A random question

[funkyhouseboy11]

What's the top things a girl looks for in a guy?

[VinylVicky]

someone that sparks the electric n chemistry in me.

[funkyhouseboy11]

So nothing specificly!

[natos]

someone who makes me laugh is essential. crackin personality is a must.
a good kisser - indicates they may b good at other things. plus there's nothing better than a nice kiss!
umm some kind of sex appeal, they don't have to b drop dead gorgeous, but sometimes there's 'just something about them'.

[Simba T Lion]

if any guy can complete the near impossible task of making me smile then they are a keeper. and i like it if they can make me laugh too. and an impressive stock protforlio and multiple bank accounts are always nice to have. just kidding i'm not like that.

maybe.

[VinylVicky]

Originally posted by funkyhouseboy11
So nothing specificly!
Ok i have a type I like best but I dont look for that type. As looks without chemistry aint worth shit. My bf is exactly my type looks wise but that alone wouldnt keep me. Its the sizzling feeling you get when you're with them. All my exes have never been my "type", admittedly ive never sizzled as much with them!
The way to my heart is share my humour, my bf found all my jokes hilarious the first night i met him. We laugh so much at things that other people find crazy, we finish off each tohers sentences, say the same things at the same time. All these little things do it for me :D

[funkyhouseboy11]

It's weird how many times a girls will always say about having a laugh, & GSOH etc! Out of all the things there could be that is always mentioned. I think I'm quite a funny guy, and nae bad looking too, but a lot of girls seem to laugh at me cos I act silly most times as opposed to laughing at jokes etc that I have. Sounds to me like it would be advisable to read up on some funny stories or summit!!!!

[Madgal99]

we finish off each tohers sentences, say the same things at the same time. All these little things do it for me

Yeah, I know the feeling... :)

[VinylVicky]

Originally posted by Madgal99
Yeah, I know the feeling... :)
great innit?

anyone can be funny and have a wicked sense of humour but its rar u connect on a romantic level.

[Girl_gunner]

see normally i have a type. but the guy i like at the moment is totally opposite lol. well not quite but we like totally different stuff, but we just really click. he's so nice and sweet to me and just..yeh. something about him.:)

[Madgal99]

great innit? anyone can be funny and have a wicked sense of humour but its rar u connect on a romantic level.

Definitely.

[Jaloux]

Well, the first thing I usually notice is a guy's hair. :p I'd also seek for somebody I get along with and who I can be myself around.
Although I'm a bit naïve in the pull/relationship department. ;)

[Iknowyourmum]

This is a bit like, the tax question you ask people if there perpared to pay a bit more tax for better public services thay all say (most) yes, but then they vote for the party that promises them lower tax.
How come no one mentioned looks. shorly thats important.
Girls come on a bit of honesty, what about status, thats important too.

[funkyhouseboy11]

Status as in how much money, what type of job/car etc? or how you come accross with your mates, ie, are you the wee wezel in the corner or the main man?

[natos]

what if u go for a guy for looks an status and then they lose it, in the way of confidence, or looks? obviously in a lot of cases these r important, but they have to have the personality to match.

[Olive]

Originally posted by Iknowyourmum
How come no one mentioned looks. shorly thats important.
Girls come on a bit of honesty, what about status, thats important too.

looks, yes. i have to be attracted to him. not saying he has to be brad pitt, but the way he looks has to appeal to me.

status, money, and that kind of business, no. i wouldn't be with mr. kaff if any of that mattered to me. i'd rather have someone who enjoys their job, even if they're a toilet cleaner. at least then they'll be cheerful.

[funkyhouseboy11]

Well here's my lowdown....

just turned 24
living with parents
Sales job in a very respectable company (about 14.5k year) + excellent prospects for a move upto 16k shortly with possible £300 month bonus
No car but can drive
Looking to move out but couldn't do on my own so prob have to wait and see if I find a partner
Very popular (not boasting, just the way it is)
GSOH, I think
In debt though, quite a lot!! Is that a major factor you think????
and ok looking I think, check me out on my faceparty link below (if it's working??? Might have to copy and paste!

A bit of a mixed bag eh, worst things I'd say for attracting a woman there or keeping a long term one would be debt and still staying with the folks eh???? oh, and am a bit insecure and lack self confidence so be nice about my pics!

[Freyja]

the 'click' is the most important thing, when something just works. My boyfriend and I have been on and off for ages, and sometimes things have been crap, but when we get our act together I feel totally excellent with him. We're as different as people can be:
me-him
quiet-loud
not into fashion-brand conscious
artist-business man
pacifist-not so pacifist
environmentalist-not too bothered
atheist scientist-religious

quite different! but we just click! I think I'll find myself fighting through all sorts of crap, no matter the problem, just for that click! Its the click that counts! Sorry to blabber, its cos I love him so much!

[Carolina]

I know what my type is, but i have never really seemed to stick with it to be truthful, boredom provokes you to date arseholes :)

Saying that though i've now ended up with my type. I've found someone who doesn't mind who my friends are, gets on with them, doesn't mind if i drink, is extremely proud of the fact that i can play pool like a man, makes me comfortable and relaxed all the time, stands up to me when he needs to but most of all thinks i look like an angel even when it's 1am and my curly hair has fuzzed due to excess rain and having to resuce his pissed up sorry arse :lol:

That is my type completely. Alright he has faults and it probably won't last as there's a lot of things standing in the way but hey carpe diem.