*§atania*
14-06-2004, 06:56 PM
Hey, please let me know your opinions on this 'cuz I feel like this whole thing is ruining my relationship with my bf.
Today, my best friend asked if I wanted to go with her (and another one of our girlfriends) to sleep over at this blokes house, some distance away (as he is a friend the best friend that asked me). I thought i'd best check with my boyfriend what he thought of me sleeping over at two random guys house ('cuz I have never met 'em!) 'cuz to be honest am not bothered bout goin and if he said well I'd prefer it if you didn't then I would have not cared. On the contrary i'd have thought it was sweet that he wouldn't want me seelping round some blokes house!
Well I just called him and he was like, yeah go for it. I couldn't believe it. He said he didn't at all mind and couldn't believe I was asking him! When I asked if he wasn't at least a little bit bothered bout the idea he said "No - why should I be?" and that he trusts me so he just wants me to go get drunk and have fun. His words!! I just said that if it was him in that position I'd be a bit pissed off, and then he said Oh thanks don't you trust me? Ofcourse I do, but wouldn't you all feel the same?
Am I making a drama out of this? Or should I be thankful that I've got such a trusting boyfriend? Then he made a little joke about him sleeping over at his ex's but then he was like no honestly I was joking, go and fun. And the thing is, I think he actually wants me to go and have fun. Am afraid he doesn't care bout me anymore. He's acted 'jealous' before when guyz look at me when we're out and stuff but once a friend/guy touched my butt and my boyfriend was right there and I said well aren't you gonna do anything bout it, and he was just like, well what do you want me to do? Beat him up?
I don't understand..my mind is thinking all sorts... :( i feel like a baby and wanna cry :crying: ..am I being stupid?
Today, my best friend asked if I wanted to go with her (and another one of our girlfriends) to sleep over at this blokes house, some distance away (as he is a friend the best friend that asked me). I thought i'd best check with my boyfriend what he thought of me sleeping over at two random guys house ('cuz I have never met 'em!) 'cuz to be honest am not bothered bout goin and if he said well I'd prefer it if you didn't then I would have not cared. On the contrary i'd have thought it was sweet that he wouldn't want me seelping round some blokes house!
Well I just called him and he was like, yeah go for it. I couldn't believe it. He said he didn't at all mind and couldn't believe I was asking him! When I asked if he wasn't at least a little bit bothered bout the idea he said "No - why should I be?" and that he trusts me so he just wants me to go get drunk and have fun. His words!! I just said that if it was him in that position I'd be a bit pissed off, and then he said Oh thanks don't you trust me? Ofcourse I do, but wouldn't you all feel the same?
Am I making a drama out of this? Or should I be thankful that I've got such a trusting boyfriend? Then he made a little joke about him sleeping over at his ex's but then he was like no honestly I was joking, go and fun. And the thing is, I think he actually wants me to go and have fun. Am afraid he doesn't care bout me anymore. He's acted 'jealous' before when guyz look at me when we're out and stuff but once a friend/guy touched my butt and my boyfriend was right there and I said well aren't you gonna do anything bout it, and he was just like, well what do you want me to do? Beat him up?
I don't understand..my mind is thinking all sorts... :( i feel like a baby and wanna cry :crying: ..am I being stupid?