid. But I'd be too!

Best not to go attacking her (or him) though, incase she is really going thru a tough patch, and show your bf you trust him. Many men if they see that their partner are always suspicious and don't trust 'em, will just end up doing exactly what the woman thinks 'cuz she's already suspicious anyways - he might aswell do it ya know!

Hang in there!